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Don't stick your dick in crazy, gentlemen

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Phantom

Phantom

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User Banned (3 months): Misogyny
Title.

So yea, it's not worth it. Dated this girl for a week and had to block her earlier today.

  • Actually told me she couldn't accept I was still friends with my EX on FB (with whom I lived for more than a decade)
  • Still had feelings for her own EX, whom she dumped because he didn't want to leave his place due to COVID-19
  • Has a girl (I didn't mind that much), then again the father is still in the picture and sleeps at her place 2-3x a week
  • Doesn't work nor doesn't want to and lives in social housing (I was willing to be comprehensive)
  • Told me she loved me before even seeing me IRL
  • Couldn't understand why I didn't want to fuck her on our first date, said I wasn't serious enough (lol what?)
  • Liked and even commented 10+ years old pics of me on my EX's FB account
The list goes on.

If someone requires you to make huge changes to your lifestyle, run. Also, think with your brain rather than your dick.

Anyone with a similar story?
 
jwk94

jwk94

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Oct 25, 2017
13,422
Yeah, always be careful who you date. Gotta pay attention to red flags.
 
Z-Beat

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She sounds like she has some baggage OP but she doesn't sound too cra-
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Told me she loved me before even seeing me IRL
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MoonScented

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...so, why did you sleep with her then? XD

I gave a girl my number on Tinder and she's called me 37 times in 3 days and text even more. Never experienced that before. I don't know how people get like that. I just blocked her number and unmatched.
 
shintoki

shintoki

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Oct 25, 2017
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If you do it twice, it cancels out. Leave it at evens and you're good. That's my story and I'm sticking to it!

Serious, maybe not do it once you hit one of those reasons.
 
NTGYK

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Phantom said:
Title.

So yea, it's not worth it. Dated this girl for a week and had to block her earlier today.

  • Actually told me she couldn't accept I was still friends with my EX on FB (with whom I lived for more than a decade)
  • Still had feelings for her own EX, whom she dumped because he didn't want to leave his place due to COVID-19
  • Has a girl (I didn't mind that much), then again the father is still in the picture and sleeps at her place 2-3x a week
  • Doesn't work nor doesn't want to and lives in social housing (I was willing to be comprehensive)
  • Told me she loved me before even seeing me IRL
  • Couldn't understand why I didn't want to fuck her on our first date, said I wasn't serious enough (lol what?)
  • Liked and even commented 10+ years old pics of me on my EX's FB account
The list goes on.

If someone requires you to make huge changes to your lifestyle, run. Also, think with your brain rather than your dick.

Anyone with a similar story?
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Um.

Yes.

Not that bad, but yeah, I learned the hard way, don't stick your dick in crazy.

Especially if she's a virgin with a bunch of conservative family hangups
 

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Phantom said:
Title.

So yea, it's not worth it. Dated this girl for a week and had to block her earlier today.

  • Actually told me she couldn't accept I was still friends with my EX on FB (with whom I lived for more than a decade)
  • Still had feelings for her own EX, whom she dumped because he didn't want to leave his place due to COVID-19
  • Has a girl (I didn't mind that much), then again the father is still in the picture and sleeps at her place 2-3x a week
  • Doesn't work nor doesn't want to and lives in social housing (I was willing to be comprehensive)
  • Told me she loved me before even seeing me IRL
  • Couldn't understand why I didn't want to fuck her on our first date, said I wasn't serious enough (lol what?)
  • Liked and even commented 10+ years old pics of me on my EX's FB account
The list goes on.

If someone requires you to make huge changes to your lifestyle, run. Also, think with your brain rather than your dick.

Anyone with a similar story?
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Was it good at least?
 
TaySan

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She hasn't even met you yet and says she loves you. O.O How long have you been talking to her? Anyways sounds like you dodged a bullet.
 
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Phantom

Phantom

Writer at Jeux.ca
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Daytak said:
I'll be honest, I don't even know how you got past point #2, dumping someone for trying to be responsible is WILD
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Didn't know about it until very recently.

I had a feeling it was going to be crazy territory when I blocked her the first time on FB and she sent me a message with another account. I learned that day she actually had three accounts on the platform, probably because she's used to get blocked by sane guys.

As for why I did it, I might have problems of my own. But when your ex texts you because this one girl has liked tons of pictures she took years ago, it's kind of a wake up call. She actually told me to pull out (lol) before it would cause real damage. I'm glad she did, because I needed to be reminded it was not normal...
 
Verelios

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Oct 26, 2017
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What part of that story didn't make you want to run away? There's a lot more to take in than lifestyle changes, god damn.
 
DeliciousSunnyD!

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Oct 31, 2017
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Uh yeah, OP. A lot of the things you list are huge red flags, especially the saying "I love you" without even meeting in person.
 
Daysean

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Nov 15, 2017
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Surprised the thread title is still framed this way

" Told me she loved me before even seeing me IRL "
Big noo
 
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