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Cheesebu

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This is not a huge deal, I just got one of those *Anyways* faces from her and I'm trying to figure out which part of this situation bugged her.

So last night we are making some drinks, and she asks me to pull up the recipe we've been using on my phone, in my photos. This is the convo more or less.

Me: hmm, can't seem to find it, I'll just google it.

Her: It's got to be one of your most recent photos, it was just like a week ago right?

Me: Yea but I was going through *model*s Instagram and screen capped a bunch of photos both before and after that recipe photo lol.

Her: It's on Instagram, why would you need to screen cap it?

Me: She seems like the sort of person who would delete her insta and I really like some of the more candid shots.

Her: *Anyways* face (eyebrows up, looks away, changes convo).

My wife gives zero fucks about what I look at from models to porn to onlyfans to cam sites. And to be clear, these are in no way racy photos. Many of them are just in vintage or 80s/90s fashion. She actually follows this model as well. Why precisely did this annoy her?

1). The fact that I saved the pics because I didn't want to "lose" them.

2). The idea that I might have a photo folder filled with pictures that aren't of us.

3). Possibly the age of the model? She is not underage of course, and like I said my wife follows her as well, but she's certainly younger than we are.

4). Revealing this info during "us" time.

5). All of the above, Ya dingus.
 

Garp TXB

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Would need her side of the story, and much more context and personality backgrounds for both of you.

Or just number 5 based on your info
 

Dice

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Def all.

But there is a fun remedy here: Get your wife a similar vintage look and see if she'll do photos. Win win, make her feel special and sexy and you get pics of your kinks!
 

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You didn't complement her on a new item of clothing three years ago.
 

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It's not even just all of the above. It's the other shit she's not even talking about that is niggling at her, that gets expressed in annoyance with you because as her partner you're supposed to magically fix *everything*
 
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Cheesebu

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All of the above lmao
Yeah, that is going to be my guess.
Def all.

But there is a fun remedy here: Get your wife a similar vintage look and see if she'll do photos. Win win, make her feel special and sexy and you get pics of your kinks!

Well fudgicles. Whatever, the awkward moment has long since passed and she's not mad or anything. But I was kinda hoping it wasn't all of the above 😂
 

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It's not even just all of the above. It's the other shit she's not even talking about that is niggling at her, that gets expressed in annoyance with you because as her partner you're supposed to magically fix *everything*
Is this going to be one of those threads that devolve into "women are irrational" even though OP's issue is clear and obvious?
 

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Man, everyone has been through this, and its always the least expecting thing that pops up that has 'irritated' her
 

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I didn't care that a girlfriend of mine liked Ryan Reynolds (this was before he was Deadpool). She liked him and I like Ryan Reynolds too: his movies at least as far as my fandom goes. I feel as though there's some sort of analog here with your situation. Even though I didn't care and she knew I didn't care, I do remember her saying something and to myself I was like "ok I get it!" Kind of a beating a dead horse sort of situation.
 

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"I don't get it... My wife said she's OK with me doing *thing*, but when I did *thing* she seemed to be upset?"

This is eternal. You could tell this story to someone from ancient Greece or someone from Earth Year 3400 and they'd give you the same answer.
 

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My wife gives zero fucks about what I look at from models to porn to onlyfans to cam sites.
You sure that hasn't changed (or was never truly the case)? I've seen many people tell their partners _____ doesn't bother them, but it's just because they wanna sound really open and easy-going, and then it becomes a problem months or years later.

Clearly, you know your wife better than any of us could possibly, but it doesn't sound right to me.
 
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Well fudgicles. Whatever, the awkward moment has long since passed and she's not mad or anything. But I was kinda hoping it wasn't all of the above 😂
Oh it's still there and lurking. Piling up with everything else and ready to be unleashed sometime, somewhere when you least expect it.
 

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What drink were you trying to make?

Probably just annoyed that you lost track of the recipe.
 
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You sure that hasn't changed (or was never truly the case)? I've seen many people tell their partners _____ doesn't bother them, but it's just because they wanna sound really open and easy-going, and then it becomes a problem months or years later.

I'm sure for most things. We watch cam sites and stuff like that together.

I guess what I'm not sure of is if she feels different because this is a woman who seems more "real", and not a sex worker.

I will definitely ask her, but she's sleeping still and I wanted to gauge what others thought. It's not going well! 😂
 

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How in god's name was any of this the wife's fault?
 
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