Man I love the highlighting quote feature.
This is the thing I've been seeing lately that instead of gamers having fun with different games, people have to bring politics into things and dictate whether this or that is bad.
I missed this part initially until
Crossing Eden mentioned it.
I actually see where you're coming from and I think that's a problem with a lot of people. They have fond memories of just playing games as kids not worrying about any possible social issues and so that's where the whole "Gah! These FEMALES are trying to ruin what I have fond memories growing up with."
I mean let me put it this way. My Uncle REALLY likes the shows he grew up with, he prefers watching those shows over trying anything new. It can be annoying living with him (it's a long story there, I'm not going to go into it). He really likes Lone Ranger and tells me all the time how excited he was as a kid to watch it and that's why he watches it. He loves reveling in the nostalgia. My sister gets more annoyed at seeing all the doting, submissive women that tend to be easy damsels.
Have you seen Lone Ranger? It really hasn't aged well. Tonto is definitely up there as one the most infamous of old stereotypes. Could you imagine being a Native American watching that in its heyday? Thankfully, things have gotten better. If you were to bring the subject up to my uncle he'd probably just have this dodgy "Well.... Yeah... But that's just how it was back then." My mom (her brother) said to me once on the subject, "There were a lot of things we grew up with that were awful there was a lot of stuff that was great. There are things now that are great, and there a lot of things now that are awful."
Great stuff, huh? She was a mythology major who took pride in picking apart costumes for practicality and authenticity in stuff we watched which is most likely the reason I don't easily fall for dumb designs.
I don't think my uncle is necessarily racist or anything, he just holds on way too tight to that childhood nostalgia because back then he was a kid who watched the good guys beat the bad guys.
Now I don't want to speak for the women in this thread (and feel free to tell me to gtfo if need be) but that's how I see this. I want to go on a limb and say it's kinda like that. The world of gaming is bigger than what men feel. There are different perspectives. It's not about putting those games you love so much under a microscope and tearing them apart with their flaws, it's about making them better for more people (namely women) to enjoy them.