Whatever happened with Hbomber's "milkshake duck moment"...
I ask because I really enjoyed his newest video on Dragon Lair.
And what's anti-idpol...anti identity politics?
People just forgot about it and I don't think he ever commented on it any further?
https://amp.reddit.com/r/LateStageC...left_mods_response_to_hbomberguy_revelations/
"Context (TW: Discussion and examples of harassment, gaslighting, and rape):
It has been revealed in the past day that Hbomberguy, a Youtuber popular among the left sphere, recently released an apology about his behavior with regards to a person who was seriously uncomfortable with the actions of a producer on his videos, who was also a mod on his personal discord. Much of this on the surface seemed fairly sufficient, and many members of our mod teams at first glance thought that this was a proper self-criticism. When further context came out such as skype logs and images from his own discord, it was made abundantly clear that this was not an apology, but in fact a cover and an unwillingness to be held accountable for his behavior, whether intentional or not. (We want to add that intention is irrelevant here, because ppl come out with "his heart's in the right place" bs that we really want to avoid.)
We will be provide links to provide further context so you can judge for yourself, but the short and simple of it is that Hbomberguy refused to believe a person who is a rape survivor when he came up to Hbomb about the fact that a close friend of Hbomberguy, also serving on his production and mod team, had in 2011 made innapropriate harrassing and rapey comments towards this person. It was also acknowledged that the person in question was perceived as being "creepy" by his and Hbomberguy's female friends and fans in the live streams he participated in. Hbomberguy even shows that he knew on some level his response was wrong, but he then later said things that effectively gaslighted this person and called into question their own memory and perception of the accused party. Hbomberguy, instead of taking the time to listen to what the person had to say about his friend and keep an open mind, casted doubt about their whole experience because he didn't want to believe that his friend was sexist and a creep despite the clear evidence to the contrary.
The person had tried to originally post the details on another subreddit where the discussion could be constructive,
but the mods turned it down, so he posted
this on his tumblr because he had no other choice and this revelation needed to be heard and acknowledged. After it was public, people and fans got angry and had questions, so Hbomberguy
responded with an apology.
After Hbomberguy released his apology on tumblr, the person released
another post revealing how Hbomb's apology was not only terribly insufficient, but actually was an attempt to cover his image. Much of the discord evidence revealed the mod team to be incapable of handling a situation where someone is uncomfortable with a production member/mod's behavior. Instead of ripping the bandaid and explaining publicly to his users and fans why what he did was wrong and what he will do to rectify it, he instead tried to shut down any discussion and further casts doubt over this person's experience. Furthermore, H went as far as to claim that this person's Skype logs were faked and altered in order to further shut down discussion and avoid having to properly confront his behavior.
It should be made clear that this is NOT how you handle a case where someone has an issue with any member of your circle's behavior, much less a mod and production team member. What this shows is Hbomberguy clearly does not know how to go about handling situations like this, and in a great demonstration of irony, he actively tried to manipulate the situation and perpetuate the same culture that his very videos critique. This shows a basic and fundamental misunderstanding of what fighting against patriarchal relations is about.
Going Forward:
Because of this, the mod teams have collectively decided that we will not allow any hosting of his videos unless Hbomberguy takes serious actions to repair all of our trust. If you post any video of his on our subs,
we will delete them. If you defend his actions as acceptable and write apologia over his behavior, especially after understanding all of this context given,
we will ban you.
We're not going to pretend like we are pure and we never mess up, we do, we're human after all. We understand people can make mistakes and can seriously fuck up like this, but we believe that the actions need to be appropriate and measured in relation to the wrongdoing at hand.
We have a few demands in mind that we will list here:
- A proper statement addressing what he will do moving forward with his platform and problematic approaches to handling these situations, as well as acknowledging the righteous anger and hurt from the victim and his loyal fanbase at his weak public apology and cowardly behavior following the call out.
- Giving a platform to willing socialist feminists who are not cishet males to discuss patriarchy, rape culture, and what you can do about it.
- Removing all professional ties with the mod in question. This includes, but is not limited to removing their modship, removing financial ties with this mod, removing him from the production team, etc.
We want to make this abundantly clear that even working on these demands may not be sufficient. This is going to be a very long term process and there is going to be no easy way out of this. You have to be held accountable for your actions, and we believe that the best way to do that is to act your way into thinking, not think your way into acting."