The answer is "after you talk to them". That's where assessing body language comes into play.
The answer is "after you talk to them". That's where assessing body language comes into play.
The answer is "after you talk to them". That's where assessing body language comes into play.
When did I say it doesn't matter?So what a woman wants doesn't actually matter until after you've spoken to them?
If a woman wants to be left alone, it doesn't matter until you've spoken to them and they've explicitly told you they want to be left alone?
As a man I absolutely have no problem being approached by women all day everyday.Reverse it for a moment, would you want to be approached many times a day by thirsty individuals?
How will you ever meet someone then if that is your initial thought? Talk with confidence, look at body language, etc. I used to work at the mall, and I approached girls that I felt were attractive. Thinking back at least 10 years now, I dated one that I cold approached for almost a year. And then I went on a few dates with a few others. It worked pretty well for me. Maybe I had an advantage working in the mall so they knew my face but still, I was a total stranger to them.
Don't think you are a creeper for approaching women. There is nothing wrong with striking up a conversation with someone of the opposite sex. You never know what may come from it!
You don't understand, the men using this approach are so desirable that there is no way a woman would not be interested in striking a conversation about what book she is reading or what recipe she is going to make. It is always the other men who are the creeps, not them.So what a woman wants doesn't actually matter until after you've spoken to them?
If a woman wants to be left alone, it doesn't matter until you've spoken to them and they've explicitly told you they want to be left alone?
That's how I met my most recent girlfriend! Instagram is great for social interactions.
Great, so what are we talking about again?
BUT THE AUBERGINES
I'll just copy my question. You can read the whole thing and reply if you want, instead of just responding to part of it.
So what a woman wants doesn't actually matter until after you've spoken to them?
If a woman wants to be left alone, it doesn't matter until you've spoken to them and they've explicitly told you they want to be left alone?
Men's feelings on women's issues.
That's basically every thread on Era, it seems. At least part of the thread.Women: " Please consider not doing xyz"
Men: "Nah I know what you really want"
Right, but I still don't understand what made you ask me that question?I'll just copy my question. You can read the whole thing and reply if you want, instead of just responding to part of it.
I don't think that's the title of the thread.
That's basically every thread on Era, it seems. At least part of the thread.
Right, but I still don't understand what made you ask me that question?
THROUGH WORK?!?This might be helpful to know
https://mic.com/articles/112062/the...icant-others-is-not-what-you-think#.qctnJODC2
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It's a male dominated open forum. Men are gonna post.That's basically every thread on Era, it seems. At least part of the thread.
Didn't say anything about it not mattering, I said that will be when you would know, for the most part.I asked at what point do you start considering what a woman wants, and you said "after you've spoken to them". So, I'm asking you, if a woman wants to be left alone does that not matter until after you've already spoken to her?
But we have posts in this thread that go directly against this.Nobody wants to be cold encountered. This is only perpetuated because it works in fairy tales and is pushed through media. Just because an attractive guy can be successful in sexually harassing a woman into a date doesn't mean that its a signifier than all women want it.
Find clubs and intermural events. Art clubs, board games, book clubs, dancing. Lots of ways to meet new people for friends and relationships.What do you do if you are someone that doesn't like bars or clubs. I don't drink so I feel like it would seem like I'm up to something if I'm talking to people drinking while I stay 100% sober.
People go to the supermarket for the sole reason of buying groceries.What if the person is just there to have a drink with friends and really doesnt want to be bothered. Just cause its in a bar, its fair play?
In a super market you can open with a joke.
Didn't say anything about it not mattering, I said that will be when you would know, for the most part.
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I believe you think that, but that would definitely not be the case. Especially if you were in a relationship or married .As a man I absolutely have no problem being approached by women all day everyday.
But we have posts in this thread that go directly against this.
if you closely monitor the contents of the shopping cart of your target feeemale for a few of month before approaching them, you should be able to learn their cycle and hit them up when they're ovulating
"SO POOP YOGURT, HUH"if you closely watch what the feeemales buy for a couple of month before asking them, you should be able to learn their cycle and hit them up when they're ovulating
if you closely watch what the feeemales buy for a couple of month before asking them, you should be able to learn their cycle and hit them up when they're ovulating
The words "didn't matter" were never uttered by me.You said it didn't matter until after you spoke to them.
Again
Me: When do you start taking into account what a woman wants
You: After I've spoken to them
You're saying what a woman wants takes a backseat to what YOU want, which is to hit on them. You want to do your part first before what they want gets taken into account.
If I DM someone on Twitter, I would've had several positive interactions with them already. We're both following each other. They comment on my stuff. I comment on theirs. Theres an actual back and forth established.
This isn't really about me, it's about stories and anecdotes in this very thread, along with video evidence going against "nobody wanting to be encountered".Just because you're successful in picking up females via cold because you happen to strike the exact parameters that are okay with that specific woman, does not make it acceptable to go around and sexually harass other women.
It's literally a "fuck you I got mine" mentality. It's totally okay that millions of women are sexually harassed everywhere because this one woman found me attractive. Since when is basing anything on anecdotal evidence okay? My grandpa is alive in his nineties and smoked a pack every day. I guess everyone should keep smoking.
Is that really difficult to understand? You're an outlier in a system that enables millions of women to walk alone in the streets in fear at night because its socially acceptable that their fellow man who happens to be statistically faster, stronger and more dominant, to just randomly walk up to them and engage in sexual speculation.
I answered it fine, but I do see the attempts to put words in my mouth.How do conversations work. I never said you said it "didn't matter", I said you said "I doesn't matter UNTIL..."
Do you know what Until means? When my question was "when do you take what a woman wants into consideration" and you replied with "after I've spoken to them", that's exactly the same as saying "what they want doesn't matter until I've spoken to them".
I'm sorry if English isn't your first language and I'm being overly harsh and that you genuinely don't understand what I'm saying, but it really comes across like you're just being pedantic to avoid answering the question.
oh man please DM me on twitterIf I DM someone on Twitter, I would've had several positive interactions with them already. Just don't make a habit of it.
I answered it fine, but I do see the attempts to put words in my mouth.
Just look up people in industries you like. Site writers, video editors, personalities. Interact. Follow hashtags of things you're into and then youll see people who you have a ton in common with. Most of which you won't end up talking to like that, but every once in a blue moon you might hit it off with someone. Only 8 percent of the people I follow on Twitter are people I actually knew beforehand. 2 percent are people I met through it.oh man please DM me on twitter
i need some reason to look at twitter more often other than just ads and a friend sharing their favorite YouTube recipes
Absolutely disgusting.
Again, don't approach women or anyone like that.
I don't see it being disgusting at all. Open with a thoughtful comment, and it's the other person's choice to respond or not. If they don't respond, then move on.
I don't see it being disgusting at all. Open with a thoughtful comment, and it's the other person's choice to respond or not. If they don't respond, then move on.
Listening and considering is not the same thing as obeying and quiet servitude. Until a mod comes around and starts banning men for posting in dedicated "women threads", men are gonna post about their perspectives. Often they're gonna disagree with your perspective. Sorry!
Oh I get it you're being sarcastic to make fun of people saying to never approachLook, I am not a woman, but if I was, I would be off-put.
Putting myself in their shoes, I wouldn't want to be any man to approach me ever to get closer to me, and that's how it's supposed to be.
Your absolutes on everything just make me think you're trolling or just genuinely replused by most social interactions.Absolutely disgusting.
Again, don't approach women or anyone like that.