I still can't believe that guy saidHow long until somebody says "actually, most women I meet actually like the wood chipper"?
"Well is being uncomfortable that bad"?
I still can't believe that guy saidHow long until somebody says "actually, most women I meet actually like the wood chipper"?
Excuse me? Why on earth is having friends some sort of requirement for dating?
Lmao!I would not ask a gaming board about normal social interactions. Half of ya'll likely find talking to the GameStop clerk and turning down their rewards card sales pitch a traumatic experience.
If someone approaches me in say the fucking super market and tries to pick me up while letting on that he has no one in his life who likes him, I'm running as far away as possible.
Well, you wouldn't really know until you chatted them up and they would either tell you or simply say theyre not interested.
if you only approach in those situations (and you're damn sure about what you saw) i'd say that's differentMost of the time it works since they usually show some interest first -- a prolonged look, a smile, etc.. When it didn't work, it's easy to know when to get up out their face from body language or actual language.
I would not ask a gaming board about normal social interactions. Half of ya'll likely find talking to the GameStop clerk and turning down their rewards card sales pitch a traumatic experience.
If someone approaches me in say the fucking super market and tries to pick me up while letting on that he has no one in his life who likes him, I'm running as far away as possible.
I mean wouldn't "Actually, most females I met, used the wood chipper"? be even better, it's more subtlety that some of the posts in the thread have.
Good thing that thing's on wheels, maybe we can roll it in here and ask for it's opinion on whether trees don't know if they like being chipped until a beautifully crunchy relationship blossoms.How long until somebody says "actually, most women I meet actually like the wood chipper"?
Wow. I think this thread filled them all, but the bottom right one has got to be the most checked (along with 4th from left on row 1). So many "Oh so we can't even say hit to women now, is this the Taliban????" kind of posts, lol.
Yeah I saw your 2nd post. Didn't know you were including the cold approaching aspect.
Really? If someone is very lonely due to for example anxiety, a simple smile to that person can make his day.
Yes! A lot of the people here saying "dont fucking talk to others in public" dont realize that small acts of kindness go a long way towarsa brightening somebody elses day. This is completely separate from trying to flirt/pick up women/dudes, by the way.Really? If someone is very lonely due to for example anxiety, a simple smile to that person can make his day.
Really? If someone is very lonely due to for example anxiety, a simple smile to that person can make his day.
I'm sorry but women are not responsible for men's happiness, especially if they are strangers.Yes! A lot of the people here saying "dont fucking talk to others in public" dont realize that small acts of kindness go a long way towarsa brightening somebody elses day. This is completely separate from trying to flirt/pick up women/dudes, by the way.
What if I don't want to smile or be approached? It is not my job to make random men feel better.Really? If someone is very lonely due to for example anxiety, a simple smile to that person can make his day.
Yes! A lot of the people here saying "dont fucking talk to others in public" dont realize that small acts of kindness go a long way towarsa brightening somebody elses day. This is completely separate from trying to flirt/pick up women/dudes, by the way.
Thats not at all what either of us said....I'm sorry but women are not responsible for men's happiness, especially if they are strangers.
You met 3 of your best friends by asking random people for their phone number? Not like trying to break the ice, just going "hey women, give me your number"? Because that's the OP scenario.
The women here are giving the exact same advice you'll get in just about any other place.
I wouldn't say it would likely be their only emotional contact. There's always family.I would say in general that having no friends and dating is red flag of sorts, not bury you in their backyard red flag like mentioning it as part of a cold approach, but in general it means that you'd become their one and only emotional contact, and yeah that's a red flag for likely disaster.
I have asked 3 friends at work today and the reply was, if they are polite and take no for an answer, they dont mind. But hey, fuck anecdotal evidence.
The question I proposed was - a guy politely asking for a phone number in public.
So are you talking here about experiences of you, a woman, approaching other people, or other people approaching you?
If I'm understanding what people here are saying correctly, because of the difference in power and size between the typical man and the typical woman and because of the difference in statistics of violent crimes committed by men compared to violent crimes committed by women, there may be a difference in how people would feel about being approached out of the blue by you, and how they would fell about being approached out of the blue by men
(Sorry for mansplaining)
Yes! A lot of the people here saying "dont fucking talk to others in public" dont realize that small acts of kindness go a long way towarsa brightening somebody elses day. This is completely separate from trying to flirt/pick up women/dudes, by the way.
That's not what Im saying.
Like on my campus, there's a lot of info screens that has this "Sometime, smiling to a person or asking a person to a coffee might brighten the persons day".
So what is the argument, it's just too hard for men? Gonna have to miss me with that. It isn't anyone else's fault someone doesn't have a partner and no woman needs to suffer advances because of it.Dating advice: "Don't have friends? Use dating apps."
Dating app advice: "Don't use selfies and make sure to show a pictures of you with your friends"
"I don't give a shit what women have to say"
That's not what Im saying.
Like on my campus, there's a lot of info screens that has this "Sometime, smiling to a person or asking a person to a coffee might brighten the persons day".
You are out of your mind if you think a stranger will tell you their sexuality as if was their favorite pizza. People are constantly putting their lives in danger when they come out.Well, you wouldn't really know until you chatted them up and they would either tell you or simply say theyre not interested.
I have asked 3 friends at work today and the reply was, if they are polite and take no for an answer, they dont mind. But hey, fuck anecdotal evidence.
The question I proposed was - a guy politely asking for a phone number in public.
My 5 wives think you're full of shit
I asked my husband if he likes getting kicked in the balls, and he said yes.
guess what's coming, boys! yeehaw!
my bf said ur dumbI asked my husband if he likes getting kicked in the balls, and he said yes.
guess what's coming, boys! yeehaw!
My boyfriend happens to agree. 2 is a perfectly valid sample size.
I asked my husband if he likes getting kicked in the balls, and he said yes.
guess what's coming, boys! yeehaw!
My boyfriend happens to agree. 2 is a perfectly valid sample size.
hm, i did actually hear that CBT could help men who are having problem with datingI asked my husband if he likes getting kicked in the balls, and he said yes.
guess what's coming, boys! yeehaw!
I mean, I know that, thats why I said they could also say theyre not interested. I only said they would tell them their sexuality because I tell ppl at my uni im gay right off the bat when it seems we may become friends, though I know the experience is different for women.You are out of your mind if you think a stranger will tell you their sexuality as if was their favorite pizza. People are constantly putting their lives in danger when they come out.
i met my last two boyfriends by kicking them in the balls at the supermarket, I'm not gonna stop.
as did 17 men on my facebook, and Driggonny 's 2nd wife's 7 husbands
OK, sorry for assumingBefore I came out as transgender.
I don't really... Approach anyone anymore haha, but I have been approached by girls now.
Honestly I get it. I have never had MEN approach me and I will hate it when it happens but being respectful is super important. I'm just saying there's a way to do it. It isn't some high priority way to meet women.
I know guys who are super PUA like and gross af and that's not what I am saying is fine to do every now and then.
Even my 3rd husband who died in a mysterious lumber accident agreed 100% soundYep, it was successful once so obviously it's successful 100% of the time no matter what those males might say.
I'm sorry. We're only interested in male opinions.
So your all saying I should wear a cup in public? Sigh. It all started with one dumb husband.....
Even my 3rd husband who died in a mysterious lumber accident agreed 100% sound