Right I'm going to break this down (though I don't know why I'm bothering with a year old account with less than 20 posts).OP asked "ERA at large", so I'm assuming all opinions are being solicited. Maybe it's the demographics of this site or maybe attitudes having changed post hookup apps, but most of my girl friends have had good (and plenty of shit) experiences from cold approaches that led to fulfilling relationships. Many of them also actively encourage SOME male friends to cold approach strangers in appropriate settings. SOME being key qualifier because I think, generally, women can intuit which of their male friends are socially adapt enough to conduct these interactions respectfully and which ones are going to come off as creeps, whether intentionally or unintentionally. At minimum, ask your lady friends who are open to cold approaches which category you belong to. Also know when to stop, if you're 0/10, there's a good chance you're the creep that's doing more harm than good.
Starting off:
1. You can read the OP but not the thread, or this very page itself which contains why women disagree.
2. Backs this up with "maybe I'm out of touch? No it can't be me who isn't right".
3. Starting the spin, you mention your exes (Who funnily enough aren't here) as the hypothetical backup. Nice touching base that not all of them agree so you can carry the spin.
4. Ignoring women in the thread you head on the train of "It works so what is wrong?". With the notation the the right place to back it up and an out.
5. Instead of thinking that "maybe it's us guys who are wrong" you place onus on women not only to lead you but to tell you not to be awful.
6. Then the cherry on top absolving yourself of any blame "it's the ugly ones that are the issue". This not only erased any woman not interested in men (Who funnily enough guys won't ignore), but also just reinforces that guys can't be wrong.