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astro

Member
Oct 25, 2017
56,969
But you're calling a lady racist for no other reason than well other people are so maybe she is, meanwhile we have proof that these men have repeatedly stolen food from restaurants.

There's no reason in this situation to say "well, yeah, these guys are thieves but maybe this lady is racist too but just got lucky." There's no reason to assume she is racist.

I'm not calling her racist.

I think you're clearly the one in denial here. You're doing some outstanding mental gymnastics to believe that this woman was racially motivated when evidence has come out that race had nothing to do with it. Who here has actually said that black men don't suffer prejudice and discrimination and racially motivated incidents like the accuser's scenario don't actually happen?

Nope. The fact modern America is this messy is a fact. I'm not the one in denial here.
 
Oct 27, 2017
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Not what's happening in the slightest, actually.

If you see my earlier posts you would know this, but too many people ITT are in denial about the actual state of modern America and just how easy it would be for a situation and coincidence like this to occur.

Who is doing this? No one denies it's a thing that happens hence why people initially reacted the way they did, but continuing to defend the incident and use "the actual state of modern America" to justify asshole thieves is a bad look. You're just sidestepping addressing THIS incident because there are numerous other cases where it was as it appeared (racism). Why be so stubborn about admitting in this case it wasn't that?
 

astro

Member
Oct 25, 2017
56,969
Who is doing this? No one denies it's a thing that happens hence why people initially reacted the way they did, but continuing to defend the incident and use "the actual state of modern America" to justify asshole thieves is a bad look. You're just sidestepping addressing THIS incident because there are numerous other cases where it was as it appeared (racism). Why be so stubborn about admitting in this case it wasn't that?

No, sorry, but I'm not defending arsehole thieves as my earlier posts clearly prove.
 

Tigress

Member
Oct 25, 2017
7,155
Washington
It does 100% look like a racist incident, yes. That's the entire problem here.

Sure, if you just want to take one side's story at face value and apply no critical thinking to watching the video. Sure, it looks 100%. But even in the video the other side is claiming they have come there before and scammed there before. This is not after the video trying to explain her actions, this is her in the video explaining to them why she isn't serving them. Which if you work retail you would know that it is quite common to get thieves who keep coming back (especially after it worked the first time). And who will argue with you and try to make you appear the bad guy in any way they can (scammers tend to try to twist things around on you, this is a very common thing with scammers). It's not like she's giving an unbelievable excuse.

It's very much a he said she said case there. We have nothing else to go by other than what both sides are saying in the video if we just go by the video. And just cause they are black doesn't make them necessarily more honest than her. Nor just because there is a lot of racism out there means that she must automatically being racist. We really have no idea from the video who is telling the truth as we don't know either side, we have no other context of either side's actions to decide who is being honest there. There is nothing in that video that 100% backs anything.
 
Dec 18, 2017
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Just because there are often wolves out there, doesn't mean one should cry "wolf" for lols. The punishment for doing so should be severe.
 

astro

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Oct 25, 2017
56,969
Sure, if you just want to take one side's story at face value and apply no critical thinking to watching the video. Sure, it looks 100%. But even in the video the other side is claiming they have come there before and scammed there before. This is not after the video trying to explain her actions, this is her in the video explaining to them why she isn't serving them. It's very much a he said she said case there. We have nothing else to go by other than what both sides are saying in the video if we just go by the video. And just cause they are black doesn't make them necessarily more honest than her. We really have no idea from the video who is telling the truth.

No, the video looks absolutely like the countless other racist incidents. Which is why, regardless of the history these kids have, the way she handled it was wrong.

Without the tweets, this looks like one in a never ending line of racist incidents.
 
Oct 27, 2017
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Nope. The fact modern America is this messy is a fact. I'm not the one in denial here.
Oh boy, it's messy but this situation became clear cut as soon as his earlier tweets came out. At this point CCTV footage could come out showing these scammers hustling at the same restaurant with the same manager and you'd still try to argue she could have just been a racist.
 

tsmoreau

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Oct 27, 2017
2,440
No, the video looks absolutely like the countless other racist incidents. Which is why, regardless of the history these kids have, the way she handled it was wrong.

Without the tweets, this looks like one in a never ending line of racist incidents.
So what you're saying is appearances can be deceiving?
 

mernst23

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Oct 27, 2017
491
Chicago
No, the video looks absolutely like the countless other racist incidents. Which is why, regardless of the history these kids have, the way she handled it was wrong.

Without the tweets, this looks like one in a never ending line of racist incidents.

Alright, I'm going to hate myself for continuing to interact with you but, "why was it these individuals" she decided not to treat equally? By your logic, and this is an 100% racist scenario that we've seen before in America, why didnt she deny service to other people of color historically? What made this time different?

it's because they scammed the store before
 

astro

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Oct 25, 2017
56,969
So what you're saying is appearances can be deceiving?

I'm saying that the video looked 100% like another in an endless line of racist incidents.

And even if the kids have a history of this behaviour, modern America is systemically racist enough that it could be a coincidence.

The kid is a shit anyway for his past behaviour and homophobic language, and at the very least Chipolte needs to look into this again and not just sit on their decision, but anyone denying this situation is messy enough to have this conversation is, imo, in extreme denial about the current state of America.
 

tsmoreau

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Oct 27, 2017
2,440
I'm saying that the video looked 100% like another in an endless line of racist incidents.

And even if the kids have a history of this behaviour, modern America is systemically racist enough that it could be a coincidence.

The kid is a shit anyway for his past behaviour and homophobic language, and at the very least Chipolte needs to look into this again and not just sit on their decision, but anyone denying this situation is messy enough to have this conversation is, imo, in extreme denial about the current state of America.
Messy on initial emotional reaction perhaps, quite clean in retrospect and with context.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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I'm saying that the video looked 100% like another in an endless line of racist incidents.

And even if the kids have a history of this behaviour, modern America is systemically racist enough that it could be a coincidence.

The kid is a shit anyway for his past behaviour and homophobic language, and at the very least Chipolte needs to look into this again and not just sit on their decision, but anyone denying this situation is messy enough to have this conversation is, imo, in extreme denial about the current state of America.
You being so defensive about believing the video comes off as Doth Protest Too Much
 

astro

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Oct 25, 2017
56,969
And yet, again, with context, we find it is an incident which occurs outside that paradigm and was framed as within in it for exploitation.

Quite clean.

Not at all clean, no, and I believe the current state of America and frequency of racist incidents makes this obvious.

I'm turning off notifications for this thread now, as I've said my part and it's just going in circles. If anyone would like to raise any points we haven't covered then please feel free to PM me.
 

tsmoreau

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Oct 27, 2017
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*mess occurs*
*people are upset over mess*
*mess is slowly cleaned up*
*man runs in and dumps dirt on floor*
*man proclaims: why is it so messy in here?*

fin
 

angelgrievous

Middle fingers up
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Nov 8, 2017
9,140
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No, the video looks absolutely like the countless other racist incidents. Which is why, regardless of the history these kids have, the way she handled it was wrong.

Without the tweets, this looks like one in a never ending line of racist incidents.
and at what point can we react to people we recognize as being dishonest in the way that she did without the shadow of racism looming over our heads?

Look, the manager could have been a little more professional true, but is it her fault or a lack of training. It's easy to sit back and point at what she did wrong when not in her shoes but unless you've been in a similar situation, I can't say anyone would "act" appropriately. She shouldn't have been fired in my opinion. Jessica Price got fired for "acting inappropriately" to a customer on twitter. Was she fired justly?

What about the fact that the manager was a woman? Would a man have been fired for acting the way she did? Would a white person have been fired for acting the way she did? Would she have acted the same to a group of white guys she recognized as being dishonest?

I don't know if I'm coming off ignorant or not, I'm just curious, as to your "messy America" when people can be people to each other and not have it be racially motivated.
 

SlipperyMoose

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Oct 28, 2017
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This is why you don't jump to conclusions until all the facts are in. You look like a fool when you assume. You should treat each person as an individual and not a representation of their whole race/culture. This goes for everyone.
 

motherless

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Nov 6, 2017
2,282
And yet, again, with context, we find it is an incident which occurs outside that paradigm and was framed as within in it for exploitation.

Quite clean.

Exactly. It is pretty clear in the video there is history with the manager having experienced these "customers". Zero indication it had to do with race.
 

Firima

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Oct 27, 2017
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This thread rn

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Gotdatmoney

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Oct 28, 2017
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So watching the video now for the first time knowing all the context I definitely think that the manager didn't handle the situation well. You have to explain in calm and clear terms why you aren't going to serve these guys or why there is an expectation they pay before hand. The staff is either getting in on it or they seem lost. She has to be the one to guide them through the process.

Knowing these dudes were known for trying to con free food put her in a really shitty spot though. Restaurant definitely hosed her, its wild they dont do a real investigation before they fire.

Those dudes fucking suck though. Fuck them.
 

Felt

The Fallen
Oct 27, 2017
3,210
Wait what? So these guys played the manager and she got fired? Is that what actually happened?
 

RedMercury

Blue Venus
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Dec 24, 2017
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That would be like saying "but how de we know this person was being racist in this instance?" while we have tweets of that person calling black people the n-word. Anyone who'd ask that question here would be rightfully dogpiled and probably even banned.
Yeah that isn't the same at all
I really don't get the people in this thread still cheering for her being fired.
People are cheering? Link?
 

RedMercury

Blue Venus
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Dec 24, 2017
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Seriously dude, if you live your life thinking any sort of minor transgression between two people of different races can always boil down to racism "because America," I could only imagine the type of paralyzed existence you lead whenever you interact with those of different races.
Well thank you for solving the problem of race relations, people just need to stop looking for it and it goes away. PoC will be thrilled of this new development.
Exactly. It is pretty clear in the video there is history with the manager having experienced these "customers". Zero indication it had to do with race.
Except the entire history of racism in this country, except for that. Without that framework, yes, there is zero indication.
lmao at all the people still claiming the chipotle to be racist
I'd love to invite everyone to participate in the next racism thread. Bring the speculatives, the anecdotes, and everything else. It would be a shame if, as usual, 90% of the folks hopping in to celebrate this "TOLD YA SO!!!" avoid posting in those.

See ya in a few hours.
 
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Nepenthe

When the music hits, you feel no pain.
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Oct 25, 2017
20,699
There is nothing wrong with initially having the back of a black person who claims discrimination but is later proven to be a liar.

There is everything wrong with relegating the fact that black people continue to get discriminated against in the service industry as "outrage for outrage's sake," as if black people are largely lying about our experiences.

That SHOULD be the lesson people take away from this.

But we'll be doing this song-and-dance next week.

I was wrong. "Next week" should've been "tomorrow."
 

bangai-o

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Oct 27, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with initially having the back of a black person who claims discrimination but is later proven to be a liar.

There is everything wrong with relegating the fact that black people continue to get discriminated against in the service industry as "outrage for outrage's sake," as if black people are largely lying about our experiences.

That SHOULD be the lesson people take away from this.

But we'll be doing this song-and-dance next week.

There is something wrong when the types of responses prompted a company to wrongfully fire an employee. You need to equate how large groups of people have the individuals back.
 

Nepenthe

When the music hits, you feel no pain.
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Oct 25, 2017
20,699
There is something wrong when the types of responses prompted a company to wrongfully fire an employee. You need to equate how large groups of people have the individuals back.
The responses weren't initially misguided, because we don't live in a society that is vacuous when it comes to a sociopolitical history of how black people are treated in service. Every now and again there are assholes like these boys. But you do not throw the baby out with the bathwater and wag your finger at black folks for leaning on the side that inherently has the burden of assumption.

Its wrong to keep having their back and cheering for the firing of a woman who did nothing wrong.
Astro isn't cheering for the employee being fired. Just saying she might have still had racial bias regardless of being wrongfully terminated, which pretty much anyone growing up in a western society does.

For all the talk about how we need to be nuanced, I'm surprised people aren't able to parse two different statements.
 

Deleted member 5359

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Oct 25, 2017
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So he's on Twitter bragging about stealing food, and then tried to make it seem like he was being racially profiled when attempting to steal more food? Social media is toxic, what a world.

I saw some other tweets by the same person using all kinds of homophobic and anti-semitic language, too.

Very confused as to how a person like that has so many defenders.
 

Nepenthe

When the music hits, you feel no pain.
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Oct 25, 2017
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'She might still be racist' shouldnt even be a discussion here.
It is a discussion now because people have used the asshole's tweets to effectively say "The blacks were at it again, and it finally blew up in their faces. Maybe they'll stay in their place next time."
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Okay, that is your opinion, now how is an alternative opinion "cheering"? Is there a parade I was not informed of? Are there balloons?
If you think she should have been fired for refusing service to known thieves you're being a dick very deliberately.

How is it anyone else's fault that Chipotle completely failed to perform any kind of investigation before immediately firing the employee?
the least people can do is say she should get her job back. People here still happy about her losing her job.