Oh, my god.
This is exactly why women ghost. And why people, men and women included, need to understand that this text-based mating dance that occurs prior to actually meeting is a complete fucking facade that doesn't mean a damn thing.
These words are problematically entitled: "She brought this on herself." This, combined with a prior propensity for ranting, starts firing off cacophonous alarm bells. This, taken together with your earlier comments on ghosting, usually speaks of someone unwilling to let things go. (I'm glad you did!)
I'm using you as an example here, and I think it speaks to some burgeoning maturity that you've decided against blowing up this girl's inbox with a rant (about what? about how she disrespected you?). Here's what she did: she was a little bit but not a whole lot interested in you; something better came along; and you eventually had enough agency and self-respect to realize that you want someone who's more keen on meeting you.
She is, at this point, a spam message in your inbox.
To anyone else in this situation, please, just follow Miku's lead, drop things, and move on.
Maybe you're right, I had to step in to someone else's shoes to figure it out, I did this to myself. She ghosted, gave up on her, she came back and instead of moving on, I gave her chances. I missed out on the golden standard: If a girl turns down first time to meet you for any reason, without a proper reschedule from her, move on.
I did tell you guys a week ago this is new territory for me as all girls in the past just ghost me and we both moved on from there.
I'm not going to answer her anymore. Need to stick by my decision, as I gave her chances.
Jesus Christ dude, she didn't murder your family, she was not particularly responsive when you would talk to her. Meet her or don't meet her but you seem crazy that you want to go off on some rant (a rant with someone you never even met, there's literally no history) because your feelings are hurt by someone you've never even met. And yes, you're absolutely butthurt whether you admit it or not if you're going to give an angry rant email to tell her off. What she did isn't serious enough for the anger and entitlement you're feeling, some people are crappy and some people aren't, live with it and move on. It's reactions like you're debating right now is the entire reason that women ghost people instead of telling them they're not interested, you're going from 0 to 100 real quick. You said you were going to block and ignore her so block and ignore her, who cares what method of communication she decides to message you with.
Maybe "rant" was a strong word to use. Just want to advice that what she did was wrong. Maybe she has no idea what she's doing.
Also why do I have a feeling that I'm the bad guy here.
ok I'm just going to repost what I told you last week
I have no problems with women ghosting me, Girl #1 is not the first girl that did this to me. However she is the first to ghost,
then return.
Or he could just go back and read what he posted last week and how he seems to have learned nothing.
https://www.resetera.com/threads/datingera-this-isnt-like-one-of-your-animes.666/page-31
What could I have learned from what I've posted last week? The events that happened this week, rarely matches what happened
this week.
Quick summary:
Last week: Told a backstory - I messaged Girl #1, we talked for a bit, asked her out, she couldn't make it, tells me she'll get back to me on the date. Talked some more, then ghosted me for 9 days.
This week: Agreed to go on a date on Sunday, then on the day she backs down. She asked for my number, we had a chat on the phone, arranged a date for yesterday. Sent a text for reminder, she gave no response. Cancelled the date at 4pm, she responds immediately.
By the way, your posted link doesn't make sense as I was not on that page. Unless you want me to look at someone else's conversation and it's similar to mine.