I wonder what the gift was. In my experience, thoughtful gifts mean cheap as hell but like, you know, thoughtful.
Because I am loaded and they were thoughtful gifts.
Then again someone replying with a 'lol' probably doesn't have the experience or knowledge I should be listening to.
Because he's trolling.If you are loaded, would you ask for them back in spite? I'm not sure why else you would...
I don't doubt that he's "loaded." I do doubt that the gift was thoughtful since it seems the reason he wants the money back isn't out of need but pettiness and spite.Because he's trolling.
If he's wealthy, then why would he care?
If they were thoughtful gifts, why is he being so thoughtless about it?
The obvious answer being is that he's neither.
I'm willing to bet it was a meaningless $50 trinket that he could barely afford.
Well my date this afternoon went really well. (It was probably our fourth time hanging out, but the first time we've called it a date). Saw I, Tonya and then got something to eat. I kissed her in the car when she dropped me off and we ended up making out for a few minutes, then I invited her up. I didn't really expect that so I hadn't bought condoms, we didn't fuck, but made out a lot and she gave me head. She seems to really like me, which scares me a bit, but I like her too. We're both off tomorrow and I know it's gonna be really tempting to invite her around again, but I feel like I should wait a little longer. Don't want to rush into things too quickly.
Lol why the fuck you spending $500 on a person you have only dated for three months?
This is a vague post.Went on a date today, things seemed good and even the lady next to me in a break told me wow you two are so cute together. Ended the night with it going to nowhere's ville. Man can't get a single win when it comes to this shit. :/
Stupid dramatic xenoblade chronicles 2 music in the background
And whiskey
what are you looking for, hooking up or actually getting tight with someone ?
If its the later, playing the "I'm not bothered by this because I like you" for a couple of weeks isn't exactly something to bash yourself down for. Its nice to get to know people before you bone them you know
It seems post Christmas breakup season has already begun. Who's next to join the dating era ranks?
just ended a 2.5 year relationship. Its gonna be tough to get through but I'm kind of looking forward to meeting new people around me. Gonna have to branch out to some local meetup places since I don't have too many friends in my city.
Eh, no. This guy actually has common sense.Because I am loaded and they were thoughtful gifts.
Then again someone replying with a 'lol' probably doesn't have the experience or knowledge I should be listening to.
That's the spirit man. When you say meeting new people, are you referring more to just friends or someone to date? Or both?
I assumed it was the opposite, pricey as hell but not a thoughtful gift. I knew someone like that and he wouldn't try on a emotional level with the girl but would shower her with expensive gifts.I wonder what the gift was. In my experience, thoughtful gifts mean cheap as hell but like, you know, thoughtful.
So ... my 7 years old relationship just ended 2 weeks ago. It hurts so much because I really thought she was the one, obviously she was not.
She gave me some warnings early 2017, but I overlooked them. I'm not even mad at her, I'm just sad.
I feel like shit. I know it take time to heal, but right now I don't see it ending well for me. I can not concentrate at work, I drink too much. I have one month to find another flat but it's so hard to focus on the research. I fucking hate myself !
I know everyone hates to hear it after being dumped, but you've to go through the pain to come out the other side okay. It's perfectly fine to be upset, sad or depressed. That's normal man, you have to let your emotions out. Talking here to people can be good, but what you really need is a friend or family member to be there for you.So ... my 7 years old relationship just ended 2 weeks ago. It hurts so much because I really thought she was the one, obviously she was not.
She gave me some warnings early 2017, but I overlooked them. I'm not even mad at her, I'm just sad.
I feel like shit. I know it take time to heal, but right now I don't see it ending well for me. I can not concentrate at work, I drink too much. I have one month to find another flat but it's so hard to focus on the research. I fucking hate myself !
I mean that kind of seems like your fault for spending $500.... who does that?
Edit: lol, you're more pissed at the dude typing lol because you're acting a fool spending that much than at the girl you gave the gifts to.
Because he's trolling.
If he's wealthy, then why would he care?
If they were thoughtful gifts, why is he being so thoughtless about it?
The obvious answer being is that he's neither.
I'm willing to bet it was a meaningless $50 trinket that he could barely afford.
I'm in your position.. mentally abused a girlfriend of mine in HS for about 4 years or so towards the end there cause she was leaving for college but yeah been technically single since 2013 and I've had one other kinda serious thing and multiple hooks ups/hangouts with various girls and yeah I also feel I don't deserve a relationship in combination of I have high standards if I wanna settle. I have accepted single but by no means have stopped pursuing woman.As of recent, after seeing a few of my friends getting into a loving relationship, I have develop a bit of green envy and always wanted to go back into dating. However, a mixture of me being mostly an indoor type of guy, being a former abuser (mentally) that makes me feel like I should never deserve to have another relationship and that I'm way too content with my single life is just preventing me from putting in the effort to find a partner.
It's a shame really. I want one, but at the same time, I can't have one due to certain factors, but also don't want one because I'm most happy not having to compromise on anything.
Granted, the last time I've had a relationship was 4 years ago, and before then, I was in a six year relationship. So maybe I've just accepted the fact that I'm single and refuse to make any changes to my life, plus I feel don't deserve one because of my past history.
Would be nice if I can experience another relationship, but it feels like I don't 'want' it enough. What would you say in my position?
I'd personally say pace yourself and wait a day or few, then invite her around. You don't want to seem overeager, but hey if you want her bad, then sure just go for it.OK, official poll y'all. Should I invite this girl I hooked up with yesterday over again today, or is it better to pace ourselves a little? She seems to be into it, and I like her a lot but I dunno if I'm really looking for a relationship yet. But I'm also horny and it felt like we had good chemistry. You only live once, right?
This is the first time I've really hooked up with anyone in years so I dunno if I'm overthinking it or what.
Hello!
I have a bit on an issue. It happens every damn winter.
See, the thing is that dating is easy in the summer. You meet someone and you can go eat at a restaurant and take a walk, play sports if you want, hike, whatever. There are so many activities to choose from.
But when winter comes around I'm always out of ideas. Especially since it's -30 degrees celcius for the next two weeks. The girl I met asked if I wanted to go out for a date next week, and I said yes. Besides seeing a movie and going to a restaurant, I have no idea what we can do. This happens every damn winter.
I also don't want to invite girls or guys at my place after the first date because I am someone who is kinda slow with things, and having someone at my place is something that should happen after at least a couple of dates.
Do you guys have any suggestion of activities I could suggest? Anything that doesn't involve freezing to death would be appreciated!
I have a date lined up next week for the first time in a year. Been completely focused on myself in that time but have been thinking it's probably time to get back out there. As luck would have it someone messaged me on okcupid a few days ago, so let's see how it goes!
No idea to be honest. Is coffee/lunch too boring?Good luck dude, what are you planning on doing for the date? Let us know how it goes.
Yeah it's definitely a first meeting "let's see if you're actually like your profile" type of thing. Maybe I'll find a coffee place to meet that has other activities nearby in case we do hit it off.If is somebody you met through the internet, coffee/lunch & arriving on your own is perfectly fine and pretty normal. If you're fresh back to dating, something low-key and comfortable will probably suit you well. Also, it is a good opportunity to safely present to the other person that the profiles were an accurate representation of who the person is.
For people you've met through work/friends, some kind of activity is probably a better first date.
OK, official poll y'all. Should I invite this girl I hooked up with yesterday over again today, or is it better to pace ourselves a little? She seems to be into it, and I like her a lot but I dunno if I'm really looking for a relationship yet. But I'm also horny and it felt like we had good chemistry. You only live once, right?
This is the first time I've really hooked up with anyone in years so I dunno if I'm overthinking it or what.
Trying to talk to this girl about Christmas on a bad phone line on the train. She was talking to me about Witcher 3, and asked what I got for Christmas. I tried to explain that I bought the Dishonored Collection with some of my Christmas money, but she some somehow she heard 'Sonic', rather than 'Dishonored'. All I heard was "You bought Sonic? Why?" before the phone cut off.
I'd ghost someone that bought Sonic Forces too, to be fair.
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You know we can tell you're full of shit right? You expect us to believe every single girl you meet just loves to talk about and play video games? You just happen to be out in public and a random chick you talk up loves the Witcher, or Skyrim or whatever? And this consistently happens with every single girl you speak to?
You're either approaching emo 13 year olds at your local GAME or the munters at your nearest Spoons.
Somebody sounds jealous.You know we can tell you're full of shit right? You expect us to believe every single girl you meet just loves to talk about and play video games? You just happen to be out in public and a random chick you talk up loves the Witcher, or Skyrim or whatever? And this consistently happens with every single girl you speak to?
You're either approaching emo 13 year olds at your local GAME or the munters at your nearest Spoons.
Birthday girl cancelled on me today, kinda pissed but we're planning on grabbing coffee tomorrow morning now. If she cancels again I think I'll ghost, not really into flakey people.
First date I had earlier this week ended up with a hookup, but I won't able to see her again because she was visiting from Buffalo New York. Her dad is a Minister for the West Baptist Church and they live in a nice church owned house. Pretty interesting woman but meh, what can you do.
Dude, calm down. Also, what the shit is a "munter"?You know we can tell you're full of shit right? You expect us to believe every single girl you meet just loves to talk about and play video games? You just happen to be out in public and a random chick you talk up loves the Witcher, or Skyrim or whatever? And this consistently happens with every single girl you speak to?
You're either approaching emo 13 year olds at your local GAME or the munters at your nearest Spoons.
You know we can tell you're full of shit right? You expect us to believe every single girl you meet just loves to talk about and play video games? You just happen to be out in public and a random chick you talk up loves the Witcher, or Skyrim or whatever? And this consistently happens with every single girl you speak to?
You're either approaching emo 13 year olds at your local GAME or the munters at your nearest Spoons.
Lots of girls play games. I was just talking to one who was telling me she spent all day yesterday playing Spyro the Dragon. They aren't hard to find especially if that's the type of girl you're looking for.
They don't want to play Okami.What's wrong with a Spoons girl? Damn, some people's standards are far too high.
A virgin?Maybe if you spent more time looking for women who like games instead of complaining on forums, then you could be like Chronospherics too.
Maybe if you spent more time looking for women who like games instead of complaining on forums, then you could be like Chronospherics too.