So...we've strayed, a lot of comments about style and themes taking over and distracting from the anime talk we were having.
Let me just put it this way, to get us back on the rails.
When every season, and I mean every season, half of shows have this style:
Is it fair to say that this style is the default style or anime? Now granted, I'm not saying all anime is this. I'm saying the other half of anime is varied, both in tone and in visuals, for better or worse, and will target various demographics. But when half of anime, every season, looks like the above, is it hard to see why people recoil a bit?
And it is half, every time. There are a lot of seasons when it's more than half, I actually think this season is quite good. Whenever we have the conversation of what to watch in the new season, someone eventually says "there's something for you, you just have to find it", but that still means wading through half of the above. Doesn't that make that style, that large eye'd adolescent focused, generally sexualized style, the default?