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Oct 27, 2017
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A collective of 100 prominent French women including famed actress Catherine Deneuve have denounced the "puritanism" that followed the wake of the allegations against Hollywood mogul Harvey Weinstein, declaring that men should be "free to hit on" women.

The letter in Le Monde signed by around 100 French women writers, performers and academics deplored the wave of "denunciations" that has followed claims that producer Weinstein raped and sexually assaulted women over decades.

They claimed that the "witch-hunt" that has followed threatens sexual freedom.

"Rape is a crime but insistent or clumsy flirting is not, nor is gallantry a macho aggression,"

"Men have been punished summarily, forced out of their jobs when all they did was touch someone's knee or try to steal a kiss."

The letter points to the dangers of the #Metoo campaign, saying that it has led to a public accusations against individuals who, "without being given the opportunity to respond or defend themselves, were put exactly on the same level as sex offenders."

"It is the characteristic of Puritanism to borrow, in the name of a so-called general good, the arguments of the protection of women and their emancipation to bind them to the status of eternal victims, poor little things under the influence of the demon patriarchy, as in the good old days of witchcraft," they wrote.
More at https://www.thelocal.fr/20180109/ca...es-puritanism-following-weinstein-allegations
 

OrdinaryPrime

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I think she raises some decent points in the article. Especially about the reaction from the extremes as a result from this movement. But that's not really a reason to criticize the movement. It's not the movement's fault that there are chauvinistic aholes out there.

And I think painting the movement as attacking men who are just hitting on women is stretching to the point of absurdity.
 

vatstep

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"You scratch my back, I'll keep mum about that girl who drowned at your pool party."
 

Snack12367

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Don't know about France, but in the UK any person in a position of authority at a workplace doing any of the things they suggest, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
 
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Welp way to miss the point

Weinstein is like the total opposite of gallantry. He pretty much used his power to exert his will on women who were vulnerable
 

Shuri

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This thread will be great to see which posters will actually read the article and the letter (or a translation of it) and which ones only read the headline

protip: the letter is about how wrong it is to call women who knew "but didn't talk", or those who didnt call out in the medias the abusers, traitors or complicit of the sexual abuse. The letter mentions SEVERAL TIMES how awful and dreadful Weinsteins and others are.
 
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Coyote Starrk

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I 100% agree with her remark on clumsy flirting. As someone who has ALWAYS had problems with flirting and everything that goes with it I agree with that part.


The rest? Its hit or miss with me.
 

vicisac

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Given the American attitude of puritanism, and the left's reliance on members of certain teams being victims, this is not going to be well received here at all. She raises good points however, and a lot of nuance is needed because there is indeed nothing wrong with trying to get a date or trying to figure out if there's attraction with another person.
 

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I 100% agree with her remark on clumsy flirting. As someone who has ALWAYS had problems with flirting and everything that goes with it I agree with that part.


The rest? Its hit or miss with me.
Threatening to take away a role in a movie unless you receive a sexual favor from a woman is not "clumsy flirting." Most of the stories coming out of Hollywood are far more than "clumsy flirting."
 
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Other signatories of the letter included high profile French writer Abnousse Shalmani who has previously compared feminism to Stalinism, the philosopher Peggy Sastre who wants to "do away with feminism" and a porn star-turned-agony aunt.

That's a juicy sentence.
 

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It also suggests that the situation is problematic for women.

Women are now being told to "speak in the right way, to keep quiet about what makes them angry, with those who refuse to obey regarded as traitors and accomplices!", the letter claims.

"It is the characteristic of Puritanism to borrow, in the name of a so-called general good, the arguments of the protection of women and their emancipation to bind them to the status of eternal victims, poor little things under the influence of the demon patriarchy, as in the good old days of witchcraft," they wrote.

What?
 

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I mean, there's a difference between hitting on someone and what Weinstein did. Like, come on. No one is saying you can't try to get laid. But you can't try to leverage your position to compel someone else to drop drawers. Why is this difficult to understand? Dude straight up blacklisted women that didn't give him the goods.

Obviously there should be levels of nuance. That goes without saying. But for the culture to change people have to learn what's appropriate and inappropriate.
 

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Bit of a difference between stealing a kiss or flirting and potentially ruining someone's career for not "playing ball".
 

Coyote Starrk

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Threatening to take away a role in a movie unless you receive a sexual favor from a woman is not "clumsy flirting." Most of the stories coming out of Hollywood are far more than "clumsy flirting."

I understand that. Thats not what she said though and thats not what I am saying either.
 

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Flirting? Get fucked man. Asking a woman who thinks she's about to get an acting job to give you a massage in a hotel room isn't fucking flirting. The fuck.
 

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From a French perspective, some of the excesses of the #metoo campaign are definitely troubling. Franken and Weinstein did not do the same thing.

From an American perspective, this letter comes off really badly, because it seems like they're equating rape culture with masculinity (to be clear, they're not).

Americans aren't the most subtle people, it would be a lot better for everyone if we could add more nuance to this. There is a difference between rape (go to prison), masturbating in front of others (pay a fine, lose your job), and pretending to touch someone's chest through a Kevlar vest (apologize and stop being stupid).

This reminds me of the "zero-tolerance" policies in American schools were kids get suspended/expelled for shaping their slice of pizza so it somewhat looks like a pistol (which needless to say is nowhere near the same level as bringing an actual gun to school).
 

ZackieChan

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Welp way to miss the point

Weinstein is like the total opposite of gallantry. He pretty much used his power to exert his will on women who were vulnerable
That's not what the letter is saying. Like, not at all. Did you actually read anything before posting this?
Edit: I mean, not what the article says the letter is saying. I can't read the original in French.
 

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From a French perspective, some of the excesses of the #metoo campaign are definitely troubling. Franken and Weinstein did not do the same thing.

From an American perspective, this letter comes off really badly, because it seems like they're equating rape culture with masculinity (to be clear, they're not).

Americans aren't the most subtle people, it would be a lot better for everyone if we could add more nuance to this witch hunt. There is a difference between rape (go to prison), masturbating in front of others (pay a fine, lose your job), and pretending to touch someone's chest through a Kevlar vest (apologize and stop being stupid).

This reminds me of the "zero-tolerance" policies in American schools were kids get suspended/expelled for shaping their slice of pizza so it somewhat looks like a pistol (which needless to say is nowhere near the same level as bringing an actual gun to school).
Can we stop calling it a witch hunt
 

Hydrus

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Ehh, did she forget all the crazy shit he did, like freaking hiring people to stalk his victims?
 

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The current wave is going to sweep up some innocents as well as flush out a lot of guilty parties, this much is clear. The hope must be that it will ultimately do more good than harm.
 

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This thread will be great to see which posters will actually read the article and the letter (or a translation of it) and which ones only read the headline
I would be surprised if 1/5 of the people posting in this thread actually read the article. Just look at the responses.
 

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Once again.


Thats not what she said. Thats not what I am saying. Jesus people.

"Rape is a crime but insistent or clumsy flirting is not, nor is gallantry a macho aggression," said the letter signed by women including Catherine Millet, author of the explicit 2002 memoir 'The Sexual Life of Catherine M' also signed the letter and French actress Catherine Robbe-Grillet.

While it admits that the Weinstein affair had its uses, calling it "necessary" in exposing how some men abuse their power, it goes on to say that the allegations have gone too far.

"Men have been punished summarily, forced out of their jobs when all they did was touch someone's knee or try to steal a kiss."

It's fucking exactly what she said.
 

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Lately it seems these accusers are just waiting for these guys to be in headlines or winning awards to then make their baseless claims on twitter, these sometimes random people have been given way too much power.
 

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Men had been dragged through the mud, they argued, for "talking about intimate subjects during professional dinners or for sending sexually-charged messages to women who did not return their attentions."

How is consequences to non-consensual sexual advances considered going too far?
 

Bjones

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I maybe wrong but isn't it more about him being super sleezy for controlling women's careers based on not sleeping with him?

I mean he has every right to be the scum of the earth if that's what he wants but so does everyone else for calling him out for it.
 

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Just, no.
Imagine Weinstein trying to "steal a kiss" from your very lips.
OK for the part about clumsy flirting, but pressing your filthy, stinky lips on someone's uninvited is not clumsy flirting. Piss off, Catherine.

And then... who was the French actress who explained that it was OK that all the directors at last year's Cannes festival were men, because it's more natural for men to direct and for women to be directed?
So French.