Do you think this explanation is harming the movement in any way?
I think this explanation kind of doesn't address my concerns. Now I can't speak for anyone else but am I personally offended by the "men are garbage" comment? Absolutely not, I've got thicker skin than that and as someone who would consider himself an ally I am able to parse what someone saying that is trying to say, though I am able to see why people would view that as a wholly inflammatory statement that betrays the overall point someone is trying to make.
I think what betrays the movement is that certain individuals want to fall into similar mindsets which lead us into misogynistic and sexist mindsets. The same arguments that I've seen people make for defending the statement with no context are similar to the same arguements people make for Trump or other closet bigots. "That's not what they really meant." "You know when they say that they're REALLY saying this..." "Stop being so sensitive, snowflake." It'd be hypocritical for me to say one is wrong and the other is fine.
As for that bolded garbage, let me ask you this. Do you really think that someone who sees the level of systematic abuse that occurs from men towards women would be put off by some women venting with a "Men are garbage" in response to that? And if they are, do you think they were serious about listening to the actual problems that women go through? Why does this have to be about appeasing men's feelings in a movement that's about women being sexually abused by men? Why does everything have to be about babying you guys into supporting women who were sexually abused or else you just won't do it?
As someone who works in the very broadcasting industry that has seen a good portion of these higher profile examples of sexism and misogyny, I'd like to think that I'm more than willing to listen to and attempt to act on the mistreatment of women in and out of the workplace. As I've made mention I've attempted on my own as well to help curb that kind of element within my own realm of work. I'm not looking for medals or praise for that because as people have said this should just be about basic decency with relative strangers.
However, we shouldn't fall into the mindset that everyone is as woke as others who may belong on a relatively progressive leaning forum. We've made mention that some men are completely oblivious to the fact that they are being hurtful or misogynist because they don't know any better. Of course that doesn't excuse their actions but I've always found that attacking that person and calling them subhuman garbage doesn't exactly lead one to immediately say "you know what, you're right, I am garbage." People have basic pride and dignity. And when you attack that, walls come up. Your refusal to acknowledge that I think does a great disservice to the good work you're trying to do. You can't just assume everyone understands that a generalized statement means what you think it means. That's the kind of thing we accuse Trump of, calling him a dog whistler to racists for making broad generalized statements that he can easily defend himself by saying "now, now, I didn't say ALL Mexicans and I did say there's some good ones." Your intentions may be righteous, but the result of marginalizing people is still the same.
Is it about babying people? No. It's about not drive-by shitposting either in a forum or real life and then you or someone else getting upset because they didn't get the paragraph(s) long nuance of what that statement "really" meant.
Assuming people will just "get it" is going to leave you wanting. Because you know what they say about assuming.