I have always wanted to get a large tattoo on my back of a pissed-off Kirin with the swirly fire-clouds and all of that stuff. The idea of collaborating with an artist to get to something I like is both appealing and daunting, so I've always put it off. It's like the initial shopping stage is kind of overwhelming for me.
What are you ladies' experiences with that? Do you usually have a solid idea of what you want before finding a tattoo artist, or is it more exploratory?
Shop around. Look at an artist's previous work and find someone that fits the style that you like and are looking for. For example, some artists specialize in portraits and black and white tattoos, so maybe don't go to them if you want something more abstract and in color. Mine specializes in watercolor, so that's what we're doing.
I told him what I wanted and he sketched it out, we threw around some ideas, but ultimately I left the final design choice up to him and his skill as an artist. If you're too picky, then it makes it difficult to get a piece done with the same level of skill and care. Tattoo artists are professionals, and there has to be some level of trust in the design they present to you.
Of course, that's not to say you can't be picky, as it is going on your body forever, but I dunno. I told him "I want a ship and ocean themes to symbolize my home state" and he went "ok" and we talked about including whales and shit. It really was that easy, lol.