Also, for others who would like to post in this thread. The more information about you, your situation, and what you would like to accomplish the better.
THANK YOU.
So I'm curious who has posted looking for advice here has followed through with it.
More than I'd think, but far less than I'd hope.
Wow, come in here looking for actual advice and get rude sarcasm instead. Bravo.
What the?
...Anyway, don't worry about the people who read Cosmo columnists and shit for dating advice. You probably don't want to date those people... because y'know... they go to a Cosmo columnist for dating advice.
Also, the "rewrite your intro" isn't criticising the way you wrote your intro, but rather, (this is how I read it) asking you to change your perspective. Being around middle-aged, never married and no children is undeniably something which is currently part of your profile, but it's not what you should be selling yourself on. It's unchangeable, and the people who won't date you because of these aspects are already a lost cause in regards to potential partners, so
forget those people. I mean,
some women will see the fact that you've never been married or had children as a positive, as it means you're less likely to have baggage, or a child to divert funds and attention to etc.
You gave us quite a bit of general info about you, but
you only presented it in a negative light which painted you as a bad catch or something. Tell me, what about you is appealing to others? Is your job interesting or stable? Do you have a hobby, sport or other activity you regularly engage in which is interesting? Are you funny, insightful or outgoing? These are things to...
advertise yourself with, for lack of a better word. They're the positives. The selling points. Tell us a bit about them!
I got like 20 matchs but it's with a Tinder gold account while liking every profile (basically sweeping while doing something else). Asked to a date for 2 of them and no response since then. The others just straight up don't respond so basically they are not interested.
How long did you wait for them to respond? Also, don't swipe right on everyone, pretty confident Tinder will internally mark you as a bot or something.
How long do you guys typically wait to message a match on tinder?
For me, it depends on the time and stuff. If it's 6pm on a Friday night? Sure, I'll shoot a message like 10-15 mins after matching. It makes sense for me to be checking messages and stuff during that time and I give it a 10-15 minute buffer to see if a spam message comes through or they unmatch. If it's midday on a Tuesday? Yeah, that shit can wait till after I finish at work and the gym. Not like I'd be meeting them until that weekend anyway.