Great read. Thanks for sharing! And snatch those wigs!!! Whew... :clap:
But I still won't date someone who is a hardcore nintendo fan... sorry. Just a #preference :p
#playstation4Lyfe
I don't even know where to begin with this...
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Great read. Thanks for sharing! And snatch those wigs!!! Whew... :clap:
But I still won't date someone who is a hardcore nintendo fan... sorry. Just a #preference :p
#playstation4Lyfe
I don't even know where to begin with this...
It's negative. He criticises that you say "I'm out of their league, I go to the gym, why do they bother?" because it makes you look like you think you are a better person.
Y'all such superficial petty hoes.
Call me back when playstation has Pokemon.
I'm down to clown with nintendo and sony stans. But if you're that rare breed of an Xbox stan, goodbye, good riddance.
It's not about being a better person, but everyone has a certain value, to yourself, to your partner etc. And if you are a 10, why would you go for a 5? There has to be something that the 5 has to offer, something special, that the 10 can profit from, is it emotionally, sexually or whatever. I know that people want to say we are all equals, but we are really not, not on that level of attraction, and not on so many other levels. And i don't think that is a bad thing. We are all different, we all fight for things we love and believe, and i find it beautiful that we are all not the same. We should be treated all equal as human beings, to have the same rights, and same responsibilities. to be kind to each other and so on, but there will always be differences between us. And that's all i was saying, nothing more. And i have heard the sentence many times "But you have to look behind the appearance, to see the personality. And that may be true to some degree, but we all look for certain superficial features in the person we want to have sex with, or look for even more, a relationship or whatever, and why is that such a bad thing?
Gurl you think you're a 10 ? I'm gonna need a pic like now so I and we can judge that for ourselves.
LoL, i was never talking about me really, and i am never ever a 10, maybe a 6, or rather a 5 xD
Edit: Maybe i am alone in this one. But for example, i could never go for a guy like Ryan Reynolds, because i am never ever on his level. What is it i could offer him? Yes, maybe i have a great personality, play videogames and watch animes, but so do other millions of guys, and have a better body, better bone structer, are taller etc. I'm just being realistic. ^^
These ratings are opinions not facts and you don't know what someone will rate you by looking at them. But you're treating it like someone you don't think is attractive should know better than to ask someone out who you think is attractive.
My partner is a big guy and a hardcore Nintendo stan. xD I love him to bits he's got me into Nintendo stuff I wouldn't have been into otherwise (like I wouldn't have bought a Wii U if not for him) and he got me a Switch which I love. :)
On the topic of how gays treat big guys, well I can't really say much on the subject other than I've seen first hand how gays will treat big guys because I used to live with someone who fat shamed my partner a lot. Even to some of my housemates when I wasn't present and it's really not nice.
He's also gotten abuse from other gays online too and there's nothing that pisses me off more.
Also attraction is all subjective. I don't think there's anyone you can say is objectively sexy or hot.
My boyfriend just ordered the Switch, I'm excited to play Mario Kart and the rest. I'll get my own eventually for Smash and Pokeshit, but it's nice to have a little test drive of it beforehand.
Right now we live in a world full of dating apps/websites and we present ourselves like we are on the meat market, in a superficial way you kinda know what guys you can get and what not. Why is it bad to have a healthy image about yourself and realistic expectations? I know that there are many beautiful guys i could never ever get, and to be honest, i don't see it as something negativ.
And about those facts, isn't it kinda proven, that we humans feel more attracted to some features then the others? Isn't that the reason why so many models look alike? Maybe i'm remembering it wrong, don't know.
But i will stop, didn't want to upset anyone.
All this hate for Xbox stans, I feel so attacked right now. :'( But really, aside from Halo, I couldn't really say that I stan for them, especially with Sea of Thieves turning out the way it did.
Xbox stans have been humbled this gen so they are actually pretty chill.
Sony stans, tho...that's another story lol. They're the worst because they think they're the default so they don't think they're stanning.
Nintendo stans can range from quirky and fun to psychotic.
Well, I mean I may be wrong but there is a difference between someone who plays Xbox and an Xbox stan. (And Sony, Nintendo, etc.)
Yeah, it's honestly a complete accident that I even still use Xbox. I was prepared to drop them after the Xbox One reveal fiasco, but my brother surprised me with one and now I've made a bunch of friends that don't have PS4s/Switches and don't wanna leave them lol. And
I count myself as just someone who plays Xbox. As I said above, I only really stan for Halo. I have pretty neutral feelings on Microsoft/the Xbox brand as a whole.
i stan for Sony
but
i am in the market for a new 360 because my old one died and i have like 10 digital games i still want to play on it
but
i am in the market for a new 360 because my old one died and i have like 10 digital games i still want to play on it
Sony and PC stan here
Give me that new God of War graphics goodness and the Last of Us part 2 and I'm good!!
Naughty Dog are the best developers y'all!
Give me that new God of War graphics goodness and the Last of Us part 2 and I'm good!!
Naughty Dog are the best developers y'all!
Thanks for posting this!
I didn't come out until my mid-20s because I thought "whats the point if no guys will be interested because of my weight?". When I finally came out, the gay world proved my fear to be correct.
Since then, I've lost about 100 lbs and still, gay men will block me/go silent because i still have midsection fat. My straight friends don't understand this, they think i look muscular, but the gay male body standards are incredibly harsh.
On one hand, I wonder if I'm awful for somewhat giving in and attempting to conform to that nigh unattainable body standard, but on the other hand, I've always been interested in bodybuilding since I was young, I was just too chicken to try it. My life has gotten better now - all my vitals are up, I look healthier, I eat healthier, I don't need to use my inhaler 2-3 times a day, simply moving around the world and being able to climb stairs without intimidation or loss of breath is amazing! Yet many of the insecurities linger.
I take the TLC's Unpretty approach - however you wanna modify your body - plastic surgery, gaining, bodybuilding, weightloss, piercings, etc - do it if you want, but those things alone won't heal the psychological wounds many of us got during youth.
There needs to be a critical reckoning inside the gay community and how it treats its own.
I found the aforementioned article very interesting! It opened my eyes to some of the fears held by bigger gay men who partake in online dating. I think it works very well as a superficial conversation starter. However, from my own experiences, I am lean now, but I was chubby as a kid and in the latter half of college, people worry about two things: if their boyfriend can keep up with them as they partake in physical activities that they enjoy as a past time, and if their boyfriend uses food as an emotional crutch. I personally worry about the second one a lot. Competing with an inanimate consumable easily purchased object for emotional mindshare seems like an endless battle.
I converted to being a Nintendo stan after getting my Switch last year. I guess I'm still a Sony stan too, but the Switch reminded me why video games are my go to hobby. Plus the colourful, joyous titles that Nintendo specialise in entered my life at a moment where I really needed a dose of pure, innocent fun.
I took your advice and asked him out, I have a date in a fancy bar on Wednesday. I'm pretty excited, but so nervous my hands are shaking!
I took your advice and asked him out, I have a date in a fancy bar on Wednesday. I'm pretty excited, but so nervous my hands are shaking!
All three console stans can be annoying, to be honest. But Sony fanboys have been pretty arrogant lately.
i just learned today that i am older than Angelina Jolie was when she starred in the first Tomb Raider
what is this strange feeling
what is this strange feeling
i stopped after you said you learned you are older than angie.
Hey QueerEra, been awhile since I posted here.
Has anyone ever had bad experience going into Canada before? A recent topic about needing a passport to go to Canada brought up some terrible memories... Like, with someone with severe Anxiety problems, along with Panic Attack disorders, it's definitely eating at me right now.
Has anyone ever had bad experience going into Canada before? A recent topic about needing a passport to go to Canada brought up some terrible memories... Like, with someone with severe Anxiety problems, along with Panic Attack disorders, it's definitely eating at me right now.
Embrace that!
And also like, have a good time and be yourself. If he agreed to meet up you've probably got nothing to worry about.
Queer Eye renewed for S2. Sobbing. Ya'll better watch S1 if you ain't. Jonathan is a true queer icon.
>:(
truer words were never spoken sis
Good article. Even in the bear community of all places, bigger men are sometimes socially shunned compared to "muscle bears". It's everywhere, and it sometimes makes me feel like I'm not accepted even in the LGBT community :(.
Yeah, used to live in Detroit so I crossed the border a good amount. I've been be stopped and had my car searched at the border going both ways, it's super annoying. More of a time hassle than anything.
On the bright side, the Canadian border guards are usually really hot.
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The one time I crossed the American/Canadian border, the border guard on the Canadian side was an incredibly nice person. Getting back into the states, on the other hand, was another story. The guy yelled every single question, and his hand was on his gun the whole time. It was an incredibly scary experience and, as someone who also suffers with anxiety problems, the encounter left me stuttering for hours.
I'm more of a Prompto guy. They're all hot tho haha. I'll give them that, the game is totally a gay fanservice dream.
I was going to say, of all the games to advertise on Grindr, FFXV is the perfect choice! :P
I had to stay the night at a hotel on the WA/Vancouver border after being denied entry back in 2010. I was moving from NY to Seattle at the time, and going to stay with friends in Canada while looking for a place in Seattle. Problem was, without a permanent address and no proof that I was returning to the US, they thought I was trying to "escape" untraced into the country or something.
p.s. there was also a purple dildo in my suitcase that I scared they were going to find, lol
a game for guys who is into games but can't be bothered by real life
You're perfectly justified in being upset about this. He's judging you for your sexuality, and is shaming anyone who doesn't adhere to his toxic view of masculinity.
He is. He's one of those friends I've known since I was 4. He has toxic political ideas/thoughts and I don't like hanging out with him. But he suffers from mental illness and doesn't have many friends, and I feel bad about cutting him off completely. I'm starting to be less tolerant of his shit though.
If you are only keeping in touch with him out of pity, please pardon my bluntness, but your friendship has died a long time ago.
Now, I don't know your history, but sometimes it is best to let go. In this peculiar case, it may be best for you to move on.
I feel like that's where its headed. It's tough though, he's a family friend. Me, him and a couple others went to school together for most of our lives, and always stayed good friends over the years. But towards the end of high school and after, he became much more of a douche.
That part about giving head stings, because that's what I did recently, give head for the first time. So he knows that, and now he's shaming me for it.
Fuck off Kyle.
That part about giving head stings, because that's what I did recently, give head for the first time. So he knows that, and now he's shaming me for it.
Fuck off Kyle.