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SweetVermouth

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Mar 5, 2018
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There is a difference between overweight and obese. I personally don't mind if someone is overweight and has a few pounds more on their hips, but being over 300lb should not be celebrated.
Whenever possible I get the low salt version
I have never a "low salt" version of anything and it also doesn't make you lose weight because salt doesn't have any calories.
 

THE GUY

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Oct 27, 2017
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According to ERA, the above people are being considered obese, unhealthy and are being coddled for accepting their bodies.



Some of you posters in here are scum. What an ugly view of people you have.

Pisses me off to no end.
That image has little to do with body type.

Most of those people are obese. The black woman on the left in the above picture is the only one who'd qualify as just overweight. The other women are all obese. The three dudes are definitely very fat, and probably bordering on obese too, but two of them seem to have a decent base underneath it. But that means little if they're carrying an extra 30lbs of fat, which they at the very least are.

There is difference between being morbidly obese and obese.
 

Rayne

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Oct 25, 2017
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As someone who has suffered from both weight and depression issues, IMO, being mean to me/overweight people (social pressure in other words) is FAR more effective than body-positivity and talking to your doctor to motivate you to actually make a lifestyle change. That's just my experience though. No idea if there have been any studies into it.

Also, DigitalOp they aren't 'conflating' plus-size with obesity, plus-size is and always has been a euphemism for overweight. And for guys it also used to be 'husky'. And for everyone it has been 'big boned'. It all means overweight.



I just hope everyone can eventually find both positivity and good health in their own lives.

Been the opposite in my experience I usually got more depressed and ate more when someone was an asshole. That said when someone was firm but truthful (in telling me my weight would kill me) that got me to kick my ass in gear and start losing weight. Telling someone the truth and being an asshole are not the same thing.
 

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Congrats, you're technically correct assholes.

The funniest apart about all of this is I havent seen not one nation of people that all shared the same bodytype....

So where did this insistence that ALL people must be slim in order to be healthy come from? Esp when people wildly vary from height to height.

Yall so quick to talk about BMI and shit and don't even realize it wasnt even created by a fucking doctor.
Interesting assumption in that bolded part, that you're educating me on something I already know, as if to score a point in a debate.

And thanks for calling me an asshole.

How old are you, by the way?
 

Zornack

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Oct 29, 2017
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Congrats, you're technically correct assholes.

The funniest apart about all of this is I havent seen not one nation of people that all shared the same bodytype....

So where did this insistence that ALL people must be slim in order to be healthy come from? Esp when people wildly vary from height to height.

Yall so quick to talk about BMI and shit and don't even realize it wasnt even created by a fucking doctor.

No body type naturally packs on 40 pounds of excess fat without neglect.
 
Dec 18, 2017
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Duh.

When I was in grade school, I remember being one of 2 or 3 fat kids in my class. I recently looked at pictures from back then and laughed because now I would be considered normal.
 

rude

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Oct 25, 2017
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HAES is definitely dangerous as fuck and I hate that legitimizing complacency is acceptable now. TLC in particular kind of revels in it with Whitney Thore's show.
 

BlackGoku03

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Oct 25, 2017
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Also I think many people don't realise where the line of obese goes. It's lower than most probably think.

Here's me just above overweight at obese. I always thought of myself at not obese, but that's what living in an obese society does to your self perception.

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This is pretty close to my body type. I'm 5'7 and 198lbs. Doctors consider me obese. The line is pretty low... I'd rather call it husky. Especially if you can see your penis when you urinate!

So yeah, I need to lose weight but I'm not fucking obese. Which is what I think Digital OP is trying to get at.

Well obviously it's not enough to tell people the truth but it's the starting point. There are plenty of delusional people out there who actually believe this healthy at every size bullshit.

Other than that there are several steps that need to be taken to fight the obesity epidemic:

1. Fight obesity were it starts for most, in their childhood. Parents of obese kids need to be busted for child abuse.

2. Education. Kids need to learn how to cook healthy food and how gaining/losing weight works. Also focus on physical activity.

3. Tax the shit out of soft drinks and fast food/unhealthy food.

4. Access to healthy food especially in poor neighborhoods.
Look, people who are fat already know they're fat. It's not a mystery to them. I do agree with your other points though.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Jesus fucking christ, some posters in this thread...

Maybe combat obesity in a way that isn't making people feel ostracized and suicidal? What the fuck is wrong with you people? What makes you think that society yelling how fat people barely deserve to live is helpful to anyone? "Telling people the truth" my ass. Portion sizes are generally way too large and teaching people about that is a much more effective way to curb obesity. Then again the bullshit-laden diet industry pushing a million products that allegedly help people lose weight is one of the most lucrative industries out there. Hmm, what a coincidence that the US with it's rampant unchecked capitalist market also happens to be one of the world's most obese countries.

Laymen still citing BMI in 2018… smh.
 

GatsGatsby

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Oct 27, 2017
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Here's the thing about fat people. And I can say this because I've struggled with my weight. They know they're fat. They know how people look at them when they walk down the street. The idea that people are in denial is mostly not true. They know they are fat but they lie to themselves because they keep failing at bettering themselves. And even as they lie to themselves they know the truth. It just makes it easier to get through the day. They don't need society to tell them that they are fat. They don't need society to tell them that they are unhealthy. They don't even need society to say "We accept you fat person". They need society to tell them "We want you to be happy. Maybe you're fat and it's very depressing for you. Maybe you are fat and you've accepted that about yourself. Maybe you are fat and you are happy. You can be fat and be happy and still know that you should try to lose weight. You can be happy and still want to improve yourself. Even if the pounds don't come flying off, you can improve your health and your quality of life."

What fat people need is people who believe in them regardless of if they succeed or fail, because unless their weight gain is because of an injury or disease, it's probably the symptom of something else. You're not looking a fat person. You're looking at an abuse survivor. You're looking at someone who has dealt with lifelong depression. You're looking at someone who grew up poor and developed unhealthy eating habits to compensate. You're looking at someone who has never believed in themselves. You're looking at someone who was never told they were worth a damn.

It's so easy to say that the solution is diet and exercise, but you're treating the symptom and not the cause. Maybe they can overcome it with diet and exercise, or maybe it will be a constant hurdle until they learn to deal with the trauma that created the person they are now.

Anyway, I can't speak for everyone. I know there are people who glamorize obesity and I don't know what goes through their or anyone else's mind. Just my perspective from my own meanderings through life.

Fucking thank you! You've said it much better than I ever could.
 

prophetvx

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Nov 28, 2017
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According to ERA, the above people are being considered obese, unhealthy and are being coddled for accepting their bodies.



Some of you posters in here are scum. What an ugly view of people you have.

Pisses me off to no end.

Yeah, they are probably obese. The medical definition of obese is far lower than most realize. At 6'0 one only needs to be 220lbs to be considered obese. 185lbs to be overweight.

BMI is largely considered bunk science now, but for your average person it holds pretty true in terms of how much body fat one carries both the stuff you see and the stuff packed around your organs.
 

Hops

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Oct 27, 2017
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Madrid, Spain.
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According to ERA, the above people are being considered obese, unhealthy and are being coddled for accepting their bodies.



Some of you posters in here are scum. What an ugly view of people you have.

Pisses me off to no end.

Lmao, scum for telling the truth. The people in those pictures are not healthy, and they are definitely overweight. Also I can't help but notice that all of them are less than 40 years old, when they get around that age they will start to understand that if they don't fix some shit they will probably die earlier than they should.
 

LinkStrikesBack

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Oct 27, 2017
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So what's the solution? Body-positivity culture allows people feel better about themselves on a day to day basis. Who are we to go back to fat-shaming? There must be a way to curb the obesity epidemic without making people feel like shit.

I mean, making it clear to people how bad it is for them is important too.

It's a bit like if we hadn't been allowed to have the severe advertising against smoking including things like printing pcutures of the damage smoking does right on the packs, just because it might hurt smokers feelings.
 
Oct 29, 2017
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Fat shaming isn't okay.

We should gear to teach that fat is not unattractive, but that it is unhealthy.

The world (or at least america) will never know portion control as an accepted concept.

Portion control is unnatural.

We evolved to eat as much food as we can get our hands on and that's why our stomachs are so large and our bodies so efficient at storing extra food away as fat.

We have train out this biological instinct from a young age, until we find a way to do that, obesity will always be with us.
 

bane833

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Nov 3, 2017
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BMI works for 99% of the population. No need to attack it just because it says something you don't want to hear.
 

PatMan

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Oct 27, 2017
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If you are abled body, you have absolutely no excuse for not exercising. Obesity is going to be one of the biggest drivers for medical costs, and you owe it to your fellow citizen to workout and eat right.
 

CannonballB

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Oct 27, 2017
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Pahonix
I am overweight, always trying to get to normal, and normalisation of overweight/obese really doesn't seem like a good idea. It's exactly because of the ideals that I don't slip into heavier and even unhealthier.

Thankfully I don't think plus size will never catch on with men. Plus size women can look really smoking hot, but I don't think men with extra fat will ever look hot at all.

Disagree completely. There's a huge gay population that's all about that bass.

I'm a big boy - I have no issues getting.... taken care of.

If you are abled body, you have absolutely no excuse for not exercising. Obesity is going to be one of the biggest drivers for medical costs, and you owe it to your fellow citizen to workout and eat right.

The problem is, exercise doesn't really make you lose weight. A run can burn 300 calories (as an example). That's 2 pops. No, you're better off counting calories than trying to exercise to lose weight. What exercise CAN do though, is help your body function better, which is always a good thing. TO BE CLEAR - I'm not saying exercise is bad, wrong, won't do anything, etc. My point is only that exercise does NOT play a big role in losing weight.

I'm taking this class right now on how skinny people eat. It's extremely interesting, and actually really easy to incorporate. I've already made some changes, though I can't say I've seen progress yet, but I think I will soon.
 

Palookah

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Oct 28, 2017
268
The conflation of someone being plussize/bigger sized to people being obese is fucking disrespectful and fucked up.

It's all genetics. Not ever person is going to be a stick figure or 130lbs. How about we target this countries fucked up food situation where it's entirely easier to buy bullshit meals than healthier alternative choices.

People shouldn't be fucking demonized for having different bodytypes.


This is some serious bullshit.
 

carlsojo

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Oct 28, 2017
33,891
San Francisco
Portion control is unnatural.

We evolved to eat as much food as we can get our hands on and that's why our stomachs are so large and our bodies so efficient at storing extra food away as fat.

We have train out this biological instinct from a young age, until we find a way to do that, obesity will always be with us.

We stretch our stomachs by stuffing ourselves. If we stop stuffing ourselves, our stomachs will shrink and we will become fuller faster.
 

DigitalOp

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Nov 16, 2017
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Interesting assumption in that bolded part, that you're educating me on something I already know, as if to score a point in a debate.

And thanks for calling me an asshole.

How old are you, by the way?

Im 9 years old and Im pissed off by peoples attitudes so forgive me. How about we start over? People aren't magically unhealthy or lesser just because their bigger than someone. There is an obvious line where being overweight becomes dangerous but to put that on people simple just for being thicker is ignorant as fuck.



No body type naturally packs on 40 pounds of excess fat without neglect.

You must be right, theres no way someones body could burn calories slower or have a slower rate of metabolism.

We're all exactly the same.
 

Terra Firma

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Oct 25, 2017
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Obesity is largely a result of food addiction coupled with cheap access to calorie dense foods. The reason why diets like keto are so successful is because it's a lot easier to not eat something addictive entirely rather than controlling for portions.
 

NinjaScooter

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Oct 25, 2017
54,193
What are some examples of this?
Also fat people can't be beautiful?

No, people can be beautiful and also unhealthy. A thin fashion model can be a 3 pack a day smoker. The problem is the way society has conflated body size with beauty as opposed to health as if you can't be both things, and to both extremes, likely as a way to sell makeup and clothing.
 

Hyun Sai

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Oct 27, 2017
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Yeah we are at this point because people are normalizing obesity, which threesold is much lower than many think. It's not a question of aesthetic, it's purely medical. But dem feelings though.
 

Bakercat

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Oct 27, 2017
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Nothing sucks more than having endocrine failure and your weight fluctuates around 50-100 pounds every year due to stress and such. Some people have it much harder to lose and maintain weight then others. Sometimes there is more going on then just laziness and junk food.
 

PatMan

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Oct 27, 2017
978
The conflation of someone being plussize/bigger sized to people being obese is fucking disrespectful and fucked up.

It's all genetics. Not ever person is going to be a stick figure or 130lbs. How about we target this countries fucked up food situation where it's entirely easier to buy bullshit meals than healthier alternative choices.

People shouldn't be fucking demonized for having different bodytypes.
Factually false and harmful
 

carlsojo

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Oct 28, 2017
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Im 9 years old and Im pissed off by peoples attitudes so forgive me. How about we start over? People aren't magically unhealthy or lesser just because their bigger than someone. There is an obvious line where being overweight becomes dangerous but to put that on people simple just for being thicker is ignorant as fuck.





You must be right, theres no way someones body could burn calories slower or have a slower rate of metabolism.

We're all exactly the same.

Well I guess this is a good example of us needing to be better about educating our children about healthy eating and the dangers of obesity.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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We honestly don't remember what a healthy weight looks like anymore. I'm on the upper bounds of "normal" BMI and everyone thinks I look skinny.
 

Zornack

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Oct 29, 2017
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Im 9 years old and Im pissed off by peoples attitudes so forgive me. How about we start over? People aren't magically unhealthy or lesser just because their bigger than someone. There is an obvious line where being overweight becomes dangerous but to put that on people simple just for being thicker is ignorant as fuck.





You must be right, theres no way someones body could burn calories slower or have a slower rate of metabolism.

We're all exactly the same.

For 99% of people, yes, we are. Obesity has nothing to do with metabolism differences. People eat way too much and move too little.
 

mf.luder

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Oct 28, 2017
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There's a disconnect between telling someone they aren't worth anything (fat shaming) and telling somehow that their lifestyle is unhealthy and poses health risks (obesity). A smart person on the receiving end should know the difference.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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I don't think I've seen anyone advocating what you're saying, and in fact the vast majority of posts preface anything said by specifically denouncing fat-shaming

Did they now? So the people stating that fat shaming is merely telling the truth doesn't imply that's what they think people should be doing? We have people citing "medical obesity" based on fucking BMI to justify their hatred for crying out loud. I'm assuming every single one of the people advocating for this also walk up to every smoker you see on the street and lecture them on how they will die prematurely.
 
Nov 2, 2017
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It's good for the vast majority of people. It really only breaks down if you have a good amount of muscle mass.

Or if you're young. Or elderly. Or pregnant. In the abstract, it's useless. What's more useful is your cardiovascular health, BMR and body fat %. Add in the fact that people should be shooting to increase their muscle mass as a principle of health and fitness anyway, and the BMI becomes barely useful as a starting point at best.
 

Antrax

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Oct 25, 2017
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somewhere you should also encourage your customers to take care of themselves.

Uhhh, pass

Just tell sick people to go to the doctor and improve healthcare of course. There's no reason to just come after a plus size person unless you're their doctor and have some evidence. My wife is a big girl and it's mostly genetic, which she learned in college from a specialist. But fucks like some of y'all still wanna come at her with "but what about your blood pressure"and shit.

I've told her she should just carry around a card with her stats to whip out when people do this, then ask them how they're doing on those metrics. I'd guess half of them are worse.
 

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