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So what's the solution? Body-positivity culture allows people feel better about themselves on a day to day basis. Who are we to go back to fat-shaming? There must be a way to curb the obesity epidemic without making people feel like shit.
Regulations on shitty food practices.
Like turning the high fructose corn syrup production quota restriction into a fucking outright ban.
And not having the only food some people can afford, be body destroying garbage.
In this context, "athlete" can certainly refer to muscular weight lifters and bodybuilders.Each year we have to get a biometric screening through work for our insurance. My co-worker and I both qualify as obese. I don't think you have to be an 'extreme' athlete for BMI to be off. We just both lift weights. Although I'll readily admit that my co-worker is straight up jacked.
What's the end game here? Should we ban all things that are unhealthy for humans like sugar, butter, alcohol and smoking?
And that's the problem in a nutshell with the overly concerned people in this thread. You really don't care; but nobody wants to admit they need to feel superior over somebody so they offer unsolicited advice with tut-tuts and yelling 'no excuses!' when they have no idea about the people they're talking to nor do they honestly care.
we should limit. we literally have movie theaters out here selling 1000 calorie sized soda. like thats insane. its like 6 bottles of soda in one cup. Like i love the mini cans of sodas, ice cream etc now because i just get a taste and usually thats all i really needed. but when you have these large sized items (you feel obligated to eat or drink it all) etc.What's the end game here? Should we ban all things that are unhealthy for humans like sugar, butter, alcohol and smoking?
we should limit. we literally have movie theaters out here selling 1000 calorie sized soda. like thats insane. its like 6 bottles of soda in one cup. Like i love the mini cans of sodas, ice cream etc now because i just get a taste and usually thats all i really needed. but when you have these large sized items (you feel obligated to eat or drink it all) etc.
stuff doesnt have to be banned but stuff should be limited and actually have daily values established for sugar.
This imo is the correct approach. No need to shame people, but do put out official recommendations and in the worst case regulations on sales of portions. Though I guess you'd have insane "LIBERTY OR DEATH!!!!!!!11" people going up in arms over not being able to eat 8000+ kilocalories in one visit to McDonald's, so eh.
I think the soda taxes etc work, at least discourage people from doing it, similar to how they tax cigarettes. Like man the mini soda cans are a godsend to me, then i found out they have these mini ice cream cups and if i have a taste for some ice cream its just enough.
Also eating out sucks nearly all the time because like for example if you buy salmon they are giving you like 3 servings of it in one sitting, or burgers etc i mean i get people want to feel like they are getting more for their money but it all adds up.
Also having smaller plates, cups etc in your house that forces you to have to go back and forth and pour helps a lot.
Also we have a big issue when it comes to food and wasting it and we over eat because of the shame of not finishing our food etc.
Yeah man I know exactly what you're saying. Here in Sweden eating out literally always has me leaving like... half the plate? I can imagine it's even worse in the US. Whenever I eat fast food hamburgers out nowadays I skip the menu and literally order just the hamburger and a cup of water. That's more than enough for me. Just doing these types of adjustments and not forcing myself to finish a plate when I'm already full resulted in me losing 40kg ridiculously fast. Not that I feel particularly better in terms of health or anything if I'm going to be honest, but as far as weight loss for the sake of weight loss goes it sure was effective. Fortunately for me overeating was mostly an intellectual idea where I actually thought I was supposed to eat that much in my case. While I do comfort eat to handle depression at times, the rest of my diet was easy to control. Other people have it way harder with breaking these behaviors even if they know about this stuff :/
yup, just eating less also ive been doing some light fasting (i refuse to eat after 8 PM and thats helped a lot as well.) i want to look into deeper intermittent fasting and get that going as well so i can really be on a good routine. Also making a weekly menu of what to eat stops me a lot from buying stuff to eat while im out as well.
Heh I did the opposite - started skipping breakfast because I noticed there was literally no change in my energy levels one way or the other. Eating lunch and something toward the evening is more than enough food for me in a day. Eating as much now as I did before just boggles my mind. I always feel like shit when I've eaten too much and every time it happens now I just go "whoa... this is how I constantly felt before... jesus christ".
Doing specific diets and following rules about fasting and such never worked for me, I needed to be fast and loose with my approach to this for it to work. Just have some basic ground rules that require little to no actual effort or maintenance was my jam. Everything I tried prior to that I got bored of after a few weeks :P
But yeah, I'm down to literally just buying one snack item whenever I shop groceries (which is usually once a week) as well, so having a tiny plan like that is also good for me. Before I used to buy like... two bags of crisps, some cookies, probably more cookies and a whole Ben & Jerry's. I then spent like 2-3 days only eating that shit before I got to the real food I had purchased, lol. With that in mind it was pretty obvious that yeah, whatever I buy I'm going to instantly eat with zero self-control, so let's just not buy it.
For the record I don't follow my diet strictly at all. If I'm out with friends and someone wants to buy cheesecake, I'll eat the damn cheesecake. Maybe I won't buy two extra pieces though. I don't let my diet control my life because then I would just find it annoying. Honestly hope someone struggling with weight reads this and goes "hey, that's the way I work as well, maybe I'll give this a shot!" I don't want to simplify the issue and I am fully aware that the struggle is really intense for some people for whom this sort of approach just doesn't work, so no offense to anyone in that situation, but for people like me all of this overcomplication of diets and strategies and effort just really put me off from caring to begin with. Just going "oh it's all about caloric intake and setting some ground rules about what stuff to abstain from" was way easier for someone like me than doing all that planning and self-accountability most people talk about.
This is blatantly obvious.
The "fat acceptance" movement is horrifically destructive.
It felt like the US was on the right course during the Obama years. Michelle really did the best she could to fight obesity. Its strange though, on my recent trip to Europe the lack of morbidly obese people was very noticeable compared to here.
Ding ding dingHere's the thing about fat people. And I can say this because I've struggled with my weight. They know they're fat. They know how people look at them when they walk down the street. The idea that people are in denial is mostly not true. They know they are fat but they lie to themselves because they keep failing at bettering themselves. And even as they lie to themselves they know the truth. It just makes it easier to get through the day. They don't need society to tell them that they are fat. They don't need society to tell them that they are unhealthy. They don't even need society to say "We accept you fat person". They need society to tell them "We want you to be happy. Maybe you're fat and it's very depressing for you. Maybe you are fat and you've accepted that about yourself. Maybe you are fat and you are happy. You can be fat and be happy and still know that you should try to lose weight. You can be happy and still want to improve yourself. Even if the pounds don't come flying off, you can improve your health and your quality of life."
What fat people need is people who believe in them regardless of if they succeed or fail, because unless their weight gain is because of an injury or disease, it's probably the symptom of something else. You're not looking a fat person. You're looking at an abuse survivor. You're looking at someone who has dealt with lifelong depression. You're looking at someone who grew up poor and developed unhealthy eating habits to compensate. You're looking at someone who has never believed in themselves. You're looking at someone who was never told they were worth a damn.
It's so easy to say that the solution is diet and exercise, but you're treating the symptom and not the cause. Maybe they can overcome it with diet and exercise, or maybe it will be a constant hurdle until they learn to deal with the trauma that created the person they are now.
Anyway, I can't speak for everyone. I know there are people who glamorize obesity and I don't know what goes through their or anyone else's mind. Just my perspective from my own meanderings through life.
Healthy foods being expensive is a myth. I'm not talking about expensive gluten free, organ non GMO stuff, but simple healthy meals that will both be cheaper and healthier than fast food.US:
Health Care is expensive. Good health care is insanely expensive. Healthy foods are expensive. Living 100% healthy is insanely expensive.
So yeah. It's tough.
Healthy foods being expensive is a myth. I'm not talking about expensive gluten free, organ non GMO stuff, but simple healthy meals that will both be cheaper and healthier than fast food.
Make some pasta with tomato sauce, throw some frozen peas & corn and baby you got a stew going. Eggs, super cheap.
damn I feel so called out
Stop eating is a solution. You literally have to not eat. I will never understand this I'm afraid on an emotional level, I do get the biological reasons.So what's the solution? Body-positivity culture allows people feel better about themselves on a day to day basis. Who are we to go back to fat-shaming? There must be a way to curb the obesity epidemic without making people feel like shit.
Wow, you must have so much dedication to pull this off.After my kid was born and threat of insulin injections I had to do a lot of changes to my diet. I was at 280 in december last year and now down to 256. The biggest drop was 280 to 262 from december to march. From march to june i lost six pounds at a rate of 2 pounds a month, which was my goal. At any rate my a1c dropped a full point from 7.9 to 6.9 dec to march and I'm waiting for my new results this week. I'm optimistic because my fasting bg goes from 85-107 when I test in the mornings. Much better than finding myself at 150 mg fasting.
I forced myself to eat salads monday wendnesday and friday. From there I told myself to stop shoveling food in my mouth.
Its not easy when you trained yourself to eat a lot for the past 38 years.
Eventually my body adjusted the to the reduced amount of food I eat and I feel fuller easier. But man... Those first 4 months were a bitch.
I still have a long way to go. I don't feel thinner at all but people have stated it and it helps a lot but I don't let it get to my head. I can't slip and I keep watching myself constantly. Its stressful but I do it for my daughter. I want to see her graduate high school one day.
Let me put it this way to be more in context with the OP: Fat shaming never worked on me. I hated being fat but I didn't give a crap what others thought, I still don't. I was one of those forever alone guys in my 20s and I ate what I want and drank all the stupid Mountain Dew I could guzzle. I quit smoking when I met my now wife when I was 30. I got married at 32 and diagnosed with diabetes a year later. The first time I was diagnosed it shocked me and I lost a lot of weight and scared myself to manage it. It worked for a year but old habits die hard. I got lazy. I stress ate a lot and five years after being diagnosed I was about to slip up and start insulin. I knew that would be the end of any chance for be because insulin really doesn't help out with getting rid of fat at all.
Seeing my kid is what did it. Having loving people around me is what caused me to change. Realizing that people do care if I'm around or not is what mattered.
The more you shame someone the more they'll bury themselves further into whatever it is that is concerning, be it fat, drugs, booze, compulsive masturbation. The excuse "I do this to you because I love you" doesn't really work. I dug myself into a hole and I had (still have) to crawl my way out but I'm able to do it because I have a reason to, I have love in my life and its worth it, at least more worth than eating a whole 5 dollar taco bell cravings box with a couple extra tacos on the side.
I'm not buying the it's in the genetics argument. I have 3 friends who were 20st plus who decided to eat well and exercise and shifted a tonne of weight.
One guy 25st, parents and siblings all obese because all they ate was Turkey twizzlers and chocolate. Decides to change his diet and hit the gym. He now has <10% body fat and is about to enter his first BNBF comp.
Genetics is just an excuse (IMO)
US:
Health Care is expensive. Good health care is insanely expensive. Healthy foods are expensive. Living 100% healthy is insanely expensive.
So yeah. It's tough.
The solution is to tell the people the fucking truth even if it hurts their feelings. Being fat is bad, end of story.
Healthy foods being expensive is a myth. I'm not talking about expensive gluten free, organ non GMO stuff, but simple healthy meals that will both be cheaper and healthier than fast food.
Make some pasta with tomato sauce, throw some frozen peas & corn and baby you got a stew going. Eggs, super cheap.
Sugar is a good thing to tax, not fat (But I'm guessing you were talking about an idea, as opposed to slabs of butter)
In Australia they're taxing high sugar food at the moment, lolly water like Coke and Lemonade are getting taxed the hardest and hopefully that money will be used to fund health care for diet related disease.
In a few years check back to see if it has improved anything.
Btw: 120kg 195cm
Healthy foods being expensive is a myth. I'm not talking about expensive gluten free, organ non GMO stuff, but simple healthy meals that will both be cheaper and healthier than fast food.
Make some pasta with tomato sauce, throw some frozen peas & corn and baby you got a stew going. Eggs, super cheap.