Adam: But the point is to sort of say, 'Oh, there's these loony crazies who have sort of gone too far.' And what's never really reconciled is that through this time period this raises the question of was it considered crazy or insane or delusional to kill three million Indochinese in Vietnam? Was the CIA's use of torture and coups and dirty wars and executions, are these things considered crazy? And of course the answer is no, because they're sort of factored in. That violence is factored into the system. And that the only people who can be uncivil or be conspiracy theorists are by definition people who are not factored in.
Nima: Right. And those who are then challenging that, which is why certainly from the Sixties and beyond, and I'm sure before that as well, protestors and definitely when it came to civil disobedience, that people that challenged power, that took to the streets, that actually challenged and fought against these policies, whether it was for civil rights, whether it was against Vietnam, etcetera, etcetera. And you can take that all the way up the decades, you know, since, those are often deemed to be kind of too loud, too radical, they're not inclusive enough even though they're pretty much the most inclusive of, you know, marginalized and vulnerable communities. And yet protests are seen like, 'Oh well, you know, are they going to shut down traffic? Is my commute going to be fucked up because like I think there are better ways to do that.' And so what you see is the policies that are being challenged, right? The wars, the invasions, the deportations, etcetera, whatever it may be, those are never uncivil. Those are never uncouth. But challenging them in certain ways is insufficiently respectful.
Adam: Yeah. You see this over and over and over and over again with the way in which certain liberals talk about protests, that there's this, there's this sort of black and white rose tinted civil rights movement that was nonviolent and anything that involves a burnt trash can or a dumpster turned over is somehow in an affront to all humanity.
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Nima: There's a book from 2006 called Revolutionary Characters: What Made the Founders Different, written by historian Gordon Wood, and in this book he explains about the founders of the United States, right? Those luminaries the Founding Fathers, and how they really were obsessed with this, with this notion of civility. And so here's what Gordon Wood writes quote, "The 18th Century Anglo-American Enlightenment was preoccupied with politeness, which meant affability, sociability, cultivation; indeed, politeness was considered the source of civility, which was soon replaced by the word civilization." End quote. So you'll see basically how the Jeffersons and Franklins and Adams and Washingtons, especially George Washington was completely obsessed with this idea of etiquette and politeness and you'll see how that was their version of not being this scrappy colonial upstart in kind of opposition to Europe, but of a piece with Europe that they were as civil and as civilized as the Europeans. Meanwhile, these are the people who own fucking slaves. These are the people who were genocide-ing Native Americans. I mean this, so its clear how even in the effort to say 'we are being so polite, we write and we speak with the utmost civility,' policies actually matter. What those people are actually doing to other humans actually matter.
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Adam: Can you talk to us about what that experience and other experiences, I know that you, you're, you're a frequent right wing punching bag, have taught you about our notions of civility and norms and this obsession with policing people even by supposed liberals and centrists of policing those who have quote "gone too far."
Ashley Feinberg: I mean well liberals and centrists are the ones who love norms the most because it's how they show the right that they're objective and that they care about standards that they are on their side actually because they just want the truth, but I mean it is all done with complete insincerity and in total bad faith on the right because they don't give a shit about how polite you're being to whoever, like they just want some excuse to hammer on you and they'll find it no matter what. And just giving in has already made defeat before you even started fighting.