Instead of asking people here to educate you, I would do some research. Here is a starting point that breaks down part of the issue we're dealing with.I posed the question of what should be done and what does all this achieve earlier. Every response I've gotten questioning what it will take for me to "be angry" and "to act." I've gotten explanations of why its ok; these people are monsters (no shit), they have been participating in this sort of recourse long before us, etc. But no one actually answered the question what this achieves.
So please, what does this achieve and how am I a stumbling block against it?
https://splinternews.com/this-is-just-the-beginning-1827099100
SHS has absolutely no idea what it is like to be on the receiving end of what she is enabling.
I'd also recommend reading up civil unrest throughout history. The establishment is almost always opposed to changes that are retrospectively viewed as justified (the Civil Rights Movement and Labor Unions, for starters). In all of these situations, the tone policing and disapproval that you're exhibiting has been used against these movements in an attempt to shut them down. There's a pattern here that you're not recognizing.