I'm only 23.. do I count? Hahaha.
I'll like to share my thoughts. Atm, I'm so focused on myself that I even don't bother dating at all. Yet, in my Hispanic background, I know many people/family members (also Hispanics) have so many kids in my age or younger.. it's crazy. I don't want to sound stereotypical, but it's so common! Hahaha. ALL of my cousins in Honduras have kids too and they are a year or 2 younger than me.
It sucks to see them struggle financially and they usually have little to no time doing their own hobbies. Meanwhile for myself, since I never had a gf or even kissed a girl, I have so much time/freedom to basically do anything. Hang out with friends, gaming, working out, playing football, having all the money to myself and "my babies" which are my dogs hahaha, etc.
I even know a guy who's 22, has 3 kids, and..... was hitting on me too. Apparently he's bi and he has his gf too.... oof.
As for having a gf/married, I don't even bother. But again, i'm only 23 so anything can happen I guess. But I really stopped caring about relationships every since. Plus since there are a lot of immature people in my age or even older, it sucks to see many of them go through terrible breakups due to cheating, finance, etc. I'm not saying that will happen to me, but we never know... and I don't want to deal with that bs. My friend even got stabbed my his ex too because he fell asleep on New Years Eve as the clock hit 12 and didn't get that special kiss. Makes me ask "so why should I get a gf?!?!". Again, not every women/potential relationship can end like this of course, but I don't want face potential drama which i don't wanna deal with. Just pretty paranoid about the future.. that's all.