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Virtu Al

Member
Oct 25, 2017
485
Italy, Rome
Self-awareness and maturity allows one to feel emotion without displaying it in a way that makes other people uncomfortable or appears disproportionate, out of context and unhinged. If the guy reacts like that to a teaser trailer... how can he escalate for the full film... or the birth if his first child. Is there some displacement going on, a personal trauma which is feeding this reaction?



We stop children from expressing themselves freely because that type of behaviour is often antisocial - that's not how to behave socially. It isn't repressing anyone to say - maybe you shouldn't record yourself having a total breakdown over a 30 second movie clip (of which very little was actually shown). I'm not saying that to be a dick, but this isn't a healthy response.



I'm not cutting down I'm legit concerned for them. The way this person portrays themselves may impact their interpersonal relationships and other facets of their life.



I suspect there's a psychological or comprehension problems if you're regularly crying over reveal trailers.

You're assuming this guy or any other who can react like this doesn't have the moral code needed to know how to act in public, which is, again, judgemental especially when you don't directly know who you're talking about. Who tells you this is how he acts in public ? How he acts in social circles, outside of his own home ? He may be "overreacting" for a 30 seconds movie clip, but you're assuming his complete social behaviour based on a 30 seconds clip of him. It sounds kind of ironic, if you ask me.
 

MattXIII

Member
Oct 28, 2017
396
I'm not a Star Wars guy myself, but even I've noticed there's something off with a large section of this fandom.
 

Yunsar

Member
Oct 27, 2017
423
Self-awareness and maturity allows one to feel emotion without displaying it in a way that makes other people uncomfortable or appears disproportionate, out of context and unhinged. If the guy reacts like that to a teaser trailer... how can he escalate for the full film... or the birth if his first child. Is there some displacement going on, a personal trauma which is feeding this reaction?



We stop children from expressing themselves freely because that type of behaviour is often antisocial - or rather we learn to control how we express ourselves to as not how to behave anti-socially. It isn't repressing anyone to say - maybe you shouldn't record yourself having a total breakdown over a 30 second movie clip (of which very little was actually shown). I'm not saying that to be a dick, but this isn't a healthy response.



I suspect there's a psychological or comprehension problems if you're regularly crying over reveal trailers.

Are you seriously armchair-psychoanalyzing a complete stranger over the internet? And what makes you think it's acceptable for you to spews allegations regarding his mental status?
 

Nerokis

Member
Oct 25, 2017
5,567
This whole thing feels so disingenuous to me. Like people are defending it just to stick it to the alt-right, but on any normal day some of those same people would have been talking about how cringy it is. Not about how it keeps them going and puts wind beneath their wings or whatever.

Well, yeah. The context changes when a bunch of conservative assholes start to harass someone - at that point, the imperative becomes less to express your relative taste for the content itself, and more to call out the harassment.

There's nothing disingenuous about that. "I think this is cringy" is an innocuous enough opinion, but once it becomes targeted harassment and an excuse to launch unnecessary and ridiculous insults (e.g., "soyboy"), a line has clearly been crossed and the room for fun ribbing has been lessened.

All that said, I genuinely don't think the video should need "defending." If anything, I feel some people need to examine their reflex to view a strong expression of emotion as cringeworthy or whatever, as if you need a particularly good reason to get excited, to cry, to be loud.

It's fun seeing people have a strong subjective experience in which they allow something to really, really move them. It requires a bizarre cynicism to approach the reaction video genre from the perspective of "but is it not antisocial to be this emotional????????" as if that isn't very much, very specifically, a space where people are allowed and even asked to just express every ounce of themselves.
 

nemoral

Member
Oct 25, 2017
2,081
Fiddler's Green
There are a lot of assholes in the world. And laughing at other people is a huge online sport. We even have a cringe thread here on ResetEra. I think it's all pretty bad natured, and wish some people didn't get such enjoyment out of mocking people and reveling in their misery, but that seems unlikely to change soon.
 
Oct 29, 2017
4,056
This whole thing feels so disingenuous to me. Like people are defending it just to stick it to the alt-right, but on any normal day some of those same people would have been talking about how cringy it is. Not about how it keeps them going and puts wind beneath their wings or whatever.
If someone is being a dick in a McDonald's, a might think 'wow, that guy is a dick' but then when someone goes over and beats the shit out of him, I'm not about that, that's not alright and I'll defend the dude. An extreme example, perhaps, but hopefully you understand the analogy.

This changes context. Yeah, I'd find that video cringey but I'm not responding to that, I'm responding to him then being bullied by a bunch of twats because of it and that's not alright nor is it comparable to people here going 'oof, I don't like that.'

This isn't to do with anyone being conservative, it's to do with arseholes and bullies that have a relatively large platform (50k followers, I believe?) and even then if someone said something similar on this forum, they'd be taken to task.
 

AztecComplex

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
10,371
These harassers are nothing but idiots but it's time for some real talk here: cargo shorts are ugly as sin, they were never fashionable and they never will.

Cargo pants on the other hand are okay, though.
 

BBboy20

One Winged Slayer
Member
Oct 25, 2017
22,008
It's like how one reacts to a piece of media has even a milligram of wrongness compared to the harassment he received.

Like, stop that.
 

Subpar Scrub

Attempted to circumvent ban with alt account
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
3,576
Awww that dude is so fucking hype for the movie, that's some wholesome shit right there. Good on him, just because other people are dead inside and can't find joy in anything anymore.
 

Prattle

Banned
Oct 30, 2017
995
Wow. Clicked on the ladies twitter feed.
What a rancid load of idiots this 'alt-right' is.
Are the skeptics and socialists calling these people out enough?

What's the plan, shouldn't we all be doing something?

Kick out of our bubbles and pop theirs. A new way of doing things.
 

take_marsh

Member
Oct 27, 2017
7,273
They are just jealous their passion levels can't reach 9000. That much of an emotional reaction is awesome and probably really gives the creators and crew really good feels.
 

hombremalo

Member
Oct 26, 2017
3,959
How sad had to be your own life to attack someone online, more for something like this, let the guy be himself.
 

eXistor

Member
Oct 27, 2017
12,300
But why? Just let someone enjoy what he wants. I want to be able to get even half as axcited for thnigs as this guy. I think the last time I was visibly excited was when Shenmue III was announced and when I saw the BotW trailer. He's not harming anyone, why can't people just be happy for the guy?
 

Prattle

Banned
Oct 30, 2017
995
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Cargo pants are great. But I still agree with this. 😝
 

Keldroc

Member
Oct 27, 2017
11,987
I'm beginning to think the most cataclysmic thing that could possibly happen to this forum is the alt-right adopting cargo shorts as part of their official uniform. Brains would split in half.
 

KtotheRoc

One Winged Slayer
Member
Oct 27, 2017
56,648
The only kind of "joy" these people experience is when they tear somebody else down.

What disgusting human beings.
 

Red Liquorice

Member
Oct 27, 2017
9,074
UK
I've never been even halfway that happy and joyful about anything. What's this guy's secret? (I'm meh on Star Wars, so his drug of choice won't work for me sadly)
 

GeminiX7

Member
Feb 6, 2019
600
Ironically my ability to absolutely nerd out and gush about the things I enjoy is a thing my GF finds endearing about me. Whether it's my career in IT or movies I love like The Fifth Element.
 

Frunobulax

Member
Apr 10, 2019
83
*White Supremacists. The "alt-right" is the attempt to rebrand the same old undercurrent of white supremacy that has existed for a long, long time.
I think that they should be called what they are, not what they promote themselves being called, as obsfucation is a mainstay of their rhetorical tequniques.
 
Oct 31, 2017
6,747
*White Supremacists. The "alt-right" is the attempt to rebrand the same old undercurrent of white supremacy that has existed for a long, long time.
I think that they should be called what they are, not what they promote themselves being called, as obsfucation is a mainstay of their rhetorical tequniques.

Thank you!

I don't know why people honor the rights re-branding themselves as "alternative" just because they have new goofy homophobic slurs
 

Deleted member 46493

User requested account closure
Banned
Aug 7, 2018
5,231
User Banned (2 Week): Handwaving harassment
Meh. I don't see what the controversy is about. Some women won't date you if you like Star Wars/comic books, some will like you because you do (because they do too). Some won't care at all.

Every time a person hating on popular nerd media gets posted on a nerd forum people play the victim card and assume everyone's out to get them.
 

Skade

Member
Oct 28, 2017
8,862
The women seem much more "undateable" than the dude.

He, at least, clearly has a heart. She, on the other hand, only has a piece of burnt charcoal instead.
 

Ayato_Kanzaki

Member
Nov 22, 2017
1,481
I dislike reaction videos in general, as most of them (all of them?) are fake and ridiculously overexagerated. But still, I support this guy, if only because he cause alt-right cockroaches to out themselves.
 

Deleted member 5666

user requested account closure
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
14,753
Because he's that excited and crying about a JJ Abrams corporate cash cow.

But no need to harass.
Every piece of franchise media is a "corporate cash cow". Every Marvel movie. Every Star Wars movie. Every major video game. Star Trek, Zelda, Mario, Batman, whatever franchise you happen to connect to. All are "corporate cash cows".

Are we now allowed to get excited over anything? You sure seem fun.
 
Oct 25, 2017
436
The alt-right attacks are bad, but focusing just on the video itself, I find it hard to tell whether the guy is being genuine or exaggerating and going way over the top just to score views (and yes, negative attention ---- some people just crave attention).

He's extremely uncomfortable to watch regardless of whether it is genuine or fake. The footage that he is reacting to just doesn't warrant that sort of depth of emotional response from any normal person. It's hard to put a finger on, but there's something about this video and its popularity, both positive & negative, that seems wrong from a societal perspective.
 

capitalCORN

Banned
Oct 26, 2017
10,436
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bangai-o

Member
Oct 27, 2017
9,527
Someone clarify, because I could have sworn we hated cargo shorts. So they are cool now? What changed in the past year?
 
Oct 30, 2017
5,495
Every piece of franchise media is a "corporate cash cow". Every Marvel movie. Every Star Wars movie. Every major video game. Star Trek, Zelda, Mario, Batman, whatever franchise you happen to connect to. All are "corporate cash cows".

Are we now allowed to get excited over anything? You sure seem fun.
Yeah, but JJ sucks. I can't get excited over Star Wars anymore.

I was super excited for Bladerunner, I'm excited for Dune, Us, etc. Not to crying, orgasming levels, but yeah, stoked. Also for Endgame.

JJ makes dumb movies that cynically and emptily play off nostalgia.
 

Deleted member 5666

user requested account closure
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Oct 25, 2017
14,753
Yeah, but JJ sucks. I can't get excited over Star Wars anymore.

I was super excited for Bladerunner, I'm excited for Dune, Us, etc. Not to crying, orgasming levels, but yeah, stoked. Also for Endgame.

JJ makes dumb movies that cynically and emptily play off nostalgia.
Okay...? So you put down Star Wars fans because...?

Just because you can't get excited about Star Wars means it's okay for you to put down Star Wars fans?

There is literally nothing more worthy about Dune or Endgame to make it okay to hype those but not Episode IX.

Plenty of fans of as excited about Star Wars as they were 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 20 years ago...etc as the video in the OP proves. I don't see how it is necessary for you to come in and put down those fans being excited because you think "JJ sucks".

The world needs less cynicism and bitterness like in your post and more joyful optimism like in the OPs video.
 
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Oct 25, 2017
436
Are you seriously armchair-psychoanalyzing a complete stranger over the internet? And what makes you think it's acceptable for you to spews allegations regarding his mental status?

The guy posted a video of himself on youtube ---- no one posted it without his permission. By doing so, he has, by choice, opened himself to all angles of psychoanalyzing, support, criticism etc. whether they are warranted or not.

Barry Sandwich wasn't spewing allegations....he was just observing that something seems genuinely wrong with the depth of response shown by this guy ; that it's either fake, exaggerated emotion or that it is something not normal, perhaps (PERHAPS) revealing some other deep-seeded emotional issue that the guy has.

Either way, it is just an extremely uncomfortable video to watch that doesn't deserve the sort of attention it is getting --- good attention or bad attention. It's a personal video that deserves to stay personal because the level of emotion shown here quickly reaches and maintains a level of uncomfortable absurdity considering it is a teaser trailer (and not even that emotional of a teaser, from an objective standpoint), and not someone being born, dying, married etc.
 

MrBadger

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,552
Yeah, but JJ sucks. I can't get excited over Star Wars anymore.

I was super excited for Bladerunner, I'm excited for Dune, Us, etc. Not to crying, orgasming levels, but yeah, stoked. Also for Endgame.

JJ makes dumb movies that cynically and emptily play off nostalgia.

Why can't people just condemn harassment without feeling the need to add how much they hate a movie? With TLJ it was all "I think the movie was shit and the actress sucked BUT I don't think she deserves harassment"
 

sgtnosboss

Member
Nov 9, 2017
4,786
fuck them, he was happy. Why is that a problem? also I am moderately butt hurt about the cargo short comment.
 

GeminiX7

Member
Feb 6, 2019
600
Hating on cargo shorts is like a meme now. Everyone seems to hate them because someone said they weren't fashionable one day and the fashion sheep followed
It's not even a "fashion sheep" thing. It seems that people want to jump on that "treating some people like they are lesser for the lulz" train, but are going with something benign, like wearing cargo shorts or eating pineapple on pizza as opposed to race or gender or political views, and don't see the irony/hypocrisy of the action.

As much as I prefer this board to most, it's becoming clearer each day how much these boards and the many users on them have in common with the alt-right in subtle yet still kind of uncomfortable ways. I think it may just be the nature of public, anonymous forums though.