I've been dating this very nice guy for about a month now. I'm in a phase where I just want to hook up with someone and then say goodbye to them. But this guy is interesting. I'm still dating him after having hooked up with him, and I'll tell you the reason why…
One week after we dated, the guy confessed that he's very wealthy. I'm sure he noticed me ghosting him a little bit, so he played that card. I was skeptical in the beginning because people lie a lot. I told him that's good for him but that I'm currently not ready for a relationship.
And then he started sending me expensive gifts. I got expensive wireless headphones and a brand new laptop because I complained about my laptop when he came to my place. He remembered about that.
I accepted the gifts and we started to meet up more regularly the last two weeks. He even booked a trip to Paris where I don't have to pay for anything. He will pay for the hotel, food and shopping. We will go in November. At least, that's the plan.
But I still don't feel anything for this guy. I'm very well off myself and financially independent, but it also feels like winning the jackpot somehow. He wants me to eventually stop with working and hang out with him and travel. Basically retire. And he wants me to move to his place. He's planning on buying a house and wants my creative input. ( He just moved from Sweden to the Netherlands)
I have to be honest, I'm staying with him because a life of no financial worries and less work sounds awesome. He's very good looking, but just not my type. If he wouldn't be this wealthy and wouldn't offer me opportunities, I would've ignored him.
My sister says I'm more of an opportunist. My best friend says I should give him a chance. Another friend called me a golddigger.
I will give him a chance, but there's also a chance I will never feel anything for him. And I can't fake. He's so nice.
One week after we dated, the guy confessed that he's very wealthy. I'm sure he noticed me ghosting him a little bit, so he played that card. I was skeptical in the beginning because people lie a lot. I told him that's good for him but that I'm currently not ready for a relationship.
And then he started sending me expensive gifts. I got expensive wireless headphones and a brand new laptop because I complained about my laptop when he came to my place. He remembered about that.
I accepted the gifts and we started to meet up more regularly the last two weeks. He even booked a trip to Paris where I don't have to pay for anything. He will pay for the hotel, food and shopping. We will go in November. At least, that's the plan.
But I still don't feel anything for this guy. I'm very well off myself and financially independent, but it also feels like winning the jackpot somehow. He wants me to eventually stop with working and hang out with him and travel. Basically retire. And he wants me to move to his place. He's planning on buying a house and wants my creative input. ( He just moved from Sweden to the Netherlands)
I have to be honest, I'm staying with him because a life of no financial worries and less work sounds awesome. He's very good looking, but just not my type. If he wouldn't be this wealthy and wouldn't offer me opportunities, I would've ignored him.
My sister says I'm more of an opportunist. My best friend says I should give him a chance. Another friend called me a golddigger.
I will give him a chance, but there's also a chance I will never feel anything for him. And I can't fake. He's so nice.