You really like to turn the subject about your money in an unsolicited way, huh.
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Am I a golddigger?
- Thread starter Kismet
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I agree with all of this, but then the OP jumps the shark with all of the elitism "preference" nonsense and loses me. Whether he's a golddigger or a sugar baby (I happen to think he's the latter), he's shown his whole ass in this thread and it's looking like it's time for a douche.
When your narcissism knows no bounds tbh
Edit: quoted wrong thing but yeah
I dont know how what word to describe this sensation BUT OP both want to be "gold digger" and "not-gold digger"
-He doesnt want to be call a gold digger because its a negative word, he so well off himself. He dont need money or gift unless someone beg him to take it
-But he also want to call a gold digger because he is a 30s year old gym-active attractive enough to bag this also attractive guy but surprisingly younger. Call this young man Sugar-Baby-Daddy.
-Even it ends he still has a PLAN.
-So this is a win-win situation.
-He doesnt want to be call a gold digger because its a negative word, he so well off himself. He dont need money or gift unless someone beg him to take it
-But he also want to call a gold digger because he is a 30s year old gym-active attractive enough to bag this also attractive guy but surprisingly younger. Call this young man Sugar-Baby-Daddy.
-Even it ends he still has a PLAN.
-So this is a win-win situation.
Hmm, I'm finally done with work and classes for today. I wonder what resetera has for me today?
Oh, a ping.
*Takes large sip of beer*
Oh, a ping.
*Takes large sip of beer*
*Reads OP and updates*
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oh man i forgot all about this. and OP was like 'i have different standards and prefer successful guys' but evidently those standards don't include being able to successfully use a fork
also, thank you for that GIF that comes afterthis quote. it was initially very upsetting and confusing to me but now i think it's awesome
Wow, this went some fuckin' places, huh.
I'm rescinding my sympathy if only because a thread like this and responses like this are so over-the-top they're basically begging the Universe to make the Rhonda Byrne Secret real but in reverse only for you and normal for everyone who has any contempt for you. This is some top-shelf hubris.
EDIT: If someone decided to try out sounding for the first time with a copper lightning rod atop a stormy mountaintop while finding the Wikipedia list of every god and blaspheming against each one individually, that's the level of hubris we're talking about.
I'm rescinding my sympathy if only because a thread like this and responses like this are so over-the-top they're basically begging the Universe to make the Rhonda Byrne Secret real but in reverse only for you and normal for everyone who has any contempt for you. This is some top-shelf hubris.
EDIT: If someone decided to try out sounding for the first time with a copper lightning rod atop a stormy mountaintop while finding the Wikipedia list of every god and blaspheming against each one individually, that's the level of hubris we're talking about.
Also the guy who wanted to ask back the stuff he got for his ex (or for the both of them) 1 month after they broke up.
See you in the next thread you make where your try to get advice from ERA but then shit on it when it's not what you want to hear.
I really don't get what the point is to this when you come out of it looking like a narc. There is sound advice in here that doesn't pass judgement on you at all but you seem disinterested in the introspection required to do some of those things that most good or decent people tend to do.
I've only read the OP, but it doesn't sound like you're leading him on - I'm one of the very few who voted "no".
You told him you weren't ready for a relationship. He chose to try to buy your love. As long as you don't lie to him, I don't think you're being opportunistic or a gold digger. You're giving him a chance. Once you start exploiting him, then you're being opportunistic, and if you try to seduce him for his money, you're a gold digger.
I dated a girl who tried to buy my affection. I told her not to, but I accepted her gifts. I was always honest about how I felt, and when I knew there was no future there, I broke up with her. I think the issue is your intention, not your partner's behaviour. Figure it out, stay honest.
Edit: Oh. Oh dear.
You told him you weren't ready for a relationship. He chose to try to buy your love. As long as you don't lie to him, I don't think you're being opportunistic or a gold digger. You're giving him a chance. Once you start exploiting him, then you're being opportunistic, and if you try to seduce him for his money, you're a gold digger.
I dated a girl who tried to buy my affection. I told her not to, but I accepted her gifts. I was always honest about how I felt, and when I knew there was no future there, I broke up with her. I think the issue is your intention, not your partner's behaviour. Figure it out, stay honest.
Edit: Oh. Oh dear.
Yup. People who lack the willingness for introspection can end up becoming a danger unto themselves and everyone else, unfortunately. It's not healthy.
It is what it is Op; I won't tell how to date..You'll reap whatever comes out of this relationship
you ain't the first "gold digger" and ya won't be the last. No amount of forum posting is going to chnage your dating habits and preferences.
you ain't the first "gold digger" and ya won't be the last. No amount of forum posting is going to chnage your dating habits and preferences.
This thread feels like it's a completely different one than the one I responded to yesterday.
Reminds me of the dream cheating thread.
Reminds me of the dream cheating thread.
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I mean, I'd have sex with him but it's my fertile period. I like his hairline as it is at this point in time, it's like it's threatening to recede because of all the manly testosterone but there's this sort of mild femininity about him which is sort of dragging the follicles back. I might feel differently once my hormone spike ceases but right now I'm straddling his freight train. OP, wanna a junior Narcissus? You have a closing window of opportunity if so. Buy me a ticket and I'll take your wicket ;-)
You should ask your sugar daddy for an urgent trip to Turkey before is too late.
And they say god doesn't punish twice?
Your god must hate you with a passion.
And they say god doesn't punish twice?
Your god must hate you with a passion.
I typically don't really profile individuals based on their forum posts but god damn the OP makes it tempting
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The last girl I had sex with...hmmm
That's probably longer than a decade ago haha
Hmm, I suppose this would explain the relatively recent decline in the fertility rate of the Western World. You bastard.
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I find women really beautiful. But sexually I was never attracted to them. I mean, my "thing" down there would still work if I would want to have sex with them. But there's never an urge to date a woman.
And I'm one of the gays that's not afraid or disgusted by a vagina. When I was with a girl I loved to give head more than actually penetrate. :)
Sexuality is a strange thing.