I'm trying to figure out whether I was a total asshole or just a bit of a tool in this situation.
It's exam period in the university. I went into a computer lab, which is separate from the library. It's more chill and allows talking and food.
I sit down to work and I notice that two people (guy and girl) are watching a stand-up routine or something on the computer while eating. They were using speakers and it was fairly loud. There were about eight other people in the room, all studying.
I sit there for a few minutes, silently festering. I need to get going for a different reason, and as I get up to leave the video finishes I feel like I shouldn't let it slide and ask the row behind me "Am I the only one bothered by this?"
The girl answers that I don't need to be an asshole and they would've turned it down if I asked them to (while it was playing). Girl on their right said that it didn't bother her, and if it bothered someone they would've turned it off. One other person in the row just vaguely shaked their head and the others didn't react. I say "okay" and leave.
So was I an asshole? I definitely should've just asked them to turn it down and I ain't the politeness police. But I think their argument is a bit off because:
a. You shouldn't be doing that in a public study area in the first place.
b. A lot of people would be too shy to ask.
What do you folk think?
Tldr; a couple were watching a loud video in a computer lab. I asked the room if no one else is bothered by this.
It's exam period in the university. I went into a computer lab, which is separate from the library. It's more chill and allows talking and food.
I sit down to work and I notice that two people (guy and girl) are watching a stand-up routine or something on the computer while eating. They were using speakers and it was fairly loud. There were about eight other people in the room, all studying.
I sit there for a few minutes, silently festering. I need to get going for a different reason, and as I get up to leave the video finishes I feel like I shouldn't let it slide and ask the row behind me "Am I the only one bothered by this?"
The girl answers that I don't need to be an asshole and they would've turned it down if I asked them to (while it was playing). Girl on their right said that it didn't bother her, and if it bothered someone they would've turned it off. One other person in the row just vaguely shaked their head and the others didn't react. I say "okay" and leave.
So was I an asshole? I definitely should've just asked them to turn it down and I ain't the politeness police. But I think their argument is a bit off because:
a. You shouldn't be doing that in a public study area in the first place.
b. A lot of people would be too shy to ask.
What do you folk think?
Tldr; a couple were watching a loud video in a computer lab. I asked the room if no one else is bothered by this.