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Last week I was shopping for groceries and preparing to hole up at home with my wife, Evelyn, and our two boys. There was an eerie, peculiar aura in the parking lot in upstate New York as night fell and shoppers wheeled out essentials and snacks.

Three middle-aged men in hoodies and sweatshirts stood outside the entrance of the grocery store. They huddled together talking. One looked up at me and frowned. There was something accusatory in his eyes. And then, for the first time in years, I felt it.

I felt self-conscious — even a bit ashamed — of being Asian.

It had been years since I felt that way. I grew up with semi-regular visitations of that sense of racially tinged self-consciousness. It didn't help that I was an awkward kid. But after adulthood, marriage, a career, parenthood, positions of leadership and even a presidential run, that feeling had disappeared — I thought.

My place in this country felt assured. I have it better than the vast majority of Americans of any background. When comedian Shane Gillis slurred me by name, I did not think he deserved to lose his job. It barely registered when a teenager yelled "Chink" at me from the window of his car in New Hampshire a number of months ago. My only reaction was to think, "Well, I'm glad that neither of my sons was around because then I might have to explain to them what that word means."
In early February, when I was still running for president, someone asked me, "How do we keep the coronavirus from inciting hostility toward Asians in this country?"

I responded, "The truth is that people are wired to make attributions based on appearance, including race. The best thing that could happen for Asians would be to get this virus under control so it isn't a problem anymore. Then any racism would likely fade." This was weeks before "Chinese Virus" became a thing.

Now it is, and we have to figure out how to combat that, too. I'm an entrepreneur. In general, negative responses don't work. I obviously think that being racist is not a good thing. But saying "Don't be racist toward Asians" won't work.

I have been thinking about ways to improve that encounter at the grocery store. People are hurting. They look up and see someone who is different from them, whom they wrongly associate with the upheaval of their way of life.
The grand takeaway.
We Asian Americans need to embrace and show our American-ness in ways we never have before. We need to step up, help our neighbors, donate gear, vote, wear red white and blue, volunteer, fund aid organizations, and do everything in our power to accelerate the end of this crisis. We should show without a shadow of a doubt that we are Americans who will do our part for our country in this time of need.

Demonstrate that we are part of the solution. We are not the virus, but we can be part of the cure.
Not a big fan of his ultimate point that Asians have to """be more American""" to reduce anti-Asian discrimination. I doubt wearing a red,white, and blue bro tank is going to stop someone from being racist.
 

Technesis

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Yeah, black people tried that Andrew. Didn't work out so well. Get ready for your wake up call.
 

chefbags

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Yeah as an Asian American who immigrated here, that's not the best point to put out there.
 

JCG

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His intentions are good, because showing more solidarity in a time of crisis is always nice and necessary, but true bigots won't stop their hatred and fear of people from different races even in the face of clear evidence of patriotism and love for the country.
 

Sunster

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so it's on Asians to solve racism and white people can just sit back and put their feet up? huh
 

asun

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I know this is a natural response, but it's also a form of victim blaming.
 

Van Bur3n

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The burden of trying not to be a dumb inbred is on the racists. I don't have to conform to any standard, I don't have to prove anything. I'll do whatever the fuck I want. What a dumb fuck take.
 
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dabig2

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Oct 29, 2017
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We've seen this story play out before, and it never works. This racism is systemic, a fear of the "other" that won't be washed away with some theatrical nationalistic pride. It's even more dangerous now with an increase of fear and then Yoda appears and says Yoda things.

Ok if you want to raise that flag, but definitely don't present it as any type of solution. It's absolutely blind bullshit given this country's history and literal present.
 

Slayven

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Did he just prescribe being a "good one" to cure racism?
 

Sabas

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During World War II, Japanese Americans volunteered for military duty at the highest possible levels to demonstrate that they were Americans.

Hey Andrew, what did the US government do to the families of those Japanese Americans? Do you know?

Seriously, this is a garbage op-ed.
 

farmland

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The US is a settler colonial state, racism is baked into it's political economy and history, embracing it reproduces those relation's.
 

Gotdatmoney

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These people don't give a shit how "American" you try to outwardly act. They don't like you because you're Asian. Let me say it again, it's not because of anything you did wrong, IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE ASIAN.

Like Jesus fuck, this is some stupid model minority bullshit.
 

Byakuya769

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Oct 29, 2017
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He continues to have in-group conversations out in public for white america's benefit and entertainment. Weird guy.
 

Powdered Egg

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Lmao @ Andrew and respectability politics.

"You guys got a problem?" is what he should have said in the parking lot.
 

Convasse

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Beating racism doesn't happen by kowtowing to racists. Appeasement has never worked and will never work. Confront them, challenge them, de-platform them. That's how you step to racism.
 

Powdered Egg

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"if you are a victim of a hate crime, after your hospital stay go find your attackers and ask them what you could have done differently."
 

Catshade

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Wut? The whole point is that your 'model minority' status is very fragile and arbitrary and can be taken anytime racism demands it.
 

Chopchop

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Oct 25, 2017
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The type of morons who discriminate based on race won't care how you act, how you dress, or what you do. They'll hate you anyway.

I sympathize with how he has had to deal with racist crap, but this is definitely not the solution to it.

A paramedic once told me a story about how he saved a woman who was choking in a restaurant when he was off duty. He saw her choking, offered to help her, but she kept refusing, all the way until she passed out. Then he followed standard procedure (in our area, the law says that someone unconscious implies that you are allowed to help) and performed chest compressions on her until the food got out. When she came to while being loaded into an ambulance, she learned that the paramedic had saved her, and freaked out because she "didn't want a dirty brown guy touching her."

This guy literally saved her fucking life, and she couldn't see past his skin color. That's how these people work.
 

Jintor

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im asian australian and this is some model minority ass bullshit. wrap your ass up in the flag all you want some shithead is still gonna call you a slit-eyed chink and accuse you of eating bats.