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Any virgins here?

Irishmantis

Irishmantis

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Jan 5, 2019
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Sick of pretending

I'm 32 and I'm a virgin, mainly because tight forskin or/and frenulum breve and terrified of operation + anxiety

But im kinda content with it

Doubt I'm alone, just had vent and this the only place I can without getting roasted

Prob left it too late, but look I can pleasure myself at the end of the day
 
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GamerJM

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Nov 8, 2017
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I was a virgin at 25, and it was a meme on a forum I went on at the time. I'm now 28 and I have two significant others.
 
Clay

Clay

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Oct 29, 2017
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Irishmantis said:
Sick of pretending

I'm 32 and I'm a virgin, mainly because tight forskin or/and frenulum breve and terrified of operation + anxiety

But im kinda contempt with it

Doubt I'm alone, just had vent and this the only place I can without getting roasted

Prob left it too late, but look I can pleasure myself at the end of the day
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Hopefully you mean you're kind of "content" with it.
 
Hilarious_Bearious

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Nov 4, 2017
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Is it phimosis OP, and have you consulted a specialist about it? Sometimes it can be treated with stretching exercises.

I'm not a virgin, but was a late bloomer for full P in the V sex.
 
Frodo

Frodo

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Oct 27, 2017
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Virginity is such a useless concept. Sex is worse than you imagine, but still more fun than it should be.
 
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Irishmantis

Irishmantis

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For the record just saying it makes me feel better

The tiny few ladies I had a chance with, wish I told them they prob thought it was something they did
 
Thorn

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32 year old virgin here too.

Never really bothered. Too fat and ugly and my standards are probably unfairly high. I never had an intimate moment in my life.

Whatever.
 
MIMIC

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Dec 18, 2017
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Irishmantis said:
Sick of pretending

I'm 32 and I'm a virgin, mainly because tight forskin or/and frenulum breve and terrified of operation + anxiety

But im kinda content with it

Doubt I'm alone, just had vent and this the only place I can without getting roasted

Prob left it too late, but look I can pleasure myself at the end of the day
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They wouldn't put you to sleep for the surgery?

Or at least some nice anesthesia and a blindfold :)
 
Thorn

Thorn

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Irishmantis said:
I don't mean to be cruel to say this, but it's really nice to see somebody my age on the same boat

In this climate not an easy thing to admit
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It's fine. I'm basically the neck beard stereotype but without the women hating incel aspects.

Maybe one day I'll get my shit in order and who knows. I've considered escorts before but I don't want to risk a trafficked person or a cop. And would hate to subject someone to seeing me naked.
 
PerfectFlaw

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Oct 25, 2017
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Irishmantis said:
Sick of pretending

I'm 32 and I'm a virgin, mainly because tight forskin or/and frenulum breve and terrified of operation + anxiety

But im kinda content with it

Doubt I'm alone, just had vent and this the only place I can without getting roasted

Prob left it too late, but look I can pleasure myself at the end of the day
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Kind of off topic because I can't relate to the actual point of the topic, but dude. Get the surgery. I tore my frenulum having sex and had to have it surgically removed. It took like 15, maybe 30 minutes, and you don't feel a thing. They just put up some sheets so I couldn't see and went to town. After a small recovery window, I was a new man.
 
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Irishmantis

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don't know if just an Irish thing but hate when my friends I told just say "ya haven't snapped ya banjo string yet"
 
GarudaSmiles

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Haven't had sex in 10 years so might as well be. It's not something I crave too often either though. Low sex drive.
 

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You know you can use your hands and mouth right? Also get the surgery man. Just look at is as a few months of bad times for improving the quality of your life for the duration of it.
 
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Irishmantis

Irishmantis

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NESpowerhouse said:
Turning 26 tomorrow
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You okay to share what's stopping? Or just not got the opportunity?

Also outside of alcohol the reason I'm making this thread now because I'm losing weight and starting to get confidence I just feel it's a barrier

I don't give a shit about my orgasm once my partners happy but it's intimate moment I'm denying them
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Fat4all

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my goal isnt sex my goal is happiness

happiness and a good dungeon master
 
Frodo

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Oct 27, 2017
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OP, you straight, or bi, or gay, or elsewhere?
I feel that is an important bit of info, as to how to approach it. Feel free to ignore the question if you don't want to share that info, though.
(and I say this as a gay man who had to navigate straight relationships in the past, and those are MASSIVELY different than my current relationships with sex as a gay man)
 
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Irishmantis

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Fat4all said:
my goal isnt sex my goal is happiness

happiness and a good dungeon master
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No trolling

You actually a virgin? You have the one if most infectious personality I came across so I find that hard to believe

Yeah sex isn't everything but I want whoever I'm having fun with to share that moment
 
Unlovedjew

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Oct 26, 2017
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i lost mine at 22 and honestly it was worth waiting for the right person that i was comfortable with. you never know. youll meet someone online if you put yourself out there for long enough like i did
 

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Irishmantis said:
No trolling

You actually a virgin? You have the one if most infectious personality I came across so I find that hard to believe

Yeah sex isn't everything but I want whoever I'm having fun with to share that moment
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There is no reason why they couldn't even if you chose not to do the surgery. Trust me people appreciate oral and hand stuff.
 
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Irishmantis

Irishmantis

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Jan 5, 2019
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Frodo said:
OP, you straight, or bi, or gay, or elsewhere?
I feel that is an important bit of info, as to how to approach it. Feel free to ignore the question if you don't want to share that info, though.
(and I say this as a gay man who had to navigate straight relationships in the past, and those are MASSIVELY different)
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Straight

Ask anything I opened up my biggest secret so anything else is easy game
 
jb1234

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Irishmantis said:
Fucking legend!

Just to make myself feel may I ask what took?

Ya don't have to say btw
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Health issues and social anxiety delayed me. Finally, I got on Grindr and got it over with haha. Also ended up in a relationship at age 40, something I never thought would happen. Life is weird and unpredictable.
 
AMAGON

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Irishmantis said:
You folks think it's too late to fix this?
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I got the snip when I was 18.

The aftermath was disgusting with blood that I wrapped my weirner around with bandages for a couple months and my bellend was as senstive as a motherfucker.

Now its all gucci. For me, recovery took about 3 months, as in the sensitivity went away, hence, why I wanted the surgery for it.
 
HardTimesFamilyPride

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Oct 26, 2017
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Frodo said:
No. Don't treat it as something special like life usually tells you to do. Just treat it as something that happens to people at different points in their lives, live brushing teeth by yourself.
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Seconded. My luck comes & goes, and when I'm in a lucky phase I realize how much of it is just hormones ramping up my desire, which doesn't really mean the experience ends up enjoyable. Lot of nights that I could take or leave, lookin' back at 'em. It's just a thing people do like anything else. But also it can be hard to really get what we mean by all this until you've done it a few times to have some context, you know? lol
 
Fat4all

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Irishmantis said:
No trolling

You actually a virgin? You have the one if most infectious personality I came across so I find that hard to believe

Yeah sex isn't everything but I want whoever I'm having fun with to share that moment
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not trolling

im not a very intimate person despite how much of a horndog i am

i prefer friendships over relationships generally
 
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Irishmantis

Irishmantis

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Jan 5, 2019
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Fuck it

Don't want to promise it while drunk

But I'm gonna post here tomorrow after I ring the doctor with a thread mark

But honestly I'm nearly in tears here I wanted to make this thread for ages, glad I did
 
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