Anyone here pay for sex?
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If you just want casual sex, Tinder is free. There's also plenty of subreddits for hookups
If you're addicted and can't stop you need to seek help OP., it's going to wreck you financially if you don't take action
If you're addicted and can't stop you need to seek help OP., it's going to wreck you financially if you don't take action
Yes.
I had a big stigma against prostitution, but I have a friend who works in an adult massage parlor in town who kind of talked me into how they're not that shady and the girls are clean, and claims to like her job, hours and pay. Where I live (Edmonton), there are TONS of these places and the city has more or less decided to leave them alone, even though prostitution isn't strictly legal.
I visited one of them and it was easy and pleasant. I didn't feel like I was taking advantage of anyone. So I've been a couple of times when I've been single and it's been okay. Addiction is a strong word though and if you feel like you're becoming dependent, you should seek help.
I had a big stigma against prostitution, but I have a friend who works in an adult massage parlor in town who kind of talked me into how they're not that shady and the girls are clean, and claims to like her job, hours and pay. Where I live (Edmonton), there are TONS of these places and the city has more or less decided to leave them alone, even though prostitution isn't strictly legal.
I visited one of them and it was easy and pleasant. I didn't feel like I was taking advantage of anyone. So I've been a couple of times when I've been single and it's been okay. Addiction is a strong word though and if you feel like you're becoming dependent, you should seek help.
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I was a virgin until 25. I was (am) a piece of shit who has no value to anyone, and I just wanted to experience it, so I paid an escourt for sex.
It wasn't worth it at all. Horrible experience.
It wasn't worth it at all. Horrible experience.
No. But I wouldn't judge someone for doing so. But like someone said above there are hookup apps and sites, you could be getting it for free lol.
Ah the old take the money back trick like in GTA I presume ?
Nah man. Did it once or twice when I was in my early twenties but it's not really for me. I feel like it's awkward without a pre-existing connection to someone.
OP, I think you have some healing to do. You can make whatever life choices you desire but it seems like you’re either (a) trying to fill a void with something else and/or (b) ignoring the real issue with casual sex.
Edit: I could be totally wrong about my observation. Just sharing what I’m reading between the lines.
Edit: I could be totally wrong about my observation. Just sharing what I’m reading between the lines.
Was my thought also.
Nothing wrong with some good ole capitalism
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Tinder must be very different in your neck of the woods. It's a LOT less efficient than sex work if you're just looking for hookups.
You know you have to tell me if you're a cop, right?
Seriously though, no, but I can't lie. I've considered it before. Only problem is the sex workers I'd want to pay to have sex with charge... a lot. And they deserve it! Don't get me wrong, every penny. But I don't make enough to justify it. :x
Seriously though, no, but I can't lie. I've considered it before. Only problem is the sex workers I'd want to pay to have sex with charge... a lot. And they deserve it! Don't get me wrong, every penny. But I don't make enough to justify it. :x
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I guess its harder now that backpage is gone because shit was mad cheap
allegedly
horrible bc you felt bad about feeling the need to "resort" to it?
why was that a mistake?
Yeeah I'm gonna call bullshit on that, Tinder is certainly not easy to meet someone on without being really physically attractive, it's the shallowest dating app there is.
We all fear getting close to somebody in a relationship because we are putting ourselves at risk of getting our hearts broken. OP looks to me you're scared of that and opt for prostitutes so you can maintain that barrier.
Relationships are a leap of faith and you gotta run the risk that you might get hurt when you put yourself out there.
Relationships are a leap of faith and you gotta run the risk that you might get hurt when you put yourself out there.
Armchair psychology here, but it seems like you took the loss of that relationship a bit too hard and are trying to compensate with sex anyway you can get it.
It's never too late to start a social life or serious relationship again. You know you want a real relationship again, we can all read between your lines.
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one way or another, you will definitely get hurt in a relationship.
living hurts.
I met my GF on tinder but it took a lot of time and effort, working on myself, getting better pics, gymming a lot, multiple bad dates, like 1 year of being on the app. It takes effort and can be very discouraging for a lot of people, especially early on.I was sketched out about the hookups though. Wasn't into it.
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