Man, went to the nearby store and just stood there, fondling the XS and the XS Max for like 10 minutes and the Max is just a bit too big for comfortable one-hand use. When two-handing it, it was fantastic and I'd love to get it, but I often use my phone with one hand when I'm out and about, so regular sized 11 it'll have to be. Oh well, at least it's a hundred euros cheaper lol, and still a major jump in display size from my 8. Actually a much bigger jump than I realized.
Out of curiosity decided to try some Android phones there too (Galaxy S10, mostly), and I dunno, iOS does definitely have a small handful of things where they could really improve when compared to Android, but the actual user experience is so much smoother and nicer to me that I'm not sure I'll ever switch back. It just looks and feels so much better. Should've checked if they had the newest OnePlus there though, I'm curious about high hz phones.
I managed to already forget about the notch during my very short time with the XS and the Max at the store, so clearly a nonissue too. It's not ideal for sure, but I can't believe people are still blowing up about that thing. I'm just gonna assume it's folks who for one reason or another, never post anything else in Apple/iPhone threads lol.