Happens to iPhones often too. It's why wireless charging or magnetic chargers are so good.
It really doesn't.
I've never seen a loose lightning port.. and I manage 1000+ ios devices at work with kids plugging/unplugging all day.
NEVER had a broken lightning port.
I get broken off headphone plugs every other week.
I can already tell the USB-C port on my macbook seems a bit loose and janky. Lightning is god tier.