They don't separate themselves though when they vote with their party the majority of the time, and their party is doing reprehensible things.
It's not just because of that, combine that with racist policies, anti-lgbt legislation, voter suppression, gerrymandering, conspiracy theories, violent rhetoric, classist policies, taking away people's healthcare, anti-immigrant policies, not wanting sensible gun legislation, etc.
Does that paint a clearer picture?
It doesn't matter what Trump wants, if he doesn't get what he wants he's not afraid to just lie and make shit up, we can't be worried about our every move and how it could possibly be viewed. The people who support him are cancelled, they are already gone and we can't convince them anyways and it isn't worth the effort to try.