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Being born with a smaller-than-average....

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GamingEnthusiast

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Penis.

It has been an issue with me in my entire mature post-pubescent life being smaller than the rest of the world's Peter Norths. It made me feel less secure about my manhood and thinking whether I can satisfy my partner long enough before they get fed up with my small girth and length.

This is a serious topic about my own confidence with dating women and whether I can sustain a long-term relationship with a smaller-than-average Ding Dong.

What do you think, ERA? Is my issue unsolvable? Is it even an issue at all? Do you have the same issue?
 
CommodoreKong

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If this place is anything like GAF threads about the issue everyone else here has a well above average sized penis.
 
Nowise10

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Girls I've talked to would prefer a larger penis rather then a small, but that its not any sort of deal breaker.

Just live life brother, no one truly cares about the size of peoples packages.
 
Whitemex

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Learn the ways of the linguistic arts. Should help make up for any other short comings (no pun intended). Don't use porn as guide,those are all just lies
 
N is for Noble

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How small?

And length isn't always everything if the width is thin. Also, it depends on the women's preferences too. But I've asked women before, "Do you prefer long and thin or short and thick?" and their response was short and thick.

But again it depends, op.
 

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GamingEnthusiast said:
Penis.

It has been an issue with me in my entire mature post-pubescent life being smaller than the rest of the world's Peter Norths. It made me feel less secure about my manhood and thinking whether I can satisfy my partner long enough before they get fed up with my small girth and length.

This is a serious topic about my own confidence with dating women and whether I can sustain a long-term relationship with a smaller-than-average Ding Dong.

What do you think, ERA? Is my issue unsolvable? Is it even an issue at all? Do you have the same issue?
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What do you consider average and how far away from that are you?
 
Cosmo Kramer

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How small is small? This is an important question, i was once told men with bigger than average penis tend to be lazier in bed so, you could ve the opposite. There are many ways to satisfy a women, lesbians don't have penises you know.
 
Mikey

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We talking micro or just smaller? It's no big deal, there are other ways such as your mouth/hands. Just communicate with your partner.
 
Kotto

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What about jelqing? Has that technique prove to be legitimate? Might be something worth looking into.

Otherwise, you may need to learn to use that tongue and fingers, my man.
 
Farsi

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You got hands, a mouth, and creativity brother.
Use them.
 
Strangelove_77

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Learn of vaginal and butthole pleasures. Cunnilingus and analingus goes a long way.
 
AnansiThePersona

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It's always been shitty how guys with below average penis sizes get shit on in the dating world/game. It's the same as height bias. If it's something out of your control, you shouldn't get shit on for it. Plain and simple.
 
UltraGashInferno

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Time to get a subscription to Jelq Magazine:

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But for real:
-master giving head and be generous with it. Get good at everything really, no reason not to regardless of dick size.

-go with the flow and if someone dumps you over that, it just wasn't meant to be.
 
AnansiThePersona

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Cosmo Kramer said:
How small is small? This is an important question, i was once told men with bigger than average penis tend to be lazier in bed so, you could ve the opposite. There are many ways to satisfy a women, lesbians don't have penises you know.
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Are you telling OP to become a lesbian. Because that's dumb enough to......
 

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Bt the time you convinced a woman to see your ding dong she won't care about the size, so why bother?

Unless you have a micropenis (the disease).
 
SuperBanana

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The internet lies constantly. The average is 5 to 5.5 inches. If you're smaller than that then learn how to give great oral, fingering, touching ,massaging, and positions that'll tighten the vagina making you feel bigger in her.
 
Wereroku

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You are probably fine just get good at other methods. Just try not to be so focused on it. It's not like you can change it at this point.
 

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Well, think about it. Everyone has preferences, and not everyone ends up with the physical preference for their partner. Even for women, some guys might prefer a bigger ass or chest or freckles or whatever.

But the point isn't necessarily meeting every preference; it's about pleasuring your partner. So, with that in mind, can you pleasure your partner outside of your penis? Certainly!

So don't worry about it - figure out how to make women happy in bed. That's better than just having a large penis. Especially considering how many women report being unsatisfied in bed by people with "average" penises.

So... yeah.
 
TooBusyLookinGud

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What do I think?: I think you should get more creative. Be aware of what you have, but don't let it hinder you too much.

Is your issue unsolveble?: Well, unless you are willing to have surgery, I think you are stuck with what you have.

Is it an issue at all: depends on the female. There are women that will love you no matter the size. Try to introduce toys to complement what you have. Try to focus on stimulating the women first and foremost. Use your tongue, fingers and toys.

Do I have the same issue?: I would delete this question actually. From reading your post, you are already beating yourself up about it. People will come in a say that they have a the Cadillac of dicks, further making you feel like crap.
 
HyperFerret

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Ask your partner what they enjoy during sex. Your size might not even factor in to their favorite activities.
 
FFNB

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The penis isn't the only tool in your sexual repertoire. You have hands, a tongue, and bringing toys into the mix can't hurt. When it comes to sex, it's not always about the penis. I know we like to make a big deal about it, but it's really not.

Work on improving your performance in other ways, but chances are your Johnson won't be a problem anyway.
 
Felt

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Best advice I can think of OP is just pretend you have a big ol whopper. You have no need to apologize to your partner for it, or feel bad, or anything. Stop thinking about it and don't bring it up. Just go on like you are Peter North. The confidence will take you into deep places. I don't think people are so shallow that it will be the reason people decide not to date you but hey, people have preferences. You just keep going on.

Also, if you meet a girl that is A) a virgin (this doesn't necessarily matter if her last partner(s) was/were not well-endowed), and B) hasn't watched porn. TELL HER YOU HAVE A BIG ONE AND MARRY HER AND NEVER LET HER SEE ANOTHER SHLONG.
 

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Bro the penis isn't the be-all end-all of sex. And don't think of sex as a competition with other guys. Just go out there and have fun with everything at your disposal. Foreplay your ass off.
 
Prolepro

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A lot of my gay male friends tell me they prefer slightly below average.

So I guess... try that?
 
LucidMomentum

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If it's longer than your middle finger it'll be appreciated if you put it to good use. Don't stress.

With that being said, my main issue is the way my dick curves.

Makes it great for someone positions, awful for others.
 
Liamario

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I submit to you OP-

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I'd wager you care about this much more than anyone else cares about the size of your appendage.
 
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GamingEnthusiast

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Felt said:
Best advice I can think of OP is just pretend you have a big ol whopper. You have no need to apologize to your partner for it, or feel bad, or anything. Stop thinking about it and don't bring it up. Just go on like you are Peter North. The confidence will take you into deep places. I don't think people are so shallow that it will be the reason people decide not to date you but hey, people have preferences. You just keep going on.

Also, if you meet a girl that is A) a virgin (this doesn't necessarily matter if her last partner(s) was/were not well-endowed), and B) hasn't watched porn. TELL HER YOU HAVE A BIG ONE AND MARRY HER AND NEVER LET HER SEE ANOTHER SHLONG.
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My favourite advice on this thread so far.
 
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