Asks guests to have clothing and accessories worth over $1000 for dinner, plus extra for the dress code for the dance. Offers to pay $100 to rat out a snitch. Yeah, nobody's coming to that polygraph "party," let alone the dinner.
The dress code didn't sound too bad outside of asking minimum price value. If you're asking that, you as the hosts should probably cover it for everyone. Everything else after that? Yeeesh. If you can't afford the dress code, then offer to clean up afterwards. Ahahaha what the fuck. They're guests, not servants.