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Kesiena Boom via Broadly wrote a very comprehensive list of microaggressions that people of color like myself navigate through on a daily basis. To be honest it's tiring and we notice it here at ERA as well.
A microaggression is the casual degradation of any marginalized group.
Pleas keep in mind this thread isn't calling you a racist. This thread is to help you understand. Understand what it's like for your coworkers, friends, etc when you see (or not) them uncomfortable. It's to help you understand why a lot of us say we're exasperated in posts here and or online. This post is also to help you understand why you may have a PoC coworker that seems anti-social.
Below are some of the 100 I chose to share
Note: Again this thread isn't meant to accuse you of anything. It's meant to serve as a learning point. Because again, it's hard enough out here without these microagressions.
Also please understand your experience with people of color isn't a sweeping OK. Like all relationships, that's what you share with them. Not all of us. Waving any legitimate point doesn't help.
Thank you for your time.
Kesiena Boom via Broadly wrote a very comprehensive list of microaggressions that people of color like myself navigate through on a daily basis. To be honest it's tiring and we notice it here at ERA as well.
A microaggression is the casual degradation of any marginalized group.
As someone with very low tolerance for racist bullshit, I've managed to surround myself with white people who are cognizant of their privilege and strive to make the world a less terrifying and frustrating place for people of color. This means that I often deal with said white people asking me what they can actually do to affect change. So here, anxious allies of the world, are 100 simple ways to be the change. It's not nearly comprehensive, but it's somewhere to start. Go forth and disrupt our harmful racial paradigm!
Pleas keep in mind this thread isn't calling you a racist. This thread is to help you understand. Understand what it's like for your coworkers, friends, etc when you see (or not) them uncomfortable. It's to help you understand why a lot of us say we're exasperated in posts here and or online. This post is also to help you understand why you may have a PoC coworker that seems anti-social.
Below are some of the 100 I chose to share
1. Just because you can't see racism around you doesn't mean it's not happening. Trust people of color's assessment of a situation.
11. Don't rinse our culturally specific memes. They're ours. Go enjoy that weird one about the plums
13. Avoid phrases like "But I have a Black friend! I can't be racist!" You know that's BS as well as we do
16. Don't question someone's Blackness if they're light-skinned. It's not your place. Other Black people can make sure that light-skinned Black people are cognizant of their privilege.
17. Never try and tell a person of color what is or isn't racist.
20. Understand that some days are even more mentally exhausting for people of color thanks to the news cycle. Try not to badger us for our opinions on the latest atrocity that has occurred. Leave us to grieve.
39. Recognize that you can't assume someone's religion based on how they look. Not all South Asians and Middle Eastern people are Muslims, not all Black people are Christian, not all East Asian people are Buddhist. You get the idea.
Note: Again this thread isn't meant to accuse you of anything. It's meant to serve as a learning point. Because again, it's hard enough out here without these microagressions.
Also please understand your experience with people of color isn't a sweeping OK. Like all relationships, that's what you share with them. Not all of us. Waving any legitimate point doesn't help.
Thank you for your time.
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