....Holy fuck. Y'know, clicking on this thread I knew I'd be looking at the statistics on how men being raped is more common than people assume it to be. I didn't think that within such a short period of time I'd see so many people that posted here say they'd been raped. I'm not gonna lie even having heard the statistics before I thought the number was actually super rare anyway. Fuck. I'm sorry guys. :/
I had a friend relate to me a story that very much sounded like rape, to the point that it made me uncomfortable. He told me a story about how he was sleeping and his girlfriend started having sex with him. Which is something you can do with a significant other if you've worked that out beforehand, but then he mentioned saying he wasn't interested and told her didn't feel like it, only for her to say she was horny and didn't care, and she just did it anyway. He recounted it in such a calm, matter of factly kind of way and implied that wasn't the only time it happened. I think men have been conditioned to just kind of shrug off whether their own consent is important or not.