Can you laugh at “offensive” comedy?

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Jokes that are designed specifically to get a rise out of people? No. I don't laugh at jokes like that.

Comedy that punches up is great. There is absolutely no value to comedy that punches down.
Why is the "punching up/punching down" stuff the go-to for people when talking about comedy now? And of course there's "value" in punching down since plenty of comedians who do it are at the top of the profession. How do you even punch up if you're a world famous millionaire comedian? Endless Trump jokes?
 

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Why is the "punching up/punching down" stuff the go-to for people when talking about comedy now? And of course there's "value" in punching down since plenty of comedians who do it are at the top of the profession.
Like who? Jeff Dunham? Larry the Cable Guy?

There is a way to be funny that doesn't involve putting down people who have less privilege than you. If you can't be funny without supporting or upholding societal inequality or worn-out racist/sexist stereotypes, then you probably shouldn't be in comedy.
 

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I’m not asking you if you find things that are funny to you already, funny. That would be a dumb question because it delivers a very obvious answer (yes! I find things that I find funny, funny!).

I’m asking you, at what point, is it not funny?

If anyone in the room other than you is offended? If 50% of the room was offended? If it crossed a certain opinion you had, and on which subject?
I understand your question, but my answer is essentially, it doesn't matter. Whatever you find funny isn't likely to stop being funny, regardless of the amount of people that are offended. You could condition yourself over time to feel guilty about laughing at something that's considered to be offensive, but that's not the same as not finding humor in something just because other people don't, or because you shouldn't.
 

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I used to laugh my ass off watching Drawn Together back in the day.

Yeah.
Came here to post this. Drawn Together was my jam. Went back now and watched some clips on YouTube. It is still pretty damn great.


That said I firmly remember nothing being off limits in this show so I'm sure there would be a few things that would give me pause if I went back and rewatched the whole thing.
 

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If it's funny it's funny. With that said, many times the "Haha look at these x." is not funny because no thought is put into the punchline other than shock value, it's like farting in the room. And it's not even the stereotyping. Stereotypes ARE funny, they are meant to be cartoon representations of a group of people, they just get old fast for the same reason cartoon characters without decent writers die.
 

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People are much too lax with comedy. Many just see it as "jokes", but comedy is always also a commentary. You take facts, line of thinking and observation views, show people the absurdity of them or connect elements in a surprising way. Comedy can also only work, if you have elements, which the audience can either relate too or know about (since you redirect their thinking fast and surprisingly, which creates the humor).
There is so much going on with comedy, that's why making offensive jokes, which punch down are so dangerous. It not only strengthens terrible views, they even get extra layers. You can make offensive jokes without beeing racist or laugh about the weak, but minoritiesare always the easier targets, since the majority is a bigger audience.
 

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Like who? Jeff Dunham? Larry the Cable Guy?

There is a way to be funny that doesn't involve putting down people who have less privilege than you. If you can't be funny without supporting or upholding societal inequality or worn-out racist/sexist stereotypes, then you probably shouldn't be in comedy.
Chris Rock, Jeselnik, Bill Burr, Chappelle, just to name a few of my favorites.

There's a funny way of making jokes about all kinds of people. People wouldn't laugh if the jokes weren't funny.
 

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Comedy may offend me or others in all kinds of ways and I enjoy it. I should not get the impression that it is actively advocating for bigotery, but my tolerance for offensiveness is way beyond average I'd say.
 

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"Women drivers" jokes aren't funny in general.
Well that sidesteps the question but the humour is less about “women drivers” and more in the context of Caitlin transitioning meaning that her accident retroactively reinforces the stereotype.

You may not find it funny but the question is, would it be ok coming from someone in a less privileged position than Ricky Gervais?
 

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I don't mind offensive humour in general, because humour is an excellent way to process things.

However, there are variations of offensiveness.
Simply kicking down at marginalized groups, or making light of victims' experiences generally are the bad type of offensive, and it comes to no surprise much of it are in poor taste. Making fun of rape victims, or victims of genocide, grieving families, that kind of thing. That stuff is not okay imo, because it's done at the expense of someone who already has gone through unspeakable suffering, they don't need you to point your finger at them and laugh at their pain, loss or death.
If you want to have good offensive humour, make fun of the perpetrators. Those are the ones deserving of being ridiculed, of being ravaged by sarcasm.
 

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Chris Rock, Jeselnik, Bill Burr, Chappelle, just to name a few of my favorites.

There's a funny way of making jokes about all kinds of people. People wouldn't laugh if the jokes weren't funny.
That's a pretty reductive way of thinking about things. People laugh at things for all sorts of reasons. People find things funny for all sorts of reasons: sometimes it's because they're racist or sexist and enjoy hearing people make fun of women and minorities.

As for Anthony Jeselnik, the dude used to make rape jokes for fun. He gets no pass from me.
 

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Never heard Jeselnik but you think Rock, Burr, and Chappelle make a career out of punching down?
They became wildly successful by being funny and that includes "punching down" jokes.

That's a pretty reductive way of thinking about things. People laugh at things for all sorts of reasons. People find things funny for all sorts of reasons: sometimes it's because they're racist or sexist and enjoy hearing people make fun of women and minorities.

As for Anthony Jeselnik, the dude used to make rape jokes for fun. He gets no pass from me.
If people are laughing at jokes then they find it funny. Unless of course they're laughing to be polite or whatever but I doubt someone is going to pay to see a comedian that they don't find funny.

He tells all kinds of offensive jokes and gets some of the hardest laughter out of his audiences. Doesn't need a pass from you but obviously there's value in what he's doing. Most people are able to separate jokes from reality even if you can't.
 
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Came here to post this. Drawn Together was my jam. Went back now and watched some clips on YouTube. It is still pretty damn great.


That said I firmly remember nothing being off limits in this show so I'm sure there would be a few things that would give me pause if I went back and rewatched the whole thing.
Yeah, there's indeed some bad shit in that show if you rewatch it with today standards, but one of the things I liked the most from it was the "what the fuck" nature of some of the jokes.

Like the pink train stuff on the mountain? I didn't see that coming and I was fucking howling the first time I saw it.
 
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Like who? Jeff Dunham? Larry the Cable Guy?

There is a way to be funny that doesn't involve putting down people who have less privilege than you. If you can't be funny without supporting or upholding societal inequality or worn-out racist/sexist stereotypes, then you probably shouldn't be in comedy.
You can't say "you shouldn't be in comedy" while naming successful comedians that do what you're criticizing.
 

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Yes, if it’s cleverly done and isn’t just for the sake of it.

Good example: George Carlin. His offensive comedy was always clever. Questioning the nature of offence, why we get offended, spinning it on its head.

Bad example: Frankie Boyle. His latest stuff is just disability crack upon disability crack, desperately trying to get a rise out of his audience. It’s offence for the sake of offence, nothing more.
 

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Depends on the intent. Stewart Lee says some controversial stuff but it’s usually in pursuit of a wider point. In old episodes of South Park (not watched for years), there was always quite a moral message beyond the fart jokes.
 
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I can, yes. I'm a foreigner where I live, I'm the first one to joke about myself (in the right context, of course) about me being a "dirty migrant stealing your jobs". Offensive humor can be very funny if done right, what's important is using it in the right context.
 

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I’m a fan of dark humor, irony, stuff that ties the line and some stuff that’s over the top and/or gross. I would consider myself a fan of say, South Park or the Onion’s style of humor but not extreme shock humor. I don’t find it personally offensive but it is lazy. I appreciate a good 9/11 joke if done decently enough, but as soon as the joke just becomes laigjing at the suffering itself you’ve lost me.

But I also think what’s considered “offensive” has changed. It seems that despite being more comfortable with sexual humor people these days have become more easily offended by black humor, jokes that poke fun at people (not just low blows/racism) and satire. Being hypersensitive to some of this stuff in this day of age is kinda understandable, but I think a lot of people are eager to point out “problematic” things or label material offensive based on aspects that in reality aren’t an issue.

I feel that a good deal of GAF/ERA would listen to a Carlin routine and post about how “gross” it is, and that makes me sad.
 
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If the reason you're successful is for telling jokes that solely make fun of people less privileged than you, then yeah, you probably shouldn't be in comedy. And you should take a long, hard look at your fanbase.
If there's a market for it, there's a market for it. No single person is the arbiter of comedy. You can think it's tasteless, crude, destructive, or any other pejorative, but if there's a sizable number of people laughing, then yeah they kind of should be in comedy because, well, there's a sizable number of people laughing.

Like I'm not going to pass on good comedy that just so happens to be mean-spirited or punching down. It has value when done right.
 

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Of fucking course.

It's what comedy was made for, when done right.

To exceed the boundaries of regular discourse in such a way that two entirely different people can laugh at and with eachothers differences.

Chris Rock is a great example.
 

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There are versions of the Aristocrats joke that I laugh at for a solid twenty minutes if that gives you a good gauge.

Anything can be funny if it’s funny.
 

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"You can laugh at everything but not with everyone" is how I see it. As long as the joke is good and not meant to directly harm, I'm all for it.
 

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Oh yes, definitely. I can laugh about everything as long as it's funny to me. Even at jokes on the expense of "my" race/people/whatever, because being ok with that is a must, if you're laughing about offensive jokes.

Of course, context matters though. Who is telling the joke? What is he like outside of his persona on stage?
 

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Partisan jokes (aimed at opposite political viewpoints or maybe yours), racial jokes, jokes against men or women’s issues, “dirty” jokes of sexual nature (like pmsing or erection nuisances).


You have the harmless kinds of jokes, that are broad-spectrum, based on being relatable or slapstick, then you have these.

Where’s your line? Do you get offended? Are certain things off-limits? Do you judge people who laugh at what you don’t?

‘Comedy’ is one of the most subjective elements known to man, so I was just curious to see the broad variety of opinions on what you think is OK to laugh at and what isn’t :). Look forward to discussion.
Absolutely, trashing each other with this kind of humor is pretty much the norm with most of my friends.

That and dark humor, I mean last week at a family diner we ended up laughing at the idea that we might be eating an uncle or aunt kept in a freezer by my grand mother.
 

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Too many people these days seem to see comedy as a vessel for their literal political or social views, which in most cases is the complete antithesis of comedy. Comedy often tries to make well constructed jokes about everything, not just all the things you don't like. Its often exaggerated, bombastic and various forms of acting that anyone with a level head in the audience knows is amped up for effect and not some history lesson or TED talk. Friends and partners often attend comedy shows to have some drinks and relax/let go of the real world, and whatever they may or may not laugh at doesn't instantly mean they are secretly alt-right and have a Neo Nazi shrine at home.

I have no issues with anyone finding comedy subjective and a personal taste, it 100% is. I veer into challenging some people when they make heavy handed moralistic remarks or wildly sprawling accusations of individuals who understand context and intent and can view or listen to something on the line without it saying anything about their personhood or day to day beliefs and compassion for others.

I also have a debate to be part of if and when Governments start to have control and powers to genuinely arrest and potentially lock up citizens for being offensive if and when the intent or context is available. Regardless of said people possibly being antisocial or assholes. You can't just lock up everyone in society to make yourself feel good and deal with all the baggage that comes along with humanity.
 

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Yes, but my problem with "offensive" comedy is that offensive does not equal funny and some comedians seem to forget that. A joke can be offensive and funny but if the point of a joke is just to cause offence then, well, I don't see how that is a good joke. Personally I tend to like comedians who are able to be funny without relying on that kind of material though like Dara O'Briain and Kevin Bridges.
 

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Yes. As long as it's smart and i have to think it's about the joke and not the person's actual view on things.
 

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Absolutely no limits at all.

If you are easily offended by jokes, then you should question why your are watching a joke teller in the first place.
 

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I can still laugh my ass off watching "Married ...with Children", so I yeah, I can laugh at offensive comedy.
 

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If we can't anymore it's a clear sign of a dangerous direction we're heading with society.
 

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There is a way to be funny that doesn't involve putting down people who have less privilege than you. If you can't be funny without supporting or upholding societal inequality or worn-out racist/sexist stereotypes, then you probably shouldn't be in comedy.
But there's also a way to be funny that does involve that. It's a comedian's job to be funny, not inoffensive or righteous, so as long as they're that then they probably should be in comedy.

There's clearly a demand for those kind of jokes, based on this thread.