Unless you have some actual sources for this, going "nah, it happens" isn't good enough to support your claim that "a lot of men are scared to talk to women."Nah, it happens. It doesn't mean they're right but there are definitely an increasing number of men who think this way.
On one hand, it suggests a heightened awareness of sexual harrassment which is a good thing, but on the other, assuming that false accusations happen on the regs is pretty silly.
Er... doing that for most workplaces wouldnt work since man treat male colleagues way different, making sex jokes, talking about "crazy bitches" and all...
Doing that to a female worker would be risky as most would consider this type of talk sexual harassment
To be honest. You shouldn't talk like that at your workplace, period. And I doubt you would unless you know said colleague really well, and you can probably gage what to say and what not to say to a female colleague you know really well just as you would with a male colleague.