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Console modder cdgexe permanently banned from GDQ after sexual harassment allegations

Dec 21, 2017
5,912
Having read more of his Twitter, this guy is even more disgusting than I initially thought. Him using a mental illness to justify her requirement to sleep with him is just utterly sick. I believe he does have mental issues, but not the kind he's claiming. I wonder if he'll get banned from Twitter for any of this. I've reported him as much as I could but I guess unless he spills her last name or something Twitter won't consider this a bannable offence. I think they really should though because what he's done is cause further harassment towards her.
 
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Oct 25, 2017
2,672
Canary Islands, Spain
Thats good. I wonder if he will stop using his input overlays as well. I actually like that overlay :/
Why? The overlay is cool and he already gave him the money, there's no reason to stop using it. Just don't advertise it and replace it with an alternative if one comes out (it's my understanding that his overlay is the only one available), and don't buy anything else from him of course

What I mean is that there's no need to downgrade his stream's quality, stopping the use of an item that he already paid money for doesn't mean or solve anything
 

Lyng

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Oct 27, 2017
1,061
I'm 100% sure that the hotel room only got awkward because he was feeling entitled to her, if he acted in good faith and, instead of throwing a tantrum and kicking her out when she slept on the floor, talked to her like a good person, I doubt things would be awkward at all, he brought this upon himself.

My take on this is as follow: She may have initially agreed to sleep with him, but after the first night she couldn't do it, maybe the guy wasn't what she thought he was, maybe she wasn't feeling secure with herself in doing it, whatever, it doesn't matter, what matters is that she backed out. At that point it's fine to feel disappointment at first, but it's no excuse to be a piece of shit, when she slept on the floor, he should have talked with her instead of throwing a baby tantrum and fucking kicking her out of the room and cancelling her ticket, literally stranding her there. I feel no empathy for this person, especially since he made this all public and now this woman has a target on her back.
100% this. Clearly she changed her mind and he got pissed. The whole “b b but she promised to cuddle!!!!!!!” he is spouting tells you everything you need to know.
The dude is a grade A creep. Posting private conversations and outing her.
Fuck him
 
Oct 25, 2017
8,682
Crazy how guys don’t understand that consent, at any time, regardless of what was talked about/arranged before...can be revoked. And if it is, that’s the end of the conversation.

Guy is a fucking creep.
 
Oct 27, 2017
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This guy and the amount of men defending this situation as a "broken agreement" and a "deal" is troublesome. It boils my blood.

Posting a private Discord conversation is beyond fucked up too. It's tantamount to doxxing, with the amount of personal and private information being shared in it. This "nice guy" shit is fucking disgusting.
 
Oct 25, 2017
9,598
Hiding behind his disorder for what was clearly outside the realms of therapy for that is cowardly. Yeah im sure talking dirty, expecting sex and giving people pet names is a standard part of conversion disorder.... please correct me if im wrong.
 
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Oct 25, 2017
1,435
Germany
He is still in full on defense mode on twitter.
And he keeps on liking stuff like this:

EDIT: And now she is the one taking advantage, after he offered her the whole trip? Jesus... this guy is really delusional
 
Oct 25, 2017
313
Jesus christ why does the word no have to be such a foreign concept for a lot of guys. Shit I've slept in a tub after I was told no on a trip with one of my exes a few years ago before we were serious. She said no and I said cool and made sure she felt safe. Why the hell do "gamers" have to consistently show themselves as pieces of shit.

(This is entirely the reason I can't stand people calling me a "gamer" I don't like being associated with shit like this.)
 
Oct 26, 2017
1,389
Holy shit, what a pathetic little goblin.

Some real "I paid for dinner so now you're obligated to have sex with me" shit... except that person is trapped with you in a bedroom which also your only place to stay, in a city that you don't call home.

What a manipulative fucking prick.
Yup.
And cancelling her ticket home?
#Foreveralone #Butwhy?
 
Dec 18, 2017
1,418
Jesus christ why does the word no have to be such a foreign concept for a lot of guys. Shit I've slept in a tub after I was told no on a trip with one of my exes a few years ago before we were serious. She said no and I said cool and made sure she felt safe. Why the hell do "gamers" have to consistently show themselves as pieces of shit.

(This is entirely the reason I can't stand people calling me a "gamer" I don't like being associated with shit like this.)
This dude being a no repect having piece of shit creep isnt because he playes video games. Hes just a no respect having piece of shit who happens to be into gaming. He is no different from all the no respect having pieces of shit out there who arent into video games
 
Oct 25, 2017
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This dude being a no repect having piece of shit creep isnt because he playes video games. Hes just a no respect having piece of shit who happens to be into gaming. He is no different from all the no respect having pieces of shit out there who arent into video games
I'm not saying playing games is what caused him to be like this, I'm pointing at this along with other despicable shit like "gamers rise up" and the GG movement to show that a significant number of "gamers" are despicable pieces of shit that I wan't no association with
 
Oct 25, 2017
9,598
I'm not saying playing games is what caused him to be like this, I'm pointing at this along with other despicable shit like "gamers rise up" and the GG movement to show that a significant number of "gamers" are despicable pieces of shit that I wan't no association with
Seems like needless non sequitur to me (One that Destiny made on stream earlier which came out of nowhere while simultaneously calling people autistic). Nobody here will deny gaming communities having issues, but during a speedrun charity drive which promptly banned him is not a great time to be doing this, particularly when the guy in question seems to have some serious issues beyond that.
 
Oct 25, 2017
1,310
Germany
wait, I just stumbled into this, what happened?... can someone give me a short summary please?

They made plans to spend the time at agdq together, sexted a bit before and at some point she said no.
What happened then?
 
Oct 25, 2017
1,678
wait, I just stumbled into this, what happened?... can someone give me a short summary please?

They made plans to spend the time at agdq together, sexted a bit before and at some point she said no.
What happened then?
It is all literally in the OP.
 
Oct 25, 2017
796
Tel Aviv
No offense to the bondage community, you guys are cool, but I have the distinct impression this guy intended to force his fetish on this girl, regardless of her boundaries.
I've been in the BDSM scene for a while, and let me tell you - I've seen countless texts like these by predators trying to push their fetishes on anyone they can. No need to claim no offense to Kink community - He's not one of us, he's like the horny miscreants that fill sites like Fetlife and give the entire community a bad name.
Honestly, I have no idea how he thought those texts show anything but how predatory and creepy he was.

EDIT:He retweeted: "And after she revoked her consent, he revoked his by not letting her stay in the place he paid for. " This is straight up the thinking of a psychopath who see people as nothing but tools and all human interaction as some transactional.
 
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Oct 25, 2017
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Portugal
I don't see anything wrong with paying a flight to someone as a nice gesture but assuming that paying for shit = sex is plain stupid, what an asshole. Hopefully Mari will be able to get back once AGDQ is over.
 
Oct 25, 2017
313
Seems like needless non sequitur to me (One that Destiny made on stream earlier which came out of nowhere while simultaneously calling people autistic). Nobody here will deny gaming communities having issues, but during a speedrun charity drive which promptly banned him is not a great time to be doing this, particularly when the guy in question seems to have some serious issues beyond that.

Again I'm not painting the rest of GDQ's patrons as this, I'm speaking about this specific kind of "nice guy" scumbag that there always seems to be at least one of at every major event like this
 
Oct 27, 2017
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ZzzzzzZzzzZzz...
I'm gonna be super duper blunt about what anyone is trying to defend here (and if not here here, I mean twitter or anywhere)-- If she didn't offer consent (and it does not matter why!), it means anything further would be rape. So people are defending the idea that he wanted to rape this girl, and then threw a fit when, upon not wanting to be raped, she refused to lay in the same bed as him.

Then there's the whole threatened revenge garbage, which is an entirely different horrible way to treat a human, being completely detached from him being a fucking horrible person upon being upset someone he was considering raping didn't way to be in his bed. If there's any inexplicable up side to all of this, at least he didn't assault her! Better to be kicked out of GDQ than end up in jail.

TLDR; fuck anyone trying to defend any of this in any context, anywhere on the internet. I hope someone is taking (user)names and archiving any stupidity. There should be zero tolerance for anything like this in our modern society, period.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Wow. I wanted to give this guy the benefit of the doubt that maybe this was just awkward misunderstanding, but posting that conversation for the world to see iis real scum bag move. And it doesn't prove anything. She may have been open to it before they met up. Then realized how lame he is. Ban this goofy motherfucker for life.
 
Oct 28, 2017
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He looks bad at whatever angle I look at. He probably felt entitled to do whatever he wants after (1) buying her a plane ticket and (2) when the opportunity for something sexual came into his plate. He's digging his grave deeper by revealing their chat logs. The guy is creepy AF.

He probably should have gotten professional help for whatever his illness is in the area he's in. Personally, the part where he became overly eager when the conversation went sexual should've been a red flag already.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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What a nice guy, flying her over and not asking for sex directly but instead emotionally manipulating her to get sex. Surely he deserved it !
Holy shit.
 
Oct 26, 2017
6,768
Madrid
OP should absolutely get the clickbait removed. But people can also read the OP before condemning people. No need to go from 0-100 without even reading.
I was suggesting a solution, not looking for someone to blame, but I do realize this is the internet.

On-topic, I can't see how sharing that conversation can be legal at all. Surely Mari can sue him for that and harassment?
 

Phendrana

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Oct 26, 2017
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User Banned (1 month): Victim blaming and a history of dismissing concerns surrounding sexual harassment
So what is she actually claiming he did? Ask her to leave the room when she said no?

At risk of being dogpiled for defending this sleazeball...that seems understandable tbh? I don't think I'd want somebody who had rejected me sleeping on the floor of my hotel room all week either. And if that's all that was done, and then she got him banned for life from something he loves over it....well I can understand canceling the ticket too.

He's clearly a sleazeball based on those texts, but inviting the girl with the intention of getting laid isn't a crime. He was hardly subtle, either, so she was well aware that's what he was after. Did she not have money on her to get a separate room in case things didn't work out?
 
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Oct 26, 2017
6,768
Madrid
I'm not saying playing games is what caused him to be like this, I'm pointing at this along with other despicable shit like "gamers rise up" and the GG movement to show that a significant number of "gamers" are despicable pieces of shit that I wan't no association with
A significant number of dudes are despicable pieces of shit. Not defending "gamers" (because they're pretty shitty currently), but this is a "male" problem, not a "gamer" problem. This is something a lot of people don't want to see, because they can more easily peel off the "gamer" tag than the "male" one, to easily dissassociate themselves without having to actually do anything, rather than engaging the cultural and societal problem that is at the root.

At risk of being dogpiled for defending this sleazeball...that seems understandable tbh? I don't think I'd want somebody who had rejected me sleeping on the floor of my hotel room all week either.
... what the fuck? Like, what?
 
Oct 25, 2017
748
Portugal
So what is she actually claiming he did? Ask her to leave the room when she said no?

At risk of being dogpiled for defending this sleazeball...that seems understandable tbh? I don't think I'd want somebody who had rejected me sleeping on the floor of my hotel room all week either. And if that's all that was done, and then she got him banned for life from something he loves over it....well I can understand canceling the ticket too.

based on those texts he clearly invited this girl with the intention of getting laid. He was hardly subtle, either, so she was well aware.

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On the surface he looks like a twat, but inviting the girl out with the intention of getting laid is hardly a crime. He wasn't subtle about it either. And I can understand if, after she made it clear she wasn't interwsted, that he might not want her in the room anymore. Woule uo

I'll probably get dogpiled for giving this guy the benefit of the doubt, but...it's pretty clear from those text messages that his intention was to get laid.
The problem here is that his intention from the very beginning seems to have been to be nice just to get her to have sex with him, at most I'd say she was a bit naive to take such an offer from someone she met online without having a backup plan in case something like this happened.
 

Solo Kazama

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Dec 27, 2017
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User Banned (Permanent): Misogyny; History of Severe Infractions; Account in Junior Phase
So what is she actually claiming he did? Ask her to leave the room when she said no?

At risk of being dogpiled for defending this sleazeball...that seems understandable tbh? I don't think I'd want somebody who had rejected me sleeping on the floor of my hotel room all week either. And if that's all that was done, and then she got him banned for life from something he loves over it....well I can understand canceling the ticket too.

He's clearly a sleazeball based on those texts, but inviting the girl with the intention of getting laid isn't a crime. He was hardly subtle, either, so she was well aware that's what he was after. Did she not have money on her to get a separate room in case things didn't work out?
I 100% agree. Both are growns up, both know about potential sex; If he got rejected - then its kinda normal you wont to spend a week with this person in a room (like some kind of cuck). Proably he could reserve just second room for her (and thats it). I dont understand this bashing when both parties knew whats going on.

There could be even another layer - what if she had it planned "tease, free ticket, free hotel, reject, easy profits". You have no idea what some girls can do just for free dinner.

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Nov 20, 2017
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Czech Republic
At this point I am not sure what is happening (or what has happened) that is for judge to decide, but his behavior on public platform is more than suspicious. Dude if you are innocent, maybe just maybe shut the fuck up. Because this all tell me, you are guilty as fuck.
 
Oct 25, 2017
12,074
So what is she actually claiming he did? Ask her to leave the room when she said no?

At risk of being dogpiled for defending this sleazeball...that seems understandable tbh? I don't think I'd want somebody who had rejected me sleeping on the floor of my hotel room all week either. And if that's all that was done, and then she got him banned for life from something he loves over it....well I can understand canceling the ticket too.

He's clearly a sleazeball based on those texts, but inviting the girl with the intention of getting laid isn't a crime. He was hardly subtle, either, so she was well aware that's what he was after. Did she not have money on her to get a separate room in case things didn't work out?
Shit is borderline blackmail
"i'll pay for your trip and your room" and then when she doesn't consent to sex he kicks her out. What in the flying fuck at defending this shit.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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A significant number of dudes are despicable pieces of shit. Not defending "gamers" (because they're pretty shitty currently), but this is a "male" problem, not a "gamer" problem. This is something a lot of people don't want to see, because they can more easily peel off the "gamer" tag than the "male" one, to easily dissassociate themselves without having to actually do anything, rather than engaging the cultural and societal problem that is at the root.

I agree completely, I apologize for my poor wording.
 

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Aug 22, 2018
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I 100% agree. Both are growns up, both know about potential sex; If he got rejected - then its kinda normal you wont to spend a week with this person in a room (like some kind of cuck). Proably he could reserve just second room for her (and thats it). I dont understand this bashing when both parties knew whats going on.

There could be even another layer - what if she had it planned "tease, free ticket, free hotel, reject, easy profits". You have no idea what some girls can do just for free dinner.
Just stop. Seriously.
 
Nov 10, 2017
432
I 100% agree. Both are growns up, both know about potential sex; If he got rejected - then its kinda normal you wont to spend a week with this person in a room (like some kind of cuck). Proably he could reserve just second room for her (and thats it). I dont understand this bashing when both parties knew whats going on.

There could be even another layer - what if she had it planned "tease, free ticket, free hotel, reject, easy profits". You have no idea what some girls can do just for free dinner.
The fuck dude? Cuck? Tease, free ticket? The guy admits it yet it’s a MRA ad to you?
 
Oct 25, 2017
3,170
How are people STILL looking at this situation and being all 'well, he's got a point!'

No. No he hasn't. People have such a warped view of consent, intention, manipulation and a person's agency over their body and life.

He isn't valid in this situation. At all. His actions and defence are both well, indefensible.
I think the problem is people don't recognize the manipulation as harassment.

By providing her with a room and a plane ticket, he positioned himself as the sole controller of her well being. Then he tried to used that control to influence her behavior. Then he threw concern for her well being out the window when he realized she couldn't be controlled.

Its pretty sick
 
Nov 3, 2017
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So what is she actually claiming he did? Ask her to leave the room when she said no?

At risk of being dogpiled for defending this sleazeball...that seems understandable tbh? I don't think I'd want somebody who had rejected me sleeping on the floor of my hotel room all week either. And if that's all that was done, and then she got him banned for life from something he loves over it....well I can understand canceling the ticket too.

He's clearly a sleazeball based on those texts, but inviting the girl with the intention of getting laid isn't a crime. He was hardly subtle, either, so she was well aware that's what he was after. Did she not have money on her to get a separate room in case things didn't work out?
You’d kick someone out of your room and leave them stranded because they wouldn’t fuck you?

That’s real shitty, man.
 
Jan 9, 2019
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What's confusing? Would you be comfortable in your hotel for the rest of the week in that situation?
It doesn't matter if he was comfortable or not - he offered the room in the first place it's his problem to deal with if his advances aren't reciprocatee and she still want s to stay in the room (especially if she has nowhere else to go)
 
Oct 28, 2017
269
There should be no defence of this guy's actions. I'm including the "swapping dirty DMs bit as well.

This guy is incredibly predatory. The entire relationship is founded on inblanced power dynamics. As far as I can tell, they didn't really know each other before, so the first thing interaction is this kind stranger offering to fly you out to a locations for a few days of gaming fun. Something she is obviously super excited for.

Then the complications start getting added, "I can't sleep without cuddling", "we don't need to fuck but maybe we can", "you can reject me but only before we get in the room, anything else breaks our verbal contract".

All of this is planned. This whole thing was an attempt to get laid and the fact he has posted those chat logs and doesn't understand how bad they look shows how fucking oblivious he is to his own actions.

He took advantage of this girl and she is now likely going to really struggle to have a public presence after this because she will be hounded by fucking idiot right on men who can't comprehend consent.

So no defending any of his actions, he gets everything he deserves.
 
Jan 6, 2018
681
The OP isn't quite clear, but as I understand it there's 2 things going on.

The first, the two flirted online, then she rejected him in person, and he's cancelling her flight home because he's bitter about it (which is an extremely manipulative and a terrible thing to do if I understand correctly).

Then there's the whole sexual harassment layer on top of this, right? Basically, the allegations we don't know the details of?