Bad news team,
I'm starting to divest from my relationship. I still love my girlfriend. She's amazing. But the logistics are really starting to get to me.
It's been three weeks since she stayed over. And as you know, that's the only time we can do anything physically. I don't feel any sort of sexual urgency from her. I think a big part of that is my fault. I'm too inconsistent bed, due to my dysfunctions.
But she doesn't want to spend the night. I don't sense any desire. And then when she does want to do stuff, I can't perform. I still feel the affection from her. She's still super sweet to me. But well, each time I've had trouble, I've felt her view me less and less as a sexual being. Now I get the feeling she would be perfectly fine not having sex with me. Or feeling me. Last week we were taking a shower (she took a vacation day) and she wouldn't even let me feel her breasts, because she "didn't want to get horny."
It's the age old problem I guess. But it's compounded by my own sexual anxieties.
Basically October 15th was I think the day my relationship died. She really wanted me to fuck her that day, and I couldn't. Since that day, she hasn't wanted to come over. She keeps me around because I treat her well I guess. And I do want to treat her well. She treats me well too. But I don't think she's particularly attracted to me.
She was supposed to come over tonight. That just got cancelled because she has to work tomorrow.
It's amazing. Things work, until they stop working.