- Oct 25, 2017
I'd say just ask her what's up. Over the phone if that's a way you guys already communicate a lot. After three months I don't think you should tolerate being ghosted. I don't think you should care if you "look bad" or whatever. Be direct and stand up for your feelings. Who knows, maybe she's feeling blue for some reason and feels like she can't tell you.
You should tell her what you want not what you're "fine with." Maybe I'm wrong but I got the sense that you were going with the flow when she asked if you were on the same page. I don't know but whatever you feel you should definitely talk to her. Tell her you want something more serious and if she doesn't then you'll know and you can move on.