Man I'm gutted, getting ghosted by your girlfriend sucks. We went temporarily long-distance the last three months cause she visited her home country, had to stay there longer than expected due to a medical issue and now with the pandemic I have no idea when (or if) she'll be coming back. But that's just an inconvenience, the real problem is that our communication has ground to a halt. None of us are big texters or chatters and we were both more or less ok not talking to each other for a couple days, especially with the 12 hour time difference and our jobs. But now nothing feels right, a month into long-distance I felt she was becoming distant and we ended up videocalling for two-three hours once a week, and now for nearly three weeks it's been total silence. I tried calling her twice to no response, texted her if she's ok and still nothing. Talked to a mutual good friend of hers and she had also tried contacting her to no avail. She did eventually reply to me, last week, saying she's sorry and asking if we could talk later, but there was never a followup and we still haven't talked. That's like, the only text she sent to me this month.
I'm kind of at a loss here, it being my first relationship and all I've been really trying to make this work but I've had a terrible couple of months because of it. I know she's been like this in the past when going through a hard time, and now there's a lot of factors at play (the time difference, the situation in her country, the whole world being in a chaotic state) and I do still want to be there for her and help her out, but at this point there's nothing I can do and I feel more alone than when I was actually alone, if that makes sense.