this song and escitalopram
I also work a demanding job that keeps me in check, even if I don't even want to be there at all.
Just waiting for my mother to die before I can kill myself. I'm really looking forward to it.
With all due respect, I think this is unhelpful advice for many people. I recognize that some people find a simple perspective change to be helpful in overcoming persistent feelings of depression and it's not my intention to tell anyone they're wrong about something that makes them feel better, but for many other people (especially in cases of severe, chronic depression) this sentiment only exacerbates feelings of being a failure for being depressed and/or not deserving sympathy from others. These feelings, while often sincerely held, are not reflective of reality. Experiencing them is not a personal failing, however, and no matter how severe or (relatively) mild anyone's depression is, it deserves to be taken seriously by others if it is having a negative impact on their life.Just remind yourself that it could always be worse, and somebody somewhere is having a day that makes yours look like rainbows and sunshine.
No single treatment works for everyone. Some people have success fighting depression without meds while others do not. There's no way to know what does and doesn't work for any given person without trial and error. It's unlikely that any one treatment will be effective in isolation, however, and medical professionals will tell you that medication alone is not sufficient. In my case I think going off my meds was a serious mistake, but there were a lot of other factors that also contributed to my ending up back in the hospital seven months later. It's not always possible to isolate every specific cause and effect, but if medication seems to correlate with overall improvement, it is likely worth continuing with. On the other hand, if a particular med or combination of meds is not helping or is making feelings of depression worse it should not be continued, but I would stress that stopping immediately and without medical advice is unwise as it can be important to taper off meds just as one has to gradually increase the dosage when starting.
Going through day-to-day life while wanting to die really fucking sucks. Unfortunately it's something that many people have to cope with, but it's hard to bring up because it often provokes reactions of disbelief, disgust, or anger. Not saying that's necessarily what you're thinking because I don't know your thoughts, of course, but it's a concern that has to be kept in mind in general by already vulnerable people.
I did(no medication and no professional help), but it depends on what causes your depression and what kind of person you are.
If you do, think about pure thoughts... First time you won a game, first time slow dancing with someone, the things that made you feel special inside...hopefully you sleep better.Hopefully I don't lay here for hours with my eyes closed and not get any sleep.
I feel like both a lot, and very little has happened to me in the last 2 months. Basically I'm not sure where I'm going in life right now. I'm registered to go back to school this fall, full time. I'm going for my associates and I should be done in maybe a year if I get these classes done. I lost my job in the beginning of May, and while I'm trying to maintain my positivity, I can't help but feel down about everything. I'm not working so I feel as if I have no meaning everyday. I've always loved this forum for my love of games but that's not enough to get me going in life. I've made some discoveries this first half of the year, and I'm trying to get some IT and networking certificates, but it doesn't mean anything if I never study and never get them. I'll be stuck applying to only dead end jobs.
My girl broke up with me awhile ago, we got back together and we broke it off again almost 2 weeks ago so it doesn't hurt that much, it just sucks a lot of my friends I met at my last job, and I don't exactly have a circle of friends to confide in. Some of my closer friends had some shit going on so I couldn't exactly reach out to them in my time of need, when I'm usually there for them.
I just started crying as I'm typing this up. I force myself to do good for myself like going for runs, working out, sometimes go explore the city just for the hell of taking walks and not being inside playing all day, but how am I supposed to make this life work if I'm stuck right now and feel awful? I'm trying to clean up my act and I feel like these cycles are getting longer, but also it sucks knowing besides exercise, it's hard to find meaning in everyday.
I went from a few months ago to having a good job, being in school and a girlfriend to right now where I have nothing but family which I'm super thankful for. I wouldn't give them up for anything. But they still have problems with the fact that I like to medicate. I'm trying to lay off that for as long as I can until I find work, but at this point when I'm 26, how am I supposed to not let these cycles get to me in the future? It feels like they're destined to happen over and over. I'm a super positive person, but shit, facing reality by myself really sucks and I have no idea what to do.
I don't have insurance right now, so therapy and going to doctors is out of the question until I find some work again. Otherwise I might have to pay the school's insurance, which I don't know how I'm gonna pay for since I'm leaking out my savings. I know I need to push through and finish school, but I don't know how to deal with these feelings for the next two months. Politics are already hard enough on me, and I'm not strong at putting my voice out at things that are important to me.
I think I just need some hugs.
Edit: Side note, I've been playing Guild Wars for the past week all day everyday except this weekend. I haven't touched any games today except one round of team fortress, so I'm just lost in thought right now.
Does anyone ever feel like they don't necessarily wanna die but don't wanna live either? Sometimes, especially lately, I don't wanna live. I don't wanna die because that's scary and it'll hurt a lot of people, but I just don't wanna exist. Living is hard and painful.
i feel the same. i think about suicide a lot but i don't really want to die. it's hard to put into words but yeah what you said...i don't wanna live but i don't wanna die.Does anyone ever feel like they don't necessarily wanna die but don't wanna live either? Sometimes, especially lately, I don't wanna live. I don't wanna die because that's scary and it'll hurt a lot of people, but I just don't wanna exist. Living is hard and painful.
i tried audiobooks a while back. i usually would read in bed so when i started audiobooks i just kept falling asleep. so instead i would listen to them while out walking instead of music. it was really great but unfortunately it was too expensive. i'm back reading paperbacks. well....i bought a load of books months ago and haven't touched them.Honestly, this really helped me.
AUDIOBOOKS - With your favorite Genre. There are so many fantastic novels in audibles and it will get you through the day (in my experience)
Will take your mind off the bad stuff, you can also do some light work or exercise while listening.
i tried audiobooks a while back. i usually would read in bed so when i started audiobooks i just kept falling asleep. so instead i would listen to them while out walking instead of music. it was really great but unfortunately it was too expensive. i'm back reading paperbacks. well....i bought a load of books months ago and haven't touched them.
i got a couple free books (i tried audible) and the experience was great. i tried listening to them at work but got so distracted. listening while out a walk was perfect. if i can get a good price on an audiobook i'd definitely pick it up. i love books but sitting down to read a book is so hard for me. not only actually physically sitting down and opening it but i have no concentration for it. same goes for movies/games. but with the audiobook i was listening to 2-3 chapters a day when usually i'd struggle to read a single chapter in a paperback.I think this is the only downside. It can be costly
I use it when going to sleep, doing work, and when going outside. The stories being narrated makes me feel I'm part of the adventure. After some months, my depression doesn't come so often and I felt quite recovered now. I feel very productive and want to see what the future holds for me in a positive light.
This is coming from a guy who went through A lot of bad stuff and inner demons in his life.
Mindfulness. Practice shutting those negative thoughts off (an app like Headspace is good for this). This can be a huge help to get you to snap out of it. For me, it all starts with 'getting out of my own head'. It's not easy but you can do it with enough practice.
Yeah for a lot of people feeling guilty over feeling terrible is common and only really serves to make you feel worse.This has never helped for me, personally.
It really only amplifies the guilt that I have things seemingly good and yet I couldn't possibly feel more of this perpetual, to-my-core feeling of just lacking.