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AwareSnake

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I really hope people don’t launch a gofundme or anything for OP. As harsh as it sounds, people need to learn from their mistakes. If people gave him their money, then he wouldn’t learn squat. £800 is a big lesson, but it’s one that will stick.
 

JamFlan

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May 16, 2018
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Thank you for clarifying, I know you're not OP but this makes the whole situation so much easier to manage.

depophelp.zendesk.com

Buyer Protection

In order to be covered by Buyer Protection you must pay inside the app or on the Depop website, using the BUY button and report any issues to us within 180 days. All purchases made in-app and/or on...

This is what Depop provide in terms of buyer protection, OP should contact Depop directly to see what other protection he has available to him.
But from what OP is showing, if they're to be believed, it looks like they found the person via Depop and then communicated with the seller outside of Depop for the sale.
 

King Kingo

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Dec 3, 2019
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I really hope people don’t launch a gofundme or anything for OP. As harsh as it sounds, people need to learn from their mistakes. If people gave him their money, then he wouldn’t learn squat. £800 is a big lesson, but it’s one that will stick.

Somebody who was willing to spend that much of a premium doesn't deserve a Gofundme for a luxury item.

But from what OP is showing, if they're to be believed, it looks like they found the person via Depop and then communicated with the seller outside of Depop for the sale.

Yeah, I got told about that from another response. Why would they do that knowing that they could make the purchase directly on the website?
 

smuguire

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Oct 27, 2017
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Oh wow. Did he seriously not use the app or the website?

I'm browsing through the Depop website and you can make a direct purchase on the website itself, why in the world would OP do this?

The “why” I cannot answer. I still think OP is trolling or at the very least withholding some crucial information. But based on OPs “proof” (https://m.imgur.com/a/m5YgPLu) OP engaged the seller in a DM on depop then paid through PayPal Friends and Family. The seller then deleted the depop account
 

Okabe

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That's nice, I need some new coolant for the next rig I build. Where can I buy your ass cheek water?

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1 gallon of my Ass cheek water comes with every copy of DMC5SE
 

A Grizzly Bear

The Fallen
Oct 27, 2017
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You're not guaranteed to be scammed, but if you are, there's nothing to be done.

Did your friend get his money back? I'm surprised if he did. Then again, that's not how the scammers work things anyways. They'll just do a "item not as described" and send back some useless crap in return (or a broken exchange of the item they bought). That's how the true scammers work and it's your word vs theirs and ebay has chosen who they're aligned with.
Sorry, he was the seller and buyer claimed it wasn't delivered.

I'm also well aware of the claim you got something else scam. It's just not as prevalent as people make it out to be. Often selling in person is made out to be the only safe option when it definitely isn't.
 

SP.

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Oct 27, 2017
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Say what now???

Where do you live? US I'm guessing?

OP is in the UK so I assume more consumer protections. I would be astonished if this happened to him.

PayPal still refers chargebacks and unpaid debts to debt collection agencies in the UK if not paid back within 90 days. In the UK they typically use Wescot Credit Services or Akinika.
 

JamFlan

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The “why” I cannot answer. I still think OP is trolling or at the very least withholding some crucial information. But based on OPs “proof” (https://m.imgur.com/a/m5YgPLu) OP engaged the seller in a DM on depop then paid through PayPal Friends and Family. The seller then deleted the depop account
Yeah that's what makes it sketchy to me. OP stalled to provide any sort of proof—even going so far as to say they (unnecessarily) contacted a mod to ask if they could post proof, which we have no indication ever happened. Then when they finally post "proof" it's after a long delay and could easily be faked? They even blocked out where they bought it from, which they hadn't revealed yet despite asking for help on how to get their money back. The proof they posted just makes the transaction even sketchier. It's like every step along the way they're doing everything they can to make this sound worse and worse.
 

AIan

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Oct 20, 2019
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I'm dealing with a similar issue. Highly recommend doing a chargeback with your bank. You basically have a near-100% guarantee of your money back as long as you say you were scammed and your item was not received.
 

super-famicom

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Oct 26, 2017
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Yeah that's what makes it sketchy to me. OP stalled to provide any sort of proof—even going so far as to say they (unnecessarily) contacted a mod to ask if they could post proof, which we have no indication ever happened. Then when they finally post "proof" it's after a long delay and could easily be faked? They even blocked out where they bought it from, which they hadn't revealed yet despite asking for help on how to get their money back like, over a day ago. The proof they posted just makes the transaction even sketchier. It's like every step along the way they're doing everything they can to make this sound worse and worse.

It took a couple hours before OP said he went through Depop, an online marketplace primarily dealing with fashion items. Apparently if you buy something through that site, you get buyers protection, but OP DM'd the seller and did a transaction outside of the site, via PayPal Friends and Family. I posted this earlier, and some other people did as well. But the thread is kinda moving fast lol. It's wild, I tell ya!
 

gozu

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Oct 27, 2017
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PayPal still refers chargebacks and unpaid debts to debt collection agencies in the UK if not paid back within 90 days. In the UK they typically use Wescot Credit Services or Akinika.

But do they go to people's houses? The worst I thought they could do was harassing phone calls, and you can mail them to formally request all communication be done by mail, by law. In-person harassment is what shocks me here!
 

JamFlan

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It took a couple hours before OP said he went through Depop, an online marketplace primarily dealing with fashion items. Apparently if you buy something through that site, you get buyers protection, but OP DM'd the seller and did a transaction outside of the site, via PayPal Friends and Family. I posted this earlier, and some other people did as well. But the thread is kinda moving fast lol.
Yeah that's what I was saying.

They initially came here asking for help on how to get a refund and people were asking where they bought from, which OP didn't respond to.

Eventually OP finally posted their "proof" and even then the marketplace they were going through was blocked out, and only after more pestering did they finally say what marketplace they found the seller on.

The marketplace seems like important information when it comes to handling how to deal with being scammed. Maybe they didn't want to reveal they went outside of the marketplace to make the transaction or something? Either way it's sketchy because it implies to me that either it's fabricated or OP isn't being entirely forthcoming with important information.
 

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I'm dealing with a similar issue. Highly recommend doing a chargeback with your bank. You basically have a near-100% guarantee of your money back as long as you say you were scammed and your item was not received.

I find this hard to beleive if the transaction took place using PayPal F&F, you might get the money back from the bank but PayPal would still come after you and quite rightfully so.
 

Pargon

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Oct 27, 2017
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Say what now???
Where do you live? US I'm guessing?
OP is in the UK so I assume more consumer protections. I would be astonished if this happened to him.
That was in the UK.
My situation was different, as I was a seller that got scammed rather than the buyer.
But that’s what happened once PayPal decided I was the one that owed them money, despite having proof that the item had been delivered.

As I said, it was fifteen years ago, and not exactly the same situation - so it’s entirely possible things will be different now.
But I would be expecting PayPal to come after that money, plus interest, if they do a chargeback.
 

super-famicom

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Oct 26, 2017
19,329
Yeah that's what I was saying.

They initially came here asking for help on how to get a refund and people were asking where they bought from, which OP didn't respond to.

Eventually OP finally posted their "proof" and even then the marketplace they were going through was blocked out, and only after more pestering did they finally say what marketplace they found the seller on.

The marketplace seems like important information when it comes to handling how to deal with being scammed. Maybe they didn't want to reveal they went outside of the marketplace to make the transaction or something? Either way it's sketchy because it implies to me that either it's fabricated or OP isn't being entirely forthcoming with important information.

Yeah, this whole thing is really weird. I am strongly leaning towards troll, but if I'm wrong I'd feel bad for OP and hope things can work out for him.
 

1-D_FE

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Oct 27, 2017
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Sorry, he was the seller and buyer claimed it wasn't delivered.

I'm also well aware of the claim you got something else scam. It's just not as prevalent as people make it out to be. Often selling in person is made out to be the only safe option when it definitely isn't.

The last thing I tried selling on ebay was my Vive. After about 4 days, buyer claims it stopped working. Didn't contact me for "troubleshooting", just files a claim with ebay. The thing that really pisses me off, is ebay has zero interest in actually facillitating things. They give you one option for what you want to do (and tell you it's your only choice you'll ever get, so be prepared to live with it). If you decline the return request, then ebay tells the buyer to keep the product and refunds them the money.

I don't know what the buyer's end game was, but I bluffed like a mofo and said I documented all the serial numbers and expected it to be in the exact same condition as it was sent in. Else all actions at my disposal (none) would be pursued.

Buyer returned it and it was in perfect working condition. Also my actual Vive. So even though I possibly prevented a scam with my bluff, I still was out 40 or 50 dollars for shipping to and from. Because even though I said no returns were accepted, and there was nothing wrong with it, I still had to accept the return and pay shipping for it or else ebay would have just auto refunded the money and let them keep it.

It's not the first time I've had issues with ebay, but it's the last time I ever use it. It's just not worth the hassle anymore.
 

SP.

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Oct 27, 2017
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But do they go to people's houses? The worst I thought they could do was harassing phone calls, and you can mail them to formally request all communication be done by mail, by law. In-person harassment is what shocks me here!

Collection agencies are known to do this, yes, if you don’t respond to their emails/letters/phone calls.
 
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Wise

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Oct 27, 2017
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This thread is mentally unhealthy for me so I won’t posting in this thread anymore or reading it unless i get an update from my bank
 

Pargon

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Oct 27, 2017
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Collection agencies are known to do this, yes, if you don’t respond to their emails/letters/phone calls.
gozu
It was fifteen years ago now, so many of the specifics are fuzzy at this point.
As I recall though, I was still in contact with PayPal support at the time; but it had been a long and drawn-out process due to how slow they were to investigate/respond, and the threatening visit was the first I had heard from a collection agency at all. It was not that I had been ignoring emails/letters/phone calls from them, or ignoring PayPal support.
It felt more like PayPal had contacted them as a means to get their money back, while stringing me along.

As I said: it was not exactly the same situation as this, since I was the seller.
I would hope that their procedures are better now after fifteen years; but if a chargeback is successful, and PayPal end up saying that you owe them money, you cannot ignore it and decide that your account with them is forfeit - even if that seems unfair. They will come after you for it.

I did look up some of my old emails relating to it: emails to the buyer - who did not delete their account immediately, but tried to make excuses first; PayPal support; and discussing it with friends.
And honestly, I was too young and naive to know how to handle it properly by myself - so much of this thread feels very familiar and is bringing back bad memories.
I'm inclined to believe that TheGreatJordan is not trolling, and the "inconsistencies" or unexpected responses that people are pointing at is a result of being young and freaking out at being scammed out of what would be a significant amount of money at that age (and to many, significant at any age).
I can look back now and see how there are many things I should have handled differently, but I didn't know any better at the time.
 

Raoh

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Oct 27, 2017
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Rip your 800 pounds. That's a lot of lettuce. I'm struggling to come up with 20 bucks to get Resident Evil 3 xd
 

Abylim

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Oct 29, 2017
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I love how he says “he tricked me into using F&F” originally but in the convo it was literally the guy just asking if he wanted to use it, and immediately OP says perfect!

>_<. Hell of a ride
 
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