Absolutely. Don't sweat the sex (sounds like you aren't.) Hell, you might actually make an acquaintance or friend out of it, or nothing at all. Sometimes just having a nice interaction with someone is enough, though. Also consider that from the sound of things, she's going through a transitional phase (even if it's just a move,) and there's no telling what her mindset, motivations, or needs are right now. Change can be tough.
Whatever the case, you made a net positive thread on Era. That's an accomplishment. :)
Could just be that time of the month, give it time, play it cool... next week after dinner time ask if she has a wine opener ;-)
In the end that's all that matters my friend.
Stay positive and enjoy your life :)
❤️Hey, she gave you her number right? I mean, you are taking it good, not rushing or anything, but I wouldn't say "nothing else will come out of this"
Maybe you can call her someday and go out for a coffe?
I'll take my victories where I can, no matter how smallDid the get the sex? If not, you didnt win brother. Only partial win.
I'm afraid to look up what that term isI have an honest question: I still keep reading the "FHUTA" comment on threads like this across the interwebs. Is that generally still accepted? And here on ERA? Personally I wouldn't dare posting it but this thread has made me wonder...
Sure wish I didn't google that at work. Based on the links I saw on the page for the second I had it opened, seems pretty NSFW lolI have an honest question: I still keep reading the "FHUTA" comment on threads like this across the interwebs. Is that generally still accepted? And here on ERA? Personally I wouldn't dare posting it but this thread has made me wonder...
To perform coitus in the anal cavity.
And number and coffee invite? 🤔Uhh, nope, that's just basic etiquette. When you get acquainted with a neighbor, they tell you where they live.
Uhh, nope, that's just basic etiquette. When you get acquainted with a neighbor, they tell you where they live.
Catch up, there's been updateHe didn't mention any of that in the OP.
If there's an invitation for coffee, I'd say she wants some.
I DID IT
asked about the noise, she told all she found out, said she had to leave but then invited me to go down the elevator with her,
Then she said we should have coffee some time, followed up with the digit request, and now I have her number
All in all, a success
Big thanks to you all for the advice and for providing an entertaining thread to read
Nice! Older women are so much better than younger girls who just play games.
I'm gonna let this one play out naturally. If it happens cool, if not also, cool.
You guys gotta remember, she lives in my building lol. It's not like this is a Bumble hookup I can play a bit more risky with because we'll probably never see each other. The chances of running into her again aren't too small, I gotta do this right.
You're on fire.
The answer is no fellas, but only because I was instead invited by two cute coworkers of mine to get drinks last night so I did that instead
Smh
The answer is no fellas, but only because I was instead invited by two cute coworkers of mine to get drinks last night so I did that instead
You guys gotta remember, she lives in my building lol. It's not like this is a Bumble hookup I can play a bit more risky with because we'll probably never see each other. The chances of running into her again aren't too small, I gotta do this right.
mayyyybe
it's not entirely impossible, but the chances do grow slimmer by the dayIve only poked my head in this thread a few times, but i can tell from this response that nothing is going to happen
Not trying to rush the situation, but if this person has options and you take too long, the trail will go cold. Text tonight or tomorrow just to say hey, how bout that coffee at the very least.
The answer is no fellas, but only because I was instead invited by two cute coworkers of mine to get drinks last night so I did that instead
Hey man, I'm innocent in all this, I'm just trying to play games alone in my roomYou need to:
(1) not sleep with women in your parents' building;
(2) not sleep with people from work.
Like, are you trying to sabotage yourself? Ever hear the phrase, "don't shit where you eat?"
Anyway, I'll tag along now for the fallout.
It's cool either way, I'm chill about the whole thing. I'd rather it not happen at all than come across as either too aggressive or pushyNot trying to rush the situation, but if this person has options and you take too long, the trail will go cold. Text tonight or tomorrow just to say hey, how bout that coffee at the very least.
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I'd rather it not happen at all than come across as either too aggressive or pushy
Life too short. OP not in a committed relationship, see where the road goes.You need to:
(1) not sleep with women in your parents' building;
(2) not sleep with people from work.
Like, are you trying to sabotage yourself? Ever hear the phrase, "don't shit where you eat?"
Anyway, I'll tag along now for the fallout.
SMH at the coworkers thing....why do people do this. Work is work.