As I mentioned before, it seems everyone got caught up on the NSFW stuff, which the mod was more than happy to remove to stay partnered:
This was content that was already strictly against our server's rules and guidelines. The issue was dealt with minutes after receiving an email that there was even a problem (the problem channel was completely deleted from the server). After rectifying the issue I received an email stating our partner benefits would not be restored (the most important thing is the custom discord url).
Their issue was mostly how quickly they had their status downgraded and how unwilling Discord was to give them a second chance.
The mod also goes on to show other partnered servers that contain a big amount of slurs ("retard" was the one used against their server, so they searched the same in others), but they did not get their partner status removed.
It feels like they are actively looking for any reason they can to not restore our server. For example let's look at some other partnered servers:
https://i.imgur.com/r2HMWW5.png
https://i.imgur.com/jjzYjnu.png
https://i.imgur.com/6O7z0wr.png
I won't even post the racial slurs found in all of these Discords. Every partnered server had a non 0 amount. They are choosing to selectively pick out things as what definitely seems like targeted punishment.
Since this discussion (and myself) are just going in circles, I don't think anything else will come from this. I will conclude by repeating what I said before, that Discord was too hasty and should've talked this over with the mods of the server, instead of stripping their status and refusing to budge.