* side point here, I'm referring to the majority of people in today's society. I've got nothing against poly relationships, more power to you, but that is a minority of relationships. In terms of what I mean by monogamous, I'm referring to a pairing of two people in a romantic sense. Homosexual, heterosexual, doesn't matter.
Anyways, I was thinking about this, while watching my friend self destruct his whole life cause he loves this girl who's pretty abusive to him and he outright told me "I can't go on without her, I love her" at which point I said "you're an adult, you do you, idiot"
Anyways, is the human desire to be in a relationship something that we need or is it something that society makes us want? How important is the biological component, because it feels like society is at odds with biology now, in that a human can live a self-sustaining life independently if they want, our friendships and the nature of friendships have changed in the digital age, become more ephemeral.
Like, are people truly capable of being happy single, or do you believe that being in a partnership is what'll lead to happiness?
Like me for example, I've had a few relationships, but not long lasting. I love being independent and free to live life on my terms, but being in a relationship also feels great because you have that support structure, but there's always that baggage between two people.
* My friend's self destruction, the Jordan Peterson thing, and me in the early stages of a new relationship make me ponder these things.
Anyways, I was thinking about this, while watching my friend self destruct his whole life cause he loves this girl who's pretty abusive to him and he outright told me "I can't go on without her, I love her" at which point I said "you're an adult, you do you, idiot"
Anyways, is the human desire to be in a relationship something that we need or is it something that society makes us want? How important is the biological component, because it feels like society is at odds with biology now, in that a human can live a self-sustaining life independently if they want, our friendships and the nature of friendships have changed in the digital age, become more ephemeral.
Like, are people truly capable of being happy single, or do you believe that being in a partnership is what'll lead to happiness?
Like me for example, I've had a few relationships, but not long lasting. I love being independent and free to live life on my terms, but being in a relationship also feels great because you have that support structure, but there's always that baggage between two people.
* My friend's self destruction, the Jordan Peterson thing, and me in the early stages of a new relationship make me ponder these things.