Thinking that EA are shoving inclusion down people's throats is pretty, pretty telling. Meeting in the middle is not going to change their minds here.
Their feeling that inclusiveness is being shoved down their throat is bigger than this single issue, that speaks to the major divisions we have opening up in society now. Dangerous divisions that may have extremely negative consequences for society.
Like I said, hard banning people for not already having an approved view point is absolutely guaranteed not to change their view, to strengthen it, and on a wider scale this approach is only accelerating the divide in society.
Again, you might reply to me now that you don't care, that it's their fault, that they should know better etc. that's fine but if you genuinely do want that divide in society to be repaired then the only way to do it is through outreach, debate, understanding etc. As much as I disagree with them I don't believe their are genetic subhumans that are literally incapable of changing their world view so I have no choice but to engage with them on whatever level actually works.
Here's an example, I'm a doctor and you might often have a patient that has some unorthodox views on science/health care, and they might have a serious diagnosis that requires prompt treatment but because of those unorthodox views they may be resisting them, instead opting for some kind of herbal remedy first. I know that if they don't change their view then the consequences will be dire.
Do I tell them they are a delusional moron with outdated views and remove them from my office? Or do I try to understand where they are coming from, where the roots of their attraction to these unorthodox views come from, and then use that understanding to find a way to gradually convince them over to my point of view?
Obviously the latter, the former would cost me my license. We need to approach these issues with the same seriousness if we want to succeed.