Era, I (22M) just had sex with a woman (45F) much older than myself and liked it but I want some advice

Aliand

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Oct 28, 2017
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The only problem could be that she really shows you in and outs you just won´t have with a maybe later partner-which could lead to unfulfilled expectations because you experienced.. lets call it "advanced" sex with this woman.

what i mean is...not every person is that great in sex things and many people just don´t care about it. and when you have someone later in your life who you really are interested in or even in love with and you discover that well...the person is fine with standard 10minute sex you could end up very disappointed.

other than that...enjoy the ride and be safe.
Very good post and a point often overlooked.

Subsequent relationships can seem dull in comparison...
 

aisback

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Oct 27, 2017
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From personal experience I will say older woman can be more fun.

I wouldn't go for a relationship for her and a FWB could not end well.

Just go about your life casually and see what happens I guess.
 

4CornersTHSA

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Jun 13, 2019
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...assuming this isn’t a joke post, congrats and enjoy it while it lasts. She’s almost certainly looking for something casual, so long as y’all are on the same page you’re good.

Older women are a lot of fun. I’m lucky as hell to be marrying one next year (5 year vs 22 year difference but still).
 

SillyEskimo

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Oct 26, 2017
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When I was 22 I met a woman in her early 40’s at a fetish party. She had an instant crush on me and once we found out we shared a similar fetish she invited me to stay the following weekend at her house. I did the weekend thing 3 times until it started to get a bit weird. She was buying me things all the time and treating me like a boy toy. When I saw her family photos on the mantle and saw she had kids my age I kind of freaked out a bit and ended things shortly thereafter. She was kinky as fuck though. She knew exactly what she wanted, how she wanted it, and how to get it. I’m 45 now and it is hard to imagine she must be close to 70 lol. I am glad our short relationship happened though. I knocked several sexual bucket list items off with her.
 

Zok310

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Oct 25, 2017
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I had a buddy went thru this a few years ago. The woman was so much older than him that she had grand kids.
Told him she prolly not looking for anything other than a good lay here and there. Turns out thats all she wanted.
I would give you the same advice, plenty people are out there thats just fucky fucky, and your job is that simple.
 

deepFlaw

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Oct 25, 2017
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I was going to say “ok, good for you; why do we need to know this?” but after reading, I will add that maybe you should not have slept for the person who works for your family.
 

jacktuar

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I have a very religious family. I'm not allowed to do half the stuff most people are able to do. If they ever found out I'll probably get disowned or worse. That's why I got my own apartment, but they don't help me financially despite being well off.
Nor should they. You have independence, one of the benefits of which is you can have sex with whoever you want without having to ask people if it’s okay.
 

Christo750

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May 10, 2018
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The only problem could be that she really shows you in and outs you just won´t have with a maybe later partner-which could lead to unfulfilled expectations because you experienced.. lets call it "advanced" sex with this woman.

what i mean is...not every person is that great in sex things and many people just don´t care about it. and when you have someone later in your life who you really are interested in or even in love with and you discover that well...the person is fine with standard 10minute sex you could end up very disappointed.

other than that...enjoy the ride and be safe.
Very good point
 

Richter1887

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Oct 27, 2017
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You both just smash casually for now and if you want to expand you relationship see if you want to or not.

No need to complicate it.
 

mf.luder

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Oct 28, 2017
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Just remember OP, the next time you get a handy from this lady, that same hand was wiping your grandparents ass after they took a shit.
 

djdblgulp1

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Oct 29, 2020
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Someone needs to chart these power dynamics so I know whether to congratulate or scold OP.

Joking aside, I don’t think it’s a good idea to continue to having sex with your families housekeeper. For both of your sakes, but mostly hers.
 

Vommy

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Oct 27, 2017
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Well, congrats on the sex, dunno about the situation you are in, feels off.
 

djdblgulp1

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Oct 29, 2020
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Love that your risking being “disowned” and this lady fired so you can learn how to eat pussy from mommy maid gf and this thread is cheering you on for being sex positive or something.
 

olag

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Oct 28, 2017
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Fucking hell some people livin that good life huh 😂

Congrats on the sex now try to get it at the same time as the video game session.
 

kai3345

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Oct 25, 2017
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I have a very religious family. I'm not allowed to do half the stuff most people are able to do. If they ever found out I'll probably get disowned or worse. That's why I got my own apartment, but they don't help me financially despite being well off.
wait your family will disown you for playing video games on their big screen TV but not for boinking their maid?