She's employed by your family so its kind of weird. But hey you guys are both adults and you enjoyed yourself so why not. I would just keep it casual though.
Era, I (22M) just had sex with a woman (45F) much older than myself and liked it but I want some advice
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Have as much sex as possible .... your both consenting adults. Just don’t catch feelings unless you actually like her and there’s a connection
That's not how age differences/math work.
when he is 44 she will still be only 23 years older (67)
Watch this lady turn out to be 32 and OP just assumed she was 44 because she showed any sign of aging.
It always gets a chuckle out of me when someone in Era titles their thread like this is Reddit. I don’t know why, it’s just funny to me.
I say go for it and see what happends. I'm in a similar age gap situation and am a 36/M dating a 48/F divorcee who has 2 kids with the oldest being 21 and the youngest 14. She's a certified milf with a banging body and having a mature experienced woman who knows what she wants and doesn't play games has been a great experience for me. We've been together for 7 months and everything is going well...the sex is amazing and she is a hell of a cook always providing me with home cooked mexican food i'd never had before with her being Latina and me being black, true wifey material !
In all seriousness, people should avoid getting in relationships with men or women twice their age. There's usually a reason they're searching for kids in their early 20's (or below).
I've read hundreds of accounts on various forums and subreddits of people getting in these relationships, they almost always end in them getting mentally or physically abused.
Your brain is still developing till you're 25, and you have no experiance of actual adult life. That makes you easy prey for older predators with a lifetime of experiance, who cant abuse people their age because no one will stand for their shit.
Just a warning.
I've read hundreds of accounts on various forums and subreddits of people getting in these relationships, they almost always end in them getting mentally or physically abused.
Your brain is still developing till you're 25, and you have no experiance of actual adult life. That makes you easy prey for older predators with a lifetime of experiance, who cant abuse people their age because no one will stand for their shit.
Just a warning.
And just when I thought this thread couldn't go any better... Ahah !
Dang haven't seen congrats on the sex responses in awhile. This setup sounds awesome but probably the type of thing a 22 year old will fuck up.
OP, just have fun and enjoy it while it lasts. Try not to make it anything other than what it is.
Just be prepared though. Eventually one of you will get feelings, whether it's for each other or for someone else. You need to be prepared to deal with that.
When I was your age, I hooked up with someone in their late 30s. She was freshly divorced with kids. It worked out well for both of us because she hadn't had her needs met in years and well... I was a 23 year old male.
It was nothing more than a late night hookup after her kids went to bed.
A few months in, she asked if I'd spend the day with her and her kids. At that point I knew it was over, because I was too young and immature to deal with kids (20 years later that's still true...).
At the end of the day, it was a lot of fun and some great memories, but it was nothing more than a moment in time.
Just be prepared though. Eventually one of you will get feelings, whether it's for each other or for someone else. You need to be prepared to deal with that.
When I was your age, I hooked up with someone in their late 30s. She was freshly divorced with kids. It worked out well for both of us because she hadn't had her needs met in years and well... I was a 23 year old male.
It was nothing more than a late night hookup after her kids went to bed.
A few months in, she asked if I'd spend the day with her and her kids. At that point I knew it was over, because I was too young and immature to deal with kids (20 years later that's still true...).
At the end of the day, it was a lot of fun and some great memories, but it was nothing more than a moment in time.
As someone who is 35 and could have sworn he was just 23 years old recently....yes that's exactly how it works lol.