Thanks. I will consider Spain.Consider Spain. I’m serious. Your bilinguality in English and Spanish will be valuable there. Or consider Colombia or Argentina or Uruguay.
Also I can relate somewhat. I was born in Colombia and my family felt like that all the time in the 90s. Now Mexico has cartel problems worse than anything in Colombia today (which is why American tourists amuse me with their fear of Colombia but their adoration of Mexico vacations).
I hope you find the courage to do what’s best. You don’t have to leave everyone behind forever. There’s Skype, there’s child/spouse visas, there’s cheap plane tickets, lots of optimistic opportunities to reunite. Don’t let that stop you. At 28 I just moved out of my home state for the first time and left everything behind with my spouse. It was hard but it was the right choice for a better life!